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-18: college/partying lost God.

-20: poker, dropped out of college. Focused only on money/stuff.

-24: married.

-27: internet poker banned, went from 250k/year to zero overnight.

-27: divorced, depressed alcohol & pills.

-28 going broke, spent 200k partying. Felt dead inside.
-28: Low point. Rock bottom.

Blaming everyone but myself.

Wish I wasn’t alive many days.

Break down crying in a Doctors office.

She tells me she’s overcome divorce.

Shows me a picture of her children & husband now.

Better days are ahead she reassures.

Hope is restored.
-29: Buddy invites me to come lift. Got into fitness.

-30: @EddieLowen invites me to coffee.
Challenges me to say one prayer daily.
“God if you’re real, show yourself to me.”

-30: On a run in Vegas, a MIRACLE happens. Accepts Jesus.

-30: Fri/Sat booze, Sunday church.
-30: Met Annie.
Date 6 months & married.

-31: Doc says we can’t have kids.
Pregnant on our honeymoon!!

-31: Back in college.
Finish with 4.0.

-31: Take job as bank teller.
Went from $200/hour in poker to $11/hour. Ego hurt.

-32: Promoted 2x at work.
Lose fitness & myself. Image
-33: Wife & I struggle.
Languishing & reverting to old toxic habits.

-34: On my knees in tears I swear to God & myself I am going to change my life.
Write out rules for myself.
Self improvement journey begins.

-35: Fired from my job.

-36: Move to Vegas new job,
fresh start.
-36: Alone 7 weeks in Vegas before my family moves out.

Fill 3 notebooks, read the Bible 2 hours a day as well as other books.
Became a man for the first time.

-36: ALL IN on Jesus.

-36: Promoted couple times, discover Twitter.

-36: Sign up as Foster parents.
-36: Hire @zachhomol_ as life coach.
Leveled up my life 100x 🙏

-37: Quit corporate job to pursue passion of coaching & helping others. Thanks Zach!

-37: Adopt our first son Kingston after reuniting several children back home through Foster.

-37: Adopt our second son Tyson! Image
-37: Hit 7 figure net worth, should’ve hired @zachhomol_ sooner!

-38: Receive two handwritten hate letters from a high school classmate telling me all the reasons I can’t be a Christian.

-38: Cross 100,000 teammates on Twitter.
Strong community, coached 300 men & lead retreats. Image
-39: God continues to open doors, guide my path & bless my family.

I love what I GET TO do & share each day.

I feel like the most blessed man alive.

I am incredibly grateful for all the scars as they shaped & molded me into who I am today.
5 months until 40: Pushing myself to grow as a Christ follower, leader, husband, father & man.

-Growing a YouTube community.
-Training to do 5 MURPHS in a day.

I get hate & praise daily, my validation & worth come from neither.

-Have peace for the first time ever. ImageImage
Life’s full of seasons.
There’s always ups & downs.

I urge you to keep a long term vision & NEVER GIVE UP!

Surround yourself ONLY with people that believe in you & encourage the best version of you.

We all get knocked down.
CHOOSE to keep fighting & don’t stay there
Thanks for reading.

I hope you have the best day ever.

A big coupe things:
•Know God is there even in the valley. It can seem like you’re all alone at times, but you’re always one prayer away.

•Surround yourself with a community of people that promote the best you.
Addition resources:

My testimony & faith journey.
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Jun 2
I’d been working a 9-5 office job that I didn’t love for a year.

I came home one night & said
THIS WON’T BE MY LIFE!

I refuse to accept this as the way I spend the next 35 years.

Society says it’s normal,

I WON’T BE NORMAL THEN!

Here’s the top 10 ways WE fired my job at 36.
I say WE first off because without the full support of my wife, I would never be in this position.

It’s really trendy & I see a bunch of “alphas” on here hating on women & relationships.

Young kings,
ATTRACT the right woman & she’ll make you richer, wiser & better in every way! Image
1) Create a plan

Write this plan down or it’s just a day dream.

For us we needed to:
•Get rid of debt
•X amount of passive income
•Have X amount invested & saved

Then I could fire my company!

With tangible numbers a plan was hatched & that vision was born.
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May 31
To anyone considering sharing online or growing a following:

Read this short thread:

*Also applies to everyone on dealing with feedback & self love.
Every day online I get LOVE & people telling me my tweet, video or message hit them at the right time & I’m grateful for each one.

Every day online I get HATE & people telling me I’m not this or I’m too much of that.

The key is:
My validation comes from neither.
I’ll get to a financial point soon where I don’t need to tweet or work ever again.

Our passive income will cover our daily lives.
(We are frugal!)

I see many with the goal of GET RICH & GET OUT.

I respect that.
But it’s not mine.

I view my social media as a ministry.
Read 9 tweets
May 23
It hurts my heart seeing the way some parents PARENT.

At the park they are glued to their phone only to look up & squash creativity & scold little minds from growing.

•Don’t climb that it’s dangerous.
•Don’t run so fast you could slip.
•Be careful, Stop, & don’t go there.
My kids fall, scrape their knees, get boo-boos often & we keep playing!

I am right there with them encouraging them to climb everything & explore everywhere!

Run as fast as you can!
If you fall, you’ll GET UP & learn!

The world is our playground. Image
We wonder so why so many ADULTS need safe spaces & the smallest sign of adversity CRUSHES them.

This is why!!

•Let your kids fall.
•Let your kids explore.
•Let your kids get a damn boo boo it’ll heal!

My sister told me the saddest story a while back.
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May 9
This morning at the gym I clearly had my:
•keys
•phone
•gym card

At a squat rack.

I went to refill my water & when I came back a dude was on MY SQUAT RACK.

You know what I did next……..
Gave him a fist bump & said crush it today bro.

I took the next rack 2 steps over while smiling, dancing & thanking God for a healthy body & sound mind!

I used to let things like this upset me.

Traffic, a negative comment online, or a minor inconvenience could RUIN my day.
Now, I prescribe to the maxim,

“If it won’t matter in 5 YEARS don’t give it more than 5 MINUTES attention.”

Choosing to not get upset at things you can’t control is a super power.

We can CHOOSE happiness.
We can CHOOSE to be peaceful.

We can practice this & get better at it!
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May 8
This morning I took a 6 mile sunrise walk.

Home after & went for a 4 mile walk with my wife & sons.

We played at a park for 2 hours & now outside doing a splash pad.

I used to be MEDICATED for ANXIETY.

I changed my LIFESTYLE to being OUTDOORS & ACTIVE.

Anxiety reduced by 99% Image
Before the MUST BE NICE crowd comes in,

For 6.5 years I managed a retail bank.

I decided 5 years ago to be different.
-0 TV & cable
-0 cable News
-Meal prepped all lunches
-Took walks at lunch daily instead of playing on my phone
-Lived FAR below our means to fire my company.
I’m not saying ALL ANXIETY can be cured with LIFESTYLE changes.

I am saying START THERE FIRST!

-Change your diet
-Get OUTSIDE daily
-Make movement & fitness part of who you are
-Stop CONSUMING anxiety filled news.

In short:
Decide the type of life you want & GO CREATE IT!
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May 1
Does your WIFE often feel like your biggest CRITIC?

You deal with PROBLEMS all day at work & then come home & deal with her?

I used to be like this.

I used to blame her for everything.

Then, a few mindset shifts CHANGED our entire marriage!
1) Take OWNERSHIP of everything

But Ty my wife doesn’t understand as a guy my need to feel respected & built up.

She doesn’t get my need to see friends & have some guy time.

I get it BUT…..

IT IS YOUR FAULT YOU HAVN’T communicated to her how critical these things are to you.
You must sit her down & have a hard talk on WHY you need things, how she can best help you & HOW it’s going to make you a better husband.

Then, ask her how you can do the same for her.

Boys complain & whine.
Men LEAD & take ownership.

This is how she’ll start to respect you.
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