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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 14

Whenever I tell you young men that, before you choose your wife, choose her mother.

This DM is another typical example.

And unfortunately for this young man, he's surrounded by women and not close to his father.

But I want to believe that God is trying to save him from

destruction, & has directed him to my DM.

If only he will listen to me.

To start with, that 5m idea that you're planning to invest in her business, you better cancel it from your head.

And just because you met her a virgin, doesn't make her immune from any proper vetting.

You're dating a lady that has a bad mother.

And her mother is a divorcee like your late mother.

How can your girlfriend's mother tell your girlfriend that she was happy that your mother is dead, so that she'll not have a competition?

How can your girlfriend's mother demand

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 9

Let me say a few things.

A man that approaches a lady for the first time, saying that he wants to date you for marriage, may be a potential red flag.

Especially if the lady is in her late 20s and 30s.

When a lady is at this stage in her life, she becomes an easy prey for

Men.

So don't get easily carried away.

The irony of it is that even the man doesn't understand that, the "pick up line" could be to his own detriment.

He thinks he is trying to play smart.

Should he not realise this, that lady will take undue advantage of his foolishness.

Once you meet a lady within that range, men need to be cautious.

While it's not advisable to date women within that age range if you do not plan to marry them, you still must go through the vetting process.

A woman that you have promised marriage from the get-go is a woman

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Apr 21

Unserious men.

Tomorrow, "Àgbà I am looking for a wife".

Do not respond to any man that chats like them.

And for the one that was flaunting money to you, he must be a yahoo boy.

Yes, men want sex most of the time, but he must first show that he can have good conversations

that would spark your interest.

There are men in this community that have done it, and some have even found their wives from the community.

At 25, your plan should be to target men that are showing signs of being ready for marriage.

Not fuck boys.

How do you identify such

Men?

1) He is not a criminal

2) He is working, & lives in his own apartment (owned or rented).

3) He's not addicted to betting

4) He respects his father and honors his mother

5) He doesn't waste money & doesn't brag about money

6) He believes in God and respects traditions.

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Apr 21

I told you people that despite dating my wife for 9 years, I proposed to her when both of us were on the same salary.

She accepted, but asked that we defer any wedding until she was sure that I could take care of myself, her and our unborn children.

It took over a year for

that to heppen.

I was even living in an apartment that I shared with my friends.

And she was getting close to 30 too.

Despite all I had experienced, I still come here to tell you that women don't love men.

And they shouldn't.

A man must be able to give a woman hope, and

show workings too.

Otherwise, all your sacrifices do not matter to them.

Especially as it concerns her selection of a husband.

Yes, she may have strong bond with you, but women hardly compromise when it comes to who will be their husband and father of their children.

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Apr 16

Please read from a married man.

We had conversations few days ago, but I decided not to share his DM.

He sent me this yesterday, & wants my advice.

A little back story.

He met his wife and married her under 5 months.

He was always taking advice from his wife, & doing what

she wants.

He invested millions into her business, but she doesn't have much to show for it.

He opened another shop for her.

Now, he too is having issues with his business and his finances are now limited.

Please note all he said that his wife said and is saying.

At no

point did she ever blame herself for setting him up for failure.

Now, he's full of regrets.

Treat women how they ought to be treated, and not how they wish to be treated.

What married men should know is this.

When your wife is pushing you to do something, & you know that

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Apr 14

"A blind husband is a good husband".

Some of you keep asking me what I mean by this.

I did not say that you should be deliberately blind to what is obviously visible.

What it means is that a woman will continue to treat you as a king until you discover her secrets.

Please

take your minds back to all the DMs from married men that caught their cheating wives.

The narratives are very similar.

Their wives become defensive, then they start to look for ways to manipulate them.

And then they become violent & dangerous.

She knows that you will no

longer see her as the "virtuous" wife that she claimed to be.

And it will be pissing her off that you caught her.

She hates you for it. And the next thing is to start recruiting your kids to hate you too.

This also happens in relationships.

That woman that likes to brag that

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