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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jan 11

No, it's not a crime but it's a problem.

So let me say this to you, & to single ladies like you.

If you're in your teens or early 20s, telling a man that you're a virgin & you do not want sex before marriage could be understandable.

But when are approaching 30, it becomes a

problem.

You have described yourself first, by saying that you have a car and you're comfortable taking care of yourself.

It's a good thing, but men who know what they're looking for in a wife, are not easily carried away by those things.

If at your age, the first things that

you want to give as a condition to a grown man is "no sex before marriage" or that you're a virgin, it will put him off.

Do you know why?

It gives the impression that, it's the major thing you hold most important.

And it scares them away.

Should he deflower you before

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jan 9

So that is what I think a lot of young married people lack.

1) patience
2) tolerance
3) discernment

I've always told us that the first 5 years of your marriage will be very challenging for most married people.

I've also shared a few screenshots between my wife and I from

about 8 years ago.

If a newly married man or woman shares a DM with me, & shares similar screenshots from his wife or her husband, & I advice him or her to be patient.

Some of you will come to the comments section to scream...

"This marriage is toxic!"

"You married a beast!"

But many of you will not know that I'm using experience to advice him or her.

Even the person that came for advice may not agree with my advice.

Marriage becomes toxic when there is constant and extreme domestic violence or abuse.

Or constant and extreme emotional abuse.

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jan 1

Unfortunately, men have been made to believe that women are the only ones who have biological clock.

Men too have biological clock.

You're even lucky that the ladies in their early 20s are turning you down.

Because most of them will use you.

Perhaps, they have sized you, &

figured that there is not much to "gain" from you.

And you can't blame them honestly.

You just found a job few months ago.

So you're just starting life at 40.

At your age, one would expect that you will be very capable to handle responsibilities.

But where I am a bit

concerned, is the fact that you're also unable to find ladies in their 30s to date at least.

It's either you have lost the ability to woo and convince women, or you're not trying but you have not met the one that likes you yet.

Are single ladies in their 30s mostly arrogant?

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Jan 1

Because tell me..

How can you be in a 4 year relationship, with a man that deflowered you, & everyone from your family & his, have endorsed you.

Then just because your man & you are quarreling, & because he was ignoring your calls, then you suddenly thought that the

relationship was over?

Nothing else ruined her & her 4 years relationship, but her feelings.

She lost control of it when the man wasn't picking her calls.

She needed to feel "happy", and went to fuck another man not just once, but 3 times!.

Now, she's begging.

Her mother,

his mother, and everyone that loved her would be disappointed.

And now she's 24.

And the man wants to marry her next year when she'll be 25.

Let's all believe that the man will no longer continue the relationship (which I doubt), where would she start from?

All her sacrifices

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Dec 31, 2024

Today is the 31st of December 2024.

Single ladies, part of your new year resolution should be...

1) I'll stop begging men for money to eat, buy pad, and for airtime

2) I'll not cheat on my boyfriend

3) I'll drop all feminists mindset

4) I'll learn to respect my man more

5) I'll not date a yahoo boy

6) I'll not date a man that is addicted to betting or gambling

7) I'll stop hanging out with friends that are into hookup

8) I'll stop posting seductive images of myself online, & I'll start to dress more decent

9) I'll always respect my father

and stay close to him.

10) I'll not be a single mother

11) If I have issues with my boyfriend, I'll not ask for a breakup. And I'll not use the opportunity to go & see another man

12) I'll stop listening to podcasts that are destructive to me, & I'll not join groups of only

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Dec 25, 2024

DMs that I love to read from young ladies.

And this is what makes alot of you young ladies misbehave.

Bad friends and young girls that are into prostitution.

They call themselves "baddies".

Olosho baddies.

Dear young girl, you're on the right path.

And unfortunately, you

cannot say that you'll not cut them off.

A bad friend is a bad friend.

It doesn't matter whether you are childhood friends.

Tell your father what they're pushing you to do, and you'll see how your father will warn you sternly.

And if your man gets to know the types of friends

that they are, I'm afraid that you may lose him.

So do not just say you want to cut them off because you want your relationship to work.

Do it for you & your Femininity.

You may even not get married to that 30 year old man, but since you're beginning to shape your mentality

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