Thread by @jon_d_doe

A woman's upbringing matters a lot.

Not saying men don't deserve good upbringing too, but I want to talk about why a woman's upbringing, should matter to men.

When I started this community, I used to chun out upto 4 to 5 long threads, daily.

Even with very few followers.

I did not stop.

Neither was I discouraged.

Sometimes, I would tell my own story, and use it to explain to my few audience.

I knew where I was headed.

I knew a lot of people were reading my threads, but not too many took me seriously.

Everyday, I come here to admonish both

Young men and women to seek for the most natural and less harmful or risky ways in doing things, when it comes to relationships or marriages.

And it would seem as if my messages were tilted more, towards women.

Truthfully, at some point, it was.

And it was deliberate because

what we see everyday on social media, and even in real life, paints a grim future, for men who hope to get married.

And I must say this.

You see those young girls that sexualise themselves online and offline, they have a terrible upbringing.

If it's not a terrible upbringing,

they have been severely misled by people who are selfish, self centered, destructive and deceitful.

And by nature, women can easily be carried away by trends.

I'm confident that, the more women (young and old) read from me, the better they will be.

Some women have dedicated

more than two years of their life, reading and learning from me.

And subconsciously, they're changing.

Even they themselves may not know that they're changing, until they find themselves doing what they learnt from this community.

If I stay here for another few years, I would

have groomed a cohort of very strong feminine women, who believe in their traditional roles and will be unashamed about it.

And the men who will end up marrying them, will be proud that they found good wives.

Too much of misconceptions about relationships on social media, have

destroyed the mindset of many young girls.

And some of them, come from very good homes.

How they decided to throw away shame is what I can't explain.

Yes, the difference between a good & bad woman, is SHAME.

That's why some women will not disgrace their family on social media

and in real life- SHAME.

And if you meet a woman that has shame & humility, at least 50% of your vetting is done.

It doesn't mean that she is a saint.

But at least you'll be proud to say to the world, that your wife is not public nuisance.

1) she's not sexualising herself

2) she's not begging Men for food or money
3) she's not on everybody's business
4) she doesn't disrespect her father
5) she doesn't hang around with different men, because of what she'll eat or drink
6) she doesn't date fraudulent men

These are the type of women, men should

look out for.

Women that are focused, homely, silent in their achievements and strong in character.

And these women, will date you, even when you are still trying to find your feet.

That's exactly how most of their mothers started with their fathers.

So if she's deviating

from that, then she is not willing to suffer with you.

And you as the man...

I've said it times without number...

You'll most likely not find a good wife for you, if you think money is all you need to find one.

What you are now, will not be what you'll be, in the next few

years.

Before that your future wife goes haywire, find her now and start working on her & leading her.

Because if you don't, you'll still meet her in future, and whatever it's that she has learned along the way, you'll carry the cross.

She'll never remain single forever.

The question you'll have to ask yourself is..

"what has she been doing all the while, before you met her?"

I hope you'll find the answers.

As my teachings keep growing, the deceitful & selfish ones will start doing the right thing.

And save our future, from catastrophe.

End.