Please read the conversation that I had with a 24 year old virgin.

Ensure that you read to the last screenshot 👇.

When he declined not to go abroad to study, he said he did it because of you.

He was making sure that he was carrying you along his plans.

Now the opportunity for you to go abroad has come, & he has also decided to change his mind because of you.

Meaning he has made two key


decisions about his future, career & life because of you.

Now it's your turn to make a key decision on your career path because of him.

But deep down in your mind, you cannnot do it.

Your goal is to have a career in nursing, & you've concluded in your mind that choosing him

Please read the conversation that I had with a 30 year old married man.

Ensure that you read every screenshot 👇.

For many of you single women in your 20s and in the corporate world.

Don't ignore genuine relationships in the name of I want to focus on my career.

You'll go so deep into your career and grow in it.

And by the time you get to your late 20s and early 30s, you would have gotten to mid-levels.

Some of you will even become managers in your various departments.

And you will be making reasonable amount of money.

If you're still single at this stage, you may find it very difficult to meet men who would want to take you seriously.

And because you

You say that you've been a silent follower for a year.

If you really have been paying attention, you'll not come to my DM.

But you're still lucky that you came, before you make a mistake.

See you talking about she loves you.

I've told you men several times that women don't


love men but you have refused to listen.

If you think that she loves you, why are you now in my DM?

Should you not be happy that she loves you?

Do you need my advice since she loves you?

I have also repeated, that when you break up with a lady, and then she has gone ahead to

When I was dating my wife, both of us planned our future together.

She keyed into my plans and positioned herself accordingly.

She did all that because she wanted to be my wife. Anything she wanted to do, she would discuss with me to make sure that I was okay with it.

And most importantly, she made sure that I was financially okay to start a family.

You're in an almost 2 years relationship with your girlfriend.

She's ambitious and thankfully, she has supportive parents too.

Her plans to obtain another qualification in nursing cannot, &

The fault is your mother's.

She wanted to love your father, and she married a lazy man.

She's even lucky that you're their only child.

Otherwise, she would have suffered far more than she did.

I've told you young women. Stop looking for a man that you will love and start


looking for a man that can lead you right.

If you want to love a man, you'll make costly and regrettable mistakes.

If you enable a lazy man, he'll end up resenting you, & still claim that he loves you.

Imagine a father that has only a child. Yet, he could not provide for her.

Please listen to this video, and listen with rapt attention.

I'm a father and a husband.

When I come here to admonish young men in relationship, about monetizing their relationship, I do so with deep concern & love.

What some of you young men are doing in relationships will ruin you in marriage a great deal.

Many of you have wasted scarce resources in relationships on women that you're not sure will become your wives.

And you fail to acknowledge that life is full of ups and downs.

If you monetize your relationship, you'll miss the opportunity to

For sometime, I have been posting DMs on how some men have been messing up themselves in the name of being in "love".

Both married and single men.

It's quite unfortunate that this is probably what is going on many relationships of today, and very young marriages as well. What we are all witnessing is a dearth of masculinity.

A new era where women use the brains of men to play ping pong.

And the men act, think and talk stupid.

I've been disappointed many times from the DMs that I read and some, I share.

Because many of you, I've read your

Please read to the last screenshot 👇.

It's fine.

No need to scold you because like you said, the deed has been done.

And you have made the mistake before you came across my page.

But the only reason I will advice you, is because from your story, you have not yet married her.

But she's carrying your "child".


I have put child in quote because you'll have to be sure that she's actually carrying your child when she delivers next year.

If the child turns out to be yours, all well and good. Even though I'm not sure of where you'll find the resources to carry out a paternity test.

Please read this DM, and read a screenshot from me in March of 2022.

I hope that for any single lady in this situation will think otherwise before it becomes a thing of regret in marriage.

Many of you may think that just because I say things, doesn't mean you must agree or


believe.

Indeed, I do not expect everyone to believe or agree with me always.

That would mean that I am perfect & always right, which is untrue.

But you see this DM? Take it seriously.

9/10 times, it will play out in your lives, if you fail to take heed.

Even after six years

Please make sure you read to the last screenshot.

This man's wife will soon self destruct, and it's imminent.

Young man, after reading all you wrote, it appears to me that you really do not understand women.

Or rather, you do not know your wife.

When you caution a woman on


the need to create boundaries, and her response is that you're feeling insecure, there lies your answer.

Since you came to my DM for advice, I'll tell you straight that your wife's inability to create boundaries & show respect for you, both in the presence of the men and behind

I think you are even lucky that your husband didn't see it as a red flag ab initio, even if he had his reservations.

And from what you narrated to me, you can clearly see why he had his reservations before deciding to get married to you.

Let me just warn you ahead of time.

If you don't balance your relationship with your mother, & your relationship with your husband, you'll have problems in your marriage.

And if care is not taken, your mother will soon instigate you against your husband, and you'll go back to your father's house.

And she has

A lot of you men have made yourselves look so cheap, that you accept the bare minimum from women.

You don't think far ahead.

You're all about now & how "sweet" she is to you.

You're more concerned with if the woman you're dating loves you, than if she respects you & will submit to you as a wife.

Some of you habe worked so hard in life, & have been through hell.

But because of toto, you lose your sense of reasoning, & get yourself entangled with an undeserving woman.

I've taken a bit of time to point out why it's important that you make your

One of the reasons I advice men to allow exes remain as exes.

Anyways, there you have it.

You were fucking your two exes ad libitum, & now you're a father of one.

Perhaps, you may soon be a father of two.

Play stupid games, win stupid prices.

Regardless, shit happens.

And I'll advice you briefly.

You see that one that is in the UK?

Even if it turns out that the child is truly yours, never have anything to do with her again.

She knew the pregnancy was yours, and she was married even when you were sleeping with her.

This was why she

Honestly, I would have ignored your DM, or just posted it without a caption.

But let me say this, & I hope other young men like you take heed.

Under no circumstances must you allow a woman that rubbed her cheating & lack of boundaries back into your life.

I've said severally,


that once you've broken up with a lady, and she has gone ahead to date another man or men, you should not get back with her.

That's the unspoken rule in relationships.

You may choose to disagree, that's your business.

It will never be in your favor.

A woman that didn't find

I know that a lot of the time, women paint themselves as victims in their stories, but I'll assume that your story is exactly as you've told me.

If it's possible to chat with the man, it'll help me make a better & informed advice to you, & by extension, him.

I also know that


some men can be very incorrigible, and some pay attention to the wrong things in finding a wife.

If all what you said is true, then your man is going to make a grave error.

It's even worse to know that he's 40, & thinking like a man in his 20s.

Who, or what is a virgin?

About two years ago, a man came to my DM to narrate how he caught his girlfriend stealing his foodstuff to take home to her family.

He was so disappointed. And he later found out that it was her mother that was instigating her too.

Here is a similar DM. Only that in his case, his girlfriend is not stealing it.

She cooks for him in his house, and takes home some to her mother.

And sometimes, it's on her mother's request.

I'll tell you what I know.

It's not a good thing. And deep down, you know it's not a good thing, that's why you're in my DM.

One silly man that is stupidly in love will read that DM, & won't take corrections immediately.

Look at the posts that I shared with that man in the DM, some of them were as old as 2 years.

Over the years, I've been consistently saying the same things, to help you men make sound, logical and well informed decisions before you marry a wife.

But instead of some of you to take heed, you foolishly allow women ruin your peace & mental health.

All because you think that you're in love.

That's a marriage of 11 years that is about to hit the rocks.

Please read the conversation that I had with a 35 year old married woman 👇.