One of the reasons I advice men to allow exes remain as exes.

Anyways, there you have it.

You were fucking your two exes ad libitum, & now you're a father of one.

Perhaps, you may soon be a father of two.

Play stupid games, win stupid prices.

Regardless, shit happens.

And I'll advice you briefly.

You see that one that is in the UK?

Even if it turns out that the child is truly yours, never have anything to do with her again.

She knew the pregnancy was yours, and she was married even when you were sleeping with her.

This was why she

Honestly, I would have ignored your DM, or just posted it without a caption.

But let me say this, & I hope other young men like you take heed.

Under no circumstances must you allow a woman that rubbed her cheating & lack of boundaries back into your life.

I've said severally,


that once you've broken up with a lady, and she has gone ahead to date another man or men, you should not get back with her.

That's the unspoken rule in relationships.

You may choose to disagree, that's your business.

It will never be in your favor.

A woman that didn't find

I know that a lot of the time, women paint themselves as victims in their stories, but I'll assume that your story is exactly as you've told me.

If it's possible to chat with the man, it'll help me make a better & informed advice to you, & by extension, him.

I also know that


some men can be very incorrigible, and some pay attention to the wrong things in finding a wife.

If all what you said is true, then your man is going to make a grave error.

It's even worse to know that he's 40, & thinking like a man in his 20s.

Who, or what is a virgin?

About two years ago, a man came to my DM to narrate how he caught his girlfriend stealing his foodstuff to take home to her family.

He was so disappointed. And he later found out that it was her mother that was instigating her too.

Here is a similar DM. Only that in his case, his girlfriend is not stealing it.

She cooks for him in his house, and takes home some to her mother.

And sometimes, it's on her mother's request.

I'll tell you what I know.

It's not a good thing. And deep down, you know it's not a good thing, that's why you're in my DM.

One silly man that is stupidly in love will read that DM, & won't take corrections immediately.

Look at the posts that I shared with that man in the DM, some of them were as old as 2 years.

Over the years, I've been consistently saying the same things, to help you men make sound, logical and well informed decisions before you marry a wife.

But instead of some of you to take heed, you foolishly allow women ruin your peace & mental health.

All because you think that you're in love.

That's a marriage of 11 years that is about to hit the rocks.

Please read the conversation that I had with a 35 year old married woman 👇.

This is why I always advice young ladies to make hay while the sun shines.

Your 20s is for you to spend good time, making the right choice of a husband.

And your 30s and beyond, is for you to start making good choices as a wife and mother.

If you play around in your 20s, you will be faced with men that you'll be making silly excuses for, in your 30s.

Once you're 24 and unmarried, quit all the nonsense that you're doing, & look for a man with good prospects, and lock him down.

Stop lying to yourself that because men are chasing you, then men will

A few weeks ago, I said that a woman's greatest enemy is not a woman.

And that it's her feelings.

This DM you're about to read, will explain it to you, in much detail.

It's a sad but very common tale that happens when certain situations play out in relationships.

And another


reminder to men that are in their 30s, dating girls in thier early 20s.

Please read my advice to her carefully too.

Young lady, I've read your story, and in all honesty, I do not completely blame you.

You met your man when you were 18 and he was in his 30s.

You gave him your

You've done well, & she has done well.

I love how you insisted that you won't give her, despite spending on foodstuff and taking care of her when she visited.

If you've given her like that, she'll start to feel entitled to it anytime.

The next time she visits & buys you stuff, give her some money & tell her it's for all the things she has been buying each time she visits.

That you appreciate her for her kindness.

Continue your relationship this way, & she'll begin to accept the reality.

Then once in a while, just dash her money.

You'll see

Good morning.

Please be adviced that there are some gory images in the screenshots.

A cheating woman that has been caught is a dangerous woman.

Make sure that you read to the last screenshot.

This happened recently in Uganda.

End.

Like I said a few days ago.

I do not have anything to prove to anyone, anymore.

If some of you think that I just conjure thoughts out of the figment of my immaginations, good luck to you.

You all read the thread that I wrote last night about forgiving a cheating woman that


that has been caught.

If you are still in doubt, perhaps, this DM will clear your doubts.

Read what a man is narrating about his wife, & tell me if this man is not living with his potential murderer?

Despite catching his wife cheating, & forgiving her, she continued unabated

Men, read.

Your women can try to gaslight you to believe that I'm making you hate/suspect them.

But when you see the signs that I've taught you, please do not ignore them.

This one is lucky that it didn't happen in marriage.

Same applies for marriage & relationship.

Notice that he said that immediately he discovered her secrets, she started fighting him.

It took him over 2 hours to overpower her.

And when she knew that he had seen all the dirty details, she started to pack her things.

Does this not tell you that a woman instinctively

We will have more cheating married women series.

But let me say a few things.

And I hope that you read this thread with an open mind, not your religious or hypocritical mind.

Women from history, have always been painted as "saints" & a gender that cannot hurt a fly. May be because of their feeble nature, or that because men are physically stronger.

But in this same history, we have never read where a powerful man brought down a woman.

A follower mentioned the other day that men should not beware of women.

Rather, men should be aware of

This is why I always advice young men to stay close to their fathers and elderly men.

You may not like what I'll tell you, but I'll say it.

You have gone about your relationship the wrong way.

And you've bred entitlement into her family.

These are not things a boyfriend
should be doing.

You're "bribing" your girlfriend's family to be in a relationship with their daughter.

I'm surprised that her parents are indulging you.

Especially her father.

It's wrong and I'll advice you to go & discuss this with your father or any elderly man, & you'll

I feel you.

It seems to me, that you've been having this financial difficulty for quite sometime.

And your marriage is still young.

In my 6th year in marriage, I lost my job. While I saw the fear in my wife, I didn't observe any form of disrespect because of that.

And it did
not take too long before I got another job.

Despite dating my wife for 9 years, I still had fear in me, unsure of how things would pan out in my marriage.

It could have lasted longer, & she remained the same. But don't forget, a woman is a woman.

The difference is that some

Yesterday, small boys with no experience, or that are still single, were busy yapping trash online about women making more money than their husbands.

Please read this DM, and read it to the last screenshot.

The DM will sound like a movie, but it's a real life story of a man


who witnessed the wrath of a woman who was making money, & he wasn't.

And how she cheated on him severally.

When he caught her, she became very dangerous, disrespectful & vile towards him.

This is the umpteenth time that you all will be reading similar stories.

If you think

Please read this DM from a 31 year old lady, & please read my advice to her carefully.

It's unfortunate that she and her fiancé find themselves in this situation.

Before I decided to advice her, I discussed her DM with my wife.

You may not like my advice to her, but it has to

be said.

You're 31 and your man is 33.

Unfortunately, he has been jobless for almost a year.

And we're not God to predict when he will find another job.

I've always said that women don't love men. And that what a woman should look out for, is a man that can lead her, & give

The first man on earth that a woman should respect & hold in high esteem, is her father.

If she doesn't see her father that way, then she'll hardly see the need to respect & regard her man.

It's not in her, & she cannot give what she doesn't have.

How then can you tell if a woman doesn't regard her father?

1) During conversations, it's almost going to be... "My mother this, and my mother that".

2) Any woman that sexualises herself online, where the whole world can see, & without fear of what her father will say or do. Because if she has respect

Please read this DM from a 32 year old married man, and ignore some typos.

You'll understand him.

I need men, especially married men to read it, & please, read my submission to it carefully.

As a husband, one of your responsibilities is that you're to pay the school fees


of your children.

His concern in this DM, is that his wife has not been honest with him.

And it has to do with the payment of the school fees of thier children.

As you read, you'll understand what his wife is doing, & I'll explain why I think what she's doing is not entirely

"I know that I shouldn't be doing this"

Then why are you doing it?

You lose your dignity and beauty in the sight of a man, the moment you beg him for money.

The next thing that will come to his mind is..

"is this how she goes about begging men for money?"

Didn't your parents raise you properly?

"my gas is finished"

"I want to eat sharwama"

"Sub for me"

Why can't you beg your fellow women?

It's because you know what you're doing.

You're baiting the man with your toto.

Not knowing that you're selling yourself cheap like a street prostitute.

No, you cannot, & should not go back to her.

Your ex girlfriend is no longer the same person you used to know.

She has gone to be with another man.

I agree that it was your fault that she left, but she shouldn't have left.

As a man, you felt like a failure because your


business crashed.

And you didn't want her to witness what you were going through.

One question you should ask yourself is this..

Why didn't the man or men that she dated after she left, marry her?

Now she's 30.

3 years after she left your broke ass, & she could not still