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Christian moms calling me a "groomer" is the ultimate irony. 😆
#exvangelical #queermom
You know where I and thousands of other kids were groomed, abused, sexually assaulted, manipulated, controlled, brainwashed, beaten, & silenced? Yeah it wasn't Pride parades or drag story hours.

It was in your fucking churches.
You know where I learned consent & that my body belonged to me, that I could say no to my spouse, that men didn't own my body, that they could control themselves, that I could be who I was without shame?

Queer spaces.
And that's it, isn't it? If you wree actually afraid of people grooming your kids, you'd never step foot in a church or church camp again.

But that's not what your afraid of.

You're afraid of them learning you're full of bullshit.
You're afraid they'll learn that being gay is normal. That gender is a spectrum not a binary, suffocating box they have to fit in.

You're afraid that you'll lose control over them. That they'll become someone you've been taught is an aberration, an abomination, unworthy.
Your fears have nothing to do with your kids falling prey to predators because you still take them 3 x a week to the 1 place they're most likely to be preyed on.

Stop lying to yourself. Stop letting your own fears hurt your kids.
And fucking stop making me & people like me the scapegoat for your fears and failures and small-minded worldview that's dying the death it deserves.

Your kids will be who they are, either because of you or in spite of you.

Your choice.
YOUR CHURCHES taught me that my 8yo legs were tempting to grown ass men so y'all can take ALL the seats.

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We. Are. Working. Some of us more than 1 job.

We DO have a worker shortage but it has NOTHING to do with the GOP narrative that says no one wants to work.
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Which I thought was really brilliant. This pastor recognized that his members needed to get their heads out of the propaganda & connect with folks in their church they trust to see how important vaccines are. He led by example too.
Any church leadership who cares about their community needs to step up & do the same. Rock that boat, address people's fears, point them to facts, lead by example. Recognize that church folks are susceptible & leaders have influence & can use it to overcome antivax propaganda.
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