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@jon_d_doe

Apr 16

Please read from a married man.

We had conversations few days ago, but I decided not to share his DM.

He sent me this yesterday, & wants my advice.

A little back story.

He met his wife and married her under 5 months.

He was always taking advice from his wife, & doing what

she wants.

He invested millions into her business, but she doesn't have much to show for it.

He opened another shop for her.

Now, he too is having issues with his business and his finances are now limited.

Please note all he said that his wife said and is saying.

At no

point did she ever blame herself for setting him up for failure.

Now, he's full of regrets.

Treat women how they ought to be treated, and not how they wish to be treated.

What married men should know is this.

When your wife is pushing you to do something, & you know that

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@jon_d_doe

Apr 14

"A blind husband is a good husband".

Some of you keep asking me what I mean by this.

I did not say that you should be deliberately blind to what is obviously visible.

What it means is that a woman will continue to treat you as a king until you discover her secrets.

Please

take your minds back to all the DMs from married men that caught their cheating wives.

The narratives are very similar.

Their wives become defensive, then they start to look for ways to manipulate them.

And then they become violent & dangerous.

She knows that you will no

longer see her as the "virtuous" wife that she claimed to be.

And it will be pissing her off that you caught her.

She hates you for it. And the next thing is to start recruiting your kids to hate you too.

This also happens in relationships.

That woman that likes to brag that

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@jon_d_doe

Apr 9

If the wife is a full time housewife.

He does those things that a masculine in nature, around the house.

He is not supposed to cook, clean, do laundry or the dishes.

He can only do them, when his wife is sick or unavailable.

If he wants to cook, he can do it for the sake of

creating memories for his kids, or he just feels like being "romantic" to his wife.

If the wife is a career/business wife, that goes out everyday like he does.

She takes out time during the weekends or off days, to do the cooking & cleaning.

Then if he returns before his wife,

he can help himself with warming the food so he can eat.

He still should not do house chores, as long as he's still the main provider of the home.

He can hire maids to help his wife do all that, & pay them.

He'll still be doing the things that are masculine in nature.

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@jon_d_doe

Apr 6

Please read the conversation that I had with a 40 year old married man.

Ensure that you read to the last screenshot 👇.

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@jon_d_doe

Apr 5

It's mostly because you young men of this generation drew far away from your fathers, & embraced the woke culture, that's why you're finding it hard to lead the women of your generation.

Your level of stupidity has emboldened them.

Now they're destroying themselves in the

process.

Unable to prepare themselves to be good wife materials, & raise a family in the future, under a balanced & functional home.

It's not funny.

Everyday, I share DM stories of how men are dealt with by women in the most embarrassing manner.

Each time I read those DMs,

the questions that come to my mind are these:

1) How close is this young man to his father?

2) Was this young man raised by a single mother?

3) Who is this young man's mentor?

4) Can this young man really raise a family & lead his wife?

These are very pertinent questions

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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Apr 3

You have lost your wife.

You cannot get her back, and I do not advice that you do that.

Unfortunately, you lost your child, but that in itself, will make you not to have long ties with her or her family.

Your mother as well, doesn't like her.

If her father and brother

wanted your marriage to work, they would not have come to your place to take her away to go rent her a place to stay.

They would have asked her to come home, & wait for you to make amends.

But that obviously, is not the case.

And I dare say.. That she has stepped out.

From her message to you, she doesn't see the need to come back.

And if you insist and keep begging, & she returns, you'll no longer have your respect or control over your home.

You're 29, you're still young.

Since she has asked you to come take back your bride price, please

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