No, it's not a crime but it's a problem.

So let me say this to you, & to single ladies like you.

If you're in your teens or early 20s, telling a man that you're a virgin & you do not want sex before marriage could be understandable.

But when are approaching 30, it becomes a
problem.

You have described yourself first, by saying that you have a car and you're comfortable taking care of yourself.

It's a good thing, but men who know what they're looking for in a wife, are not easily carried away by those things.

If at your age, the first things that

So that is what I think a lot of young married people lack.

1) patience
2) tolerance
3) discernment

I've always told us that the first 5 years of your marriage will be very challenging for most married people.

I've also shared a few screenshots between my wife and I from about 8 years ago.

If a newly married man or woman shares a DM with me, & shares similar screenshots from his wife or her husband, & I advice him or her to be patient.

Some of you will come to the comments section to scream...

"This marriage is toxic!"

"You married a beast!"

Unfortunately, men have been made to believe that women are the only ones who have biological clock.

Men too have biological clock.

You're even lucky that the ladies in their early 20s are turning you down.

Because most of them will use you.

Perhaps, they have sized you, &
figured that there is not much to "gain" from you.

And you can't blame them honestly.

You just found a job few months ago.

So you're just starting life at 40.

At your age, one would expect that you will be very capable to handle responsibilities.

But where I am a bit

Because tell me..

How can you be in a 4 year relationship, with a man that deflowered you, & everyone from your family & his, have endorsed you.

Then just because your man & you are quarreling, & because he was ignoring your calls, then you suddenly thought that the relationship was over?

Nothing else ruined her & her 4 years relationship, but her feelings.

She lost control of it when the man wasn't picking her calls.

She needed to feel "happy", and went to fuck another man not just once, but 3 times!.

Now, she's begging.

Her mother,

Today is the 31st of December 2024.

Single ladies, part of your new year resolution should be...

1) I'll stop begging men for money to eat, buy pad, and for airtime

2) I'll not cheat on my boyfriend

3) I'll drop all feminists mindset

4) I'll learn to respect my man more 5) I'll not date a yahoo boy

6) I'll not date a man that is addicted to betting or gambling

7) I'll stop hanging out with friends that are into hookup

8) I'll stop posting seductive images of myself online, & I'll start to dress more decent

9) I'll always respect my father

DMs that I love to read from young ladies.

And this is what makes alot of you young ladies misbehave.

Bad friends and young girls that are into prostitution.

They call themselves "baddies".

Olosho baddies.

Dear young girl, you're on the right path.

And unfortunately, you

cannot say that you'll not cut them off.

A bad friend is a bad friend.

It doesn't matter whether you are childhood friends.

Tell your father what they're pushing you to do, and you'll see how your father will warn you sternly.

And if your man gets to know the types of friends

Please make sure that you read to the last screenshot.

It's from a man that has obviously married the wrong wife because he met her as a virgin.

I need some of you ignorant young men to read, & read carefully.

If you fail to read & understand his DM, you'll find yourself in


this man's unfortunate but avoidable situation.

Everyday, I remind you all about what it takes to find a wife, & what it means to lead a woman.

And that if you allow a woman to trigger you unchecked, you'll become a figure head in no distance time.

You'll question your sanity.

It's quite unfortunate.

Here is a man that sponsored his wife through school and married her 12 years ago.

Things have gone bad for him financially, and his wife has become a thorn on his flesh, & peace has left his home.

Let this DM serve as another reminder that, women

are more loyal to their feelings than your sacrifices.

And that how you led her during your relationship days, will determine how she'll treat you when things go bad for you in marriage.

Regardless, it's all about the patience level of your wife.

Even if you led her well, a

Please read the conversation that I had with a 24 year old virgin.

Ensure that you read to the last screenshot 👇.

When he declined not to go abroad to study, he said he did it because of you.

He was making sure that he was carrying you along his plans.

Now the opportunity for you to go abroad has come, & he has also decided to change his mind because of you.

Meaning he has made two key


decisions about his future, career & life because of you.

Now it's your turn to make a key decision on your career path because of him.

But deep down in your mind, you cannnot do it.

Your goal is to have a career in nursing, & you've concluded in your mind that choosing him

Please read the conversation that I had with a 30 year old married man.

Ensure that you read every screenshot 👇.

For many of you single women in your 20s and in the corporate world.

Don't ignore genuine relationships in the name of I want to focus on my career.

You'll go so deep into your career and grow in it.

And by the time you get to your late 20s and early 30s, you would have gotten to mid-levels.

Some of you will even become managers in your various departments.

And you will be making reasonable amount of money.

If you're still single at this stage, you may find it very difficult to meet men who would want to take you seriously.

And because you

You say that you've been a silent follower for a year.

If you really have been paying attention, you'll not come to my DM.

But you're still lucky that you came, before you make a mistake.

See you talking about she loves you.

I've told you men several times that women don't


love men but you have refused to listen.

If you think that she loves you, why are you now in my DM?

Should you not be happy that she loves you?

Do you need my advice since she loves you?

I have also repeated, that when you break up with a lady, and then she has gone ahead to

When I was dating my wife, both of us planned our future together.

She keyed into my plans and positioned herself accordingly.

She did all that because she wanted to be my wife. Anything she wanted to do, she would discuss with me to make sure that I was okay with it.

And most importantly, she made sure that I was financially okay to start a family.

You're in an almost 2 years relationship with your girlfriend.

She's ambitious and thankfully, she has supportive parents too.

Her plans to obtain another qualification in nursing cannot, &

The fault is your mother's.

She wanted to love your father, and she married a lazy man.

She's even lucky that you're their only child.

Otherwise, she would have suffered far more than she did.

I've told you young women. Stop looking for a man that you will love and start


looking for a man that can lead you right.

If you want to love a man, you'll make costly and regrettable mistakes.

If you enable a lazy man, he'll end up resenting you, & still claim that he loves you.

Imagine a father that has only a child. Yet, he could not provide for her.

Please listen to this video, and listen with rapt attention.

I'm a father and a husband.

When I come here to admonish young men in relationship, about monetizing their relationship, I do so with deep concern & love.

What some of you young men are doing in relationships will ruin you in marriage a great deal.

Many of you have wasted scarce resources in relationships on women that you're not sure will become your wives.

And you fail to acknowledge that life is full of ups and downs.

If you monetize your relationship, you'll miss the opportunity to

For sometime, I have been posting DMs on how some men have been messing up themselves in the name of being in "love".

Both married and single men.

It's quite unfortunate that this is probably what is going on many relationships of today, and very young marriages as well. What we are all witnessing is a dearth of masculinity.

A new era where women use the brains of men to play ping pong.

And the men act, think and talk stupid.

I've been disappointed many times from the DMs that I read and some, I share.

Because many of you, I've read your

Please read to the last screenshot 👇.

It's fine.

No need to scold you because like you said, the deed has been done.

And you have made the mistake before you came across my page.

But the only reason I will advice you, is because from your story, you have not yet married her.

But she's carrying your "child".


I have put child in quote because you'll have to be sure that she's actually carrying your child when she delivers next year.

If the child turns out to be yours, all well and good. Even though I'm not sure of where you'll find the resources to carry out a paternity test.

Please read this DM, and read a screenshot from me in March of 2022.

I hope that for any single lady in this situation will think otherwise before it becomes a thing of regret in marriage.

Many of you may think that just because I say things, doesn't mean you must agree or


believe.

Indeed, I do not expect everyone to believe or agree with me always.

That would mean that I am perfect & always right, which is untrue.

But you see this DM? Take it seriously.

9/10 times, it will play out in your lives, if you fail to take heed.

Even after six years

Please make sure you read to the last screenshot.

This man's wife will soon self destruct, and it's imminent.

Young man, after reading all you wrote, it appears to me that you really do not understand women.

Or rather, you do not know your wife.

When you caution a woman on


the need to create boundaries, and her response is that you're feeling insecure, there lies your answer.

Since you came to my DM for advice, I'll tell you straight that your wife's inability to create boundaries & show respect for you, both in the presence of the men and behind