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@jon_d_doe

Nov 21

One of the reasons I advice men to allow exes remain as exes.

Anyways, there you have it.

You were fucking your two exes ad libitum, & now you're a father of one.

Perhaps, you may soon be a father of two.

Play stupid games, win stupid prices.

Regardless, shit happens.

And I'll advice you briefly.

You see that one that is in the UK?

Even if it turns out that the child is truly yours, never have anything to do with her again.

She knew the pregnancy was yours, and she was married even when you were sleeping with her.

This was why she

ghosted you for long, because she gave your child to her husband.

As God would have it, her secrets have been exposed.

Then she has the audacity to call you because her husband is about to divorce her?

She betrayed you and went for a richer man. If you attempt to get back

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@jon_d_doe

Nov 18

Honestly, I would have ignored your DM, or just posted it without a caption.

But let me say this, & I hope other young men like you take heed.

Under no circumstances must you allow a woman that rubbed her cheating & lack of boundaries back into your life.

I've said severally,

that once you've broken up with a lady, and she has gone ahead to date another man or men, you should not get back with her.

That's the unspoken rule in relationships.

You may choose to disagree, that's your business.

It will never be in your favor.

A woman that didn't find

you worthy, and left you for other men, is a woman that you should not beg to return, or forgive when she comes back.

She has become "wiser".

Kill whatever stupid feelings or love that you have for her.

Go and find another woman on your terms and lead the relationship as a

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@jon_d_doe

Nov 16

I know that a lot of the time, women paint themselves as victims in their stories, but I'll assume that your story is exactly as you've told me.

If it's possible to chat with the man, it'll help me make a better & informed advice to you, & by extension, him.

I also know that

some men can be very incorrigible, and some pay attention to the wrong things in finding a wife.

If all what you said is true, then your man is going to make a grave error.

It's even worse to know that he's 40, & thinking like a man in his 20s.

Who, or what is a virgin?

How can he make such a lifelong decision, simply because he met a 22 year old that is a virgin?

I'm discombobulated.

Which is why I said chatting with him, will help me make an informed advice.

I hope by fate or luck, he'll see this post & come to my DM to explain things to

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@jon_d_doe

Nov 8

About two years ago, a man came to my DM to narrate how he caught his girlfriend stealing his foodstuff to take home to her family.

He was so disappointed. And he later found out that it was her mother that was instigating her too.

Here is a similar DM. Only that in his case,

his girlfriend is not stealing it.

She cooks for him in his house, and takes home some to her mother.

And sometimes, it's on her mother's request.

I'll tell you what I know.

It's not a good thing. And deep down, you know it's not a good thing, that's why you're in my DM.

Put simply... What your girlfriend's mother is telling her to do when she comes to visit you is...

"bring food come back ooo".

I know that you know, that it's a shameful thing. And your girlfriend has not done well by exposing her mother this way.

So without you, are you

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@jon_d_doe

Nov 3

One silly man that is stupidly in love will read that DM, & won't take corrections immediately.

Look at the posts that I shared with that man in the DM, some of them were as old as 2 years.

Over the years, I've been consistently saying the same things, to help you men make

sound, logical and well informed decisions before you marry a wife.

But instead of some of you to take heed, you foolishly allow women ruin your peace & mental health.

All because you think that you're in love.

That's a marriage of 11 years that is about to hit the rocks.

Granted, I wasn't here 11 years ago, so I cannot fault the man for not taking my advice since he has been a long time follower.

But you that claim to be an Agbafian & still single, have the opportunity and privilege to read from me.

You cannot claim in the future, that you

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@jon_d_doe

Nov 2

Please read the conversation that I had with a 35 year old married woman 👇.

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