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@jon_d_doe

Sep 9

I don't know if it's lack of sincerity of purpose, or that you think your parents or siblings are not expecting you to have a boyfriend or girlfriend at your adult age, that's why some of you date in the shadows.

If you cannot introduce your man or woman to your one sibling

at least, within few months of dating, then you're not helping yourself.

Especially if you're above 23.

Your parents will not tell you to go and have sex, or date someone.

But they would be asking you why are you not bringing anyone to them, wheh they begin to sense that

time is of the essence for you.

You cannot blame your parents for that.

They don't follow you everywhere, & they expect that the good upbringing that they have given to you, should be your guide in making key decisions concerning your life.

Introducing your man or woman to

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Aug 31

So, as single men.

Please know that the ball is in your court.

Shame is really an important feature you must look out for in both the woman you're dating, & her mother.

Do not choose your wife without first choosing her mother.

This is a life hack you must never joke with.

If her mother is late, there are people who knew her.

All it will take is for you to ask questions.

Do this directly or by proxy.

Even if both of you met abroad.

For her father, you don't need to ask much questions.

If she regards her father, you'll know through her.

But she'll hide who her mother really is from you.

Everyone likes to portray their mother as an "angel".

But will not hesitate to throw their father under the bus at the slightest opportunity that they get.

But the elephant in the room is her mother.

You must be convinced

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Aug 28

You see...

There are lots of things to unpack in relationship dynamics.

Which is why I am a strong advocate of building and bonding.

You see this mentality of women waiting for men at the finish line?

It mostly doesn't always go well.

A man has been single for a long time.

And during those periods, he devoted his time to work & achieving financial stability.

It's good for men to work hard and achieve financial stability.

But the downside to this is that if he meets a young lady that hasn't achieved as much, he would be looking down on her.

Even if he decides to marry her, he'll feel like he did her and her family a huge favour.

She will hardly have a say in that marriage or relationship.

And then what happens?

She'll start to feel unloved, resentment & used.

She'll feel that she hasn't earned her place.

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Aug 24

My lovely wife and I were at par in terms of social status, academic background.

When we graduated, we were earning about the same amount of salary.

She could buy herself basic things, & never begged me for money.

But she asked that we defer our wedding because she didn't

feel I was there yet, to take up the responsibility of a husband and by extension, a father.

So I had to step up, and started earning far more than she was earning.

Then we got married.

But she lost her job few years into our marriage, and has never worked since then.

In marriage, I experienced a woman that was never entitled or greedy.

Her family never called me for one day, to complain of no food, gas, light or whatever.

They allowed us live our lives as young couples, and gave us their support whichever ways they could.

My wife was calm,

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Aug 23

He's not married yet, but please read.

I understand him to a very large extent.

But in other not to mislead some ignorant or inexperienced minds, I'll explain in brief.

Especially because of what he said in the last screenshot.

When I was young and dating my wife, sex was

very frequent and it was done multiple times in a day.

But after some months, I started struggling to keep up, and sometimes, maintain erection.

It got so bad that I started becoming afraid of myself.

I met an uncle, and told him what I was experiencing.

His response?

"Young man, give yourself a break. There is nothing wrong with you".

And in truth, I got my vibe back after some weeks of no sex.

But this is where I'm heading to.

I those periods that I experienced sexual fatigue, I still did not feel tired of my wife or the relationship.

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@jon_d_doe

Aug 5

A young lady of 22 was in my DM this morning.

The image below depicts what her boyfriend is doing.

Relationship of almost 2 years.

He doesn't like her coming to see him, whenever she's on her period.

I recall that last year, I made a post where I asked women to target when

they're in their period, to go visit their men.

And that they should study how he treats them, compared to when they visit & not on their period.

This is very important if you have been in a long term relationship.

Many of you will discover that your boyfriends are mostly

excited whenever you visit them, & they have sex with you.

And would act mostly cold, when you're visiting and on your period.

It's that bad that even some of you ladies apologise to your men for being in your period.

You even on your own, cancel your visit because your

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