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Harsh truths I know at 32 I wish I knew at 22.

1. Most of your friends aren’t really your friends.

(a visual thread) Image
2. You’ll only see your loved ones a few more times.

3. You’ll literally never know what you want to be when you grow up.

4. Most people don’t really care about you. Image
5. You should never bet against a person who just keeps showing up.

6. You probably won’t be remembered or have a legacy.

7. You can tell everything you need to know about a person by observing how they treat service workers.

8. Showing up early pays off handsomely. Image
9. Most of the people you look up to are remarkably unremarkable.

10. Most of us need fewer friends and more intellectual sparring partners.

11. If it seems too good to be rue, it probably is. Image
12. Being kind to people is the only real life hack. Image
13. You can get damn far in life by just saying what you’re going to do and then doing it.

14. Hard work is not overrated.

15. Failure doesn’t always lead to growth. Image
16. We should all stop talking about how many books we read last year. Image
17. You’re probably being held back by your unwillingness to ask.

18. You don’t need to have an opinion on everything.

19. Waking up early is the easiest way to improve your odds of success. Image
20. The world is not fair. Image
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I accidentally posted an old version of one visual…

17. You’re probably being held back by your unwillingness to ask.

18. You don’t need to have an opinion on everything.

19. Waking up early is the easiest way to improve your odds of success. Image
This piece is not intended to be dark or morbid.

If you took it that way, I’d encourage you to consider it again.

It's intended to make you think—to hopefully question some underlying (yet flawed) assumptions and spark active discussion with those around you.
My personal story with #2 is very real…

In May 2021, I had a conversation with a friend that changed my life.

I was talking about living in California—so far away from my parents in Boston—when my friend asked how often I saw them and how old they were.

I said I saw them… twitter.com/i/web/status/1… Image

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May 17
This Reddit post hit me hard. Image
A few of the responses:

“The graveyard is full of ‘irreplaceable’ and ‘important’ people.”

“I don’t remember what I was working on, I can’t tell you why it was important. But I can tell you how my not being there made my kids feel.”

Really makes you think about tradeoffs. ImageImage
I am of two minds on this topic:

1. Being present and spending time with your children is the most important thing.

2. Having your children see you work hard on things you care about is a principle they’ll remember for the rest of their lives.

My goal is to balance 1 and 2.
Read 11 tweets
May 16
On May 16, 2022, we welcomed our son to the world.

I had spent my whole life striving for more—deferring happiness to the next achievement.

Holding him in my arms, I realized: This will always be enough.

Never let your quest for more distract you from the beauty of enough. ImageImage
It’s been one year of laughter and joy unlike anything I’ve ever felt.

But it’s also been one year that flew by with terrifying speed.

Please, please slow down… Image
I spent most of my teens and 20s saying I didn’t want to have kids.

Now I can’t imagine not being a Dad. It’s the single most fulfilling “job” I’ll ever have.

Funny how that happens.
Read 7 tweets
May 13
Walk like you have *4,000* ancestors behind you. Image
I first heard that quote—attributed to an ancient African proverb—around the time when my son was born.

It hit hard.

How many tiny moments contributed to you being here right now?

You’re never alone. You’ve got an army behind you.
Makes me think of the generational level of this classic from @waitbutwhy:

Your single “green line” through history to the present moment is a miracle.

The infinite expanse of “green lines” before you is a privilege to be cherished. Image
Read 8 tweets
May 11
Friendship and social connection are essential for health.

Loneliness kills... Image
This is a serious problem.

Lack of social connection is associated with a significant increase in all cause mortality risk.

Loneliness and social isolation have been exhibited to increase dementia risk by 50% in older adults. ImageImage
This chart from the U.S. Surgeon General report shows the connectivity between social connection and health.

Social connection impacts biology (stress hormones, gene expression), psychology (purpose), and behaviors (activity, nutrition, sleep).

These in turn impact health. Image
Read 8 tweets
May 9
The Spotlight Effect

(a visual thread) Image
The Spotlight Effect is an egocentric bias. Image
The phrase Spotlight Effect was coined by a group of psychologists in 2000. Image
Read 14 tweets
May 7
A recent survey looked at trends in American values.

The results are shocking... Image
The WSJ survey of 1,019 adults was conducted with NORC at the University of Chicago, an independent research organization.

Respondents were asked whether specific values were "very important" to them.

The analysis looked at changes since the first WSJ survey was run in 1998.
The surface level findings...

Values with declining importance:

• Hard work
• Having children
• Community involvement
• Religion
• Patriotism

Values with increasing importance:

• Money Image
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