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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jun 13

When I talked about a woman investing in you, and you investing in the future of both of you, this is not what I meant.

At 23, you're feeding and acting like a mother for a 26 year old man.

It has not occurred to you yet, that you're enabling him & that he's using you?

How can you pay almost a million naira in rent for a jobless man?

And additional 500k for a non-existent business?

You're talking about cohabiting with him, has it not occurred to you that, by virtue of paying his rent for him, he's the one that will have to be living with you?

And now, he is asking you to live in the house that you paid the rent for a long term, against the 6 months that you intend to live.

He's asking you to do that because you're his cash cow.

And if you're at close proximity with him, everything will be easy for him.

I support

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jun 10

Hmmm.

Please read this DM.

And I hope you young ladies learn from it.

Dear young man,

It's unfortunate that what you thought you had, may soon come to an end.

Not because your girlfriend has not tried, but because she has used her unchecked tongue and lack of wisdom to

ruin her relationship of almost two years.

And she opened her mouth to tell you that the reason she cheated on her ex, was because he cheated on her.

I am a man, and I know how such words make you feel.

What she told you indirectly is that if you cheat on her, she too will

cheat.

Within a week of starting a relationship with you, she also cheated on you.

And there she was, trying to gaslight you that it wasn't cheating because both of you just started dating at the time.

Tell me...

If you had not checked her phone, would you have found out

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jun 6

You cannot be above 25 years of age, and be doing long distance relationship with a man.

You're wasting your time, & taking unnecessary risks.

Yes, close distance relationships can eventually lead to a long distance relationship.

But you have both been with each other for a

while before that.

And even when your relationship is about to become long distance, both of you must have a plan to reunite within a short time frame.

Long distance relationship is unhealthy.

It breeds lack of trust, unnecessary emotional roller coaster, & denies you the

opportunity to bond via cohabitation.

All you ladies that come online to look for Abroad men are delusional & greedy.

You ignore the men around you, avoid building with him, & to earn your place in his life.

Rather, you decide to go fall in "love" with abroad men that you do

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 31

Your husband is right.

You know what you're doing, & this is typical of almost every woman.

What you're doing is testing the waters and looking for ways to make some of your bad behaviors a norm.

But your husband understands that a woman should be treated how they ought to

be treated, and not how they wish to be treated.

He corrects or admonishes you in one thing, then you go ahead to do another albeit, almost similar.

Meaning you want to find a way to make your husband accept that behavior of yours, & stop complaining.

It cannot work for you.

And if you don't caution yourself, you'll start to lose your husband gradually.

What you'll notice is that he will be ignoring you, and spending more time outside, and just comes home to eat, sleep, & sometimes fuck.

You'll no longer be feeling the intimate connection from

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 14

Whenever I tell you young men that, before you choose your wife, choose her mother.

This DM is another typical example.

And unfortunately for this young man, he's surrounded by women and not close to his father.

But I want to believe that God is trying to save him from

destruction, & has directed him to my DM.

If only he will listen to me.

To start with, that 5m idea that you're planning to invest in her business, you better cancel it from your head.

And just because you met her a virgin, doesn't make her immune from any proper vetting.

You're dating a lady that has a bad mother.

And her mother is a divorcee like your late mother.

How can your girlfriend's mother tell your girlfriend that she was happy that your mother is dead, so that she'll not have a competition?

How can your girlfriend's mother demand

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 9

Let me say a few things.

A man that approaches a lady for the first time, saying that he wants to date you for marriage, may be a potential red flag.

Especially if the lady is in her late 20s and 30s.

When a lady is at this stage in her life, she becomes an easy prey for

Men.

So don't get easily carried away.

The irony of it is that even the man doesn't understand that, the "pick up line" could be to his own detriment.

He thinks he is trying to play smart.

Should he not realise this, that lady will take undue advantage of his foolishness.

Once you meet a lady within that range, men need to be cautious.

While it's not advisable to date women within that age range if you do not plan to marry them, you still must go through the vetting process.

A woman that you have promised marriage from the get-go is a woman

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