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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jul 23

Time & patience, are the enemies of a good advice.

For those of you that have been following me for at least 3 years.

I want to believe that you probably regret not listening to me 3 years ago.

If you were 21 then, you're 24 today.

If you were 25 then, you're 28 today.

These days, you see me bring back posts as old as 3 years ago to validate the present day.

There is nothing that I say in 2024, that I did not say in 2021.

I just refine them & keep reminding you with love & caution.

Some of you were not single mothers 3 years ago, but you're

today.

Is it this 2024 that I started warning against being a single mother?

Some of you were not into yahoo 3 years ago, but you are today.

Is it this 2024 that I started warning against doing illegitimate things?

Some of you were married 3 years ago, but today, your

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jul 22

The truth about your sister is that she's damaged emotionally & mentally.

There is almost no redemption for her.

I'll tell you exactly why she's damaged.

From your story, she's a single mother of an 11 year old child.

That was the first time she damaged herself.

Then she met

another man.

Both of them keep breaking up and dating other people.

And she didn't listen to anyone.

Even seeing you people as enemies of "progress".

Then she went to Abuja and met another older man whose kids are married.

The man wanted to marry her, but she still could

not bring herself together.

She called off the introduction & the next day, she's back with her ex.

Let me say this to young girls and I hope you'll take it in good fate.

The more men that you sleep with, the more baggage you'll be carrying.

And the less you'll be able to

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jul 20

If you meet a man when he's supposed to be busy chasing his career & building his future, & he's always the one reaching out to you.

He's not serious with his life.

A serious minded man thinks more about his financial stability than he thinks about his emotional stability.

That doesn't mean that he's not interested in being in a relationship with you, or anyone else.

But he has done the chase.

And like I always tell you ladies, once a man hits, he will withdraw.

A young man that is building his career will focus more on his career than his

relationship.

Especially when he's just meeting you.

You'll have to be patient with him & wait until he sees the value in you.

Calling him everytime and complaining will make him start to avoid you.

He knows that the world will not show him pity if he fails.

Unlike you the

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jul 17

https://twitter.com/jon_d_doe/status/1813617477051662376

Let me break down this post.

While it may seem to be "favorable" to men, I actuality penned it down to alert women to be self aware.

Even if some know this & pretend not to know.

It's important that whenever you see me write things like this, you take note so as to guard

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yourselves from unnecessary regrets.

1. For a woman in a serious relationship, there are secrets you know your man should never get to know.

Unfortunately, if he gets to know, you will not see him as the same.

But at the same time, that doesn't mean that you become too free

with a man that is not your man.

If you let your guards down & open your mouth like a parrot, you'll become too vulnerable to him.

And before you know it...

"I thought we were just friends"

"we shouldn't be doing this"

But the deed has been done & if your man gets to find

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jul 12

When I started dating my wife, she was broke.

And I was also broke.

And we dated for 9 years.

So when I see some young men saying..

"don't date broke girls"

I just think that they're ignorant.

How much do you have as a young man?

If you think that you have money, why

don't you go and get married?

You open your two naked eyes to go and chase a girl that is obviously living above her means, and you come online to spew gibberish.

Some of the married men you see today, if you saw their wives when they first started dating, you won't want to

date them.

You'll call them low class or "hungry".

When in fact, it's hungry girls that you're currently dating or meeting, & you call them "broke".

A hungry girl is a girl that is living above her means.

And a hungry will cheat on you.

A hungry girl is most likely going

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jul 9

Dear young men,

I'll appeal to you to take sometime and read this DM to the last screenshot.

And for everyone to read it, I'll not post for the next 2 hours after this.

It's important that you read through this married man's story, so that you'll not make the same mistakes

that he has to made.

Everyday, I come here to painstakingly pen down what you should do and look out for, before you get married.

It's unfortunate that a lot of our parents do not counsel their children well enough, before they decide to get married.

In his case, his mother

saw the signs, but his father didn't or couldn't.

Here is a young man that only cohabited with his wife for less than 2 weeks.

And it was a LDR.

He didn't vet his wife and he didn't vet her family.

Most importantly, he didn't vet her mother.

As you read his story, you'll

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