Things I've learned becoming a dad at 40 years old:
1. Your health becomes the most important thing in your life. If you want a chance to see your kids grow up you need to take care of your body.
2. Lifting weights becomes a non-negotiable. This will be the difference between independence and the nursing home.
3. You can be 40 years old and feel like in your 20s if you do the right things for your body.
4. You never know how important good health is until you lose it.
5. Having children will light a fire under your ass and increase your capacity to earn.
6. Kids make you feel younger. The ability to see things through your child's eyes and how they embrace curiosity is a great way to ignite your desire to learn new things.
5 hidden signs you might live to 90 or older (87% of people will fail at number 3):
1. Walking speed
This is a sign of function and cardio.
A pace over 1 m/s (2.2 mph) predicts longer life. A stride of over 2.7 mph shows mortality risk drops dramatically. Fast walkers age slower.
2. Resting heart rate
A low RHR means your heart is efficient and your stress response is balanced.
Under 70 bpm is solid. Under 60 bpm is elite longevity territory.
If you’re above 80–90 bpm at rest, it's a sign that you need to build your aerobic engine.
3. Sit-and-rise test
Sitting on the floor and stand back up without using your hands is a display of strength, balance, mobility, coordination, and independence as you age.
By age 85, roughly 2/3's of all injury‑related deaths are due to falls.
Weight loss hacks I know at 46 that I wish I knew at 26:
1. Eat similar meals every single day. This makes eating simple, removes decision-making, and helps you hit your macros and calories consistently.
2. Avoid eating things out of a bag as this can cause overeating. Instead, put your portion on a plate and put the bag away.
3. Get an under-the-desk treadmill. Do walking zoom meetings, watch videos, or read. This will easily add at least 5,000 to 10,000 extra steps per day without even thinking about it.
4. Chew your food until it becomes liquid. This improves digestion and increases your feelings of fullness.
1. Eliminate the alcohol, fast foods, and hyper-processed junk from your diet. Before thinking of adding things, focus on elimination.
2. Set a daily non-negotiable of doing some type of physical exercise for 30 minutes daily. Do this for your brain, body, and stress levels.
3. Stay hydrated. Even a 1-2% drop can affect physical and cognitive performance. Aim for half your bodyweight in ounces of water daily.
4. Use the Hydro Lean Method:
1. Drink water upon waking 2. Drink water between meals 3. Drink water before and after a meal to increase satiety 4. Don't drink water during a meal, as it increases eating speed
This system will keep you hydrated, alert, and full.