I recall asking my parents what they would do if I got into a fight & killed someone on accident.

My MOM spoke up first,

We would love you, help you, pray with you, & fight with you. We love you always Ty.

My DAD looked me in the eye & I'll never forget what he said next. ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES SON.

I would drive you to the police station myself.

I would never stop loving you, but you would face the consequences.

I remember being like c'mon dad what if this or what if that.....

He held firm.

Every choice you make in life has consequences.

The SECOND most attractive girl I dated (behind my wife) was 23 & a cheerleader at a big PAC 12 school.

She turned heads for sure.

I was 29 & we went on 3 dates.

The first two were fun & we vibed well.

The third I picked her up & she told me she just got a $1,200 haircut (mine are $15 & I think that's outrageous:). 🚩

She was then very rude to our waitress & complained a few times about the service. 🚩

I pictured my future of "EXPENSIVE & COMPLAINING" & told her after dinner as politely as I could I wasn't interested & there wouldn't be a date 4.

I have never seen anything like it!!!

I think most 9's & up NEVER get rejected & take for granted every guy will pursue them.

She messaged me for weeks.

I got engaged a year later, hadn't thought of her since, & she wrote me this long letter on SM.

I took a couple things away from it I think all men can learn from: 1) NEVER CHASE.

Build yourself, know you are the prize & legit feel sorry for girls that reject you based on status.

If you're in an entry level job but building, DO NOT APOLOGIZE for it or act like you have all this money.

If she likes you, she'll see the long term vision & build with you!

If not, HER LOSS, keep building!

-18: college/partying lost God.

-20: poker, dropped out of college. Focused only on money/stuff.

-24: married.

-27: internet poker banned, went from 250k/year to zero overnight.

-27: divorced, depressed alcohol & pills.

-28 going broke, spent 200k partying. Felt dead inside. -28: Low point. Rock bottom.

Blaming everyone but myself.

Wish I WAS NOT ALIVE most days.

Break down crying in a Doctors office.

She tells me she’s overcome divorce.

Shows me a picture of her children & husband now.

Better days are ahead she reassures me.

Hope is restored.

I made a 4 year old (not my own kid) CRY at church last night......

Here's a controversial parenting move I felt I needed to use.

I walk in (30 kids & 3 volunteers) & (my son) is crying.

I ask what happened & he said this boy ripped up his picture & hit him. My son is 4 & honestly we've had A LOT of talks about HIM not hitting.

He's a beast.
Super aggressive.

So I said, well think of that when you do it to your brother!

Tyson then said he told a teacher but the kid kept hitting several times.

Then, as we're walking out together..

I’m not a minimalist, but I’ve seen the POWER of DECLUTTERING my life.

LESS is often MORE.

Or as Brad Pitt famously said in Fight Club,

“The stuff you own ends up OWNING YOU."

Here’s SIX areas you should DECLUTTER, simplify & better your life for more PEACE.

*BOOKMARK THIS! 1) RELATIONSHIP CLUTTER:

It’s hard but some people YOU ALLOW around you drain you each time you see them.

I call them energy vampires.

Distance yourself from these people.

If they cost you your peace,
Don’t allow it!

•Block off quiet, alone time weekly.

Does your WIFE often feel like your biggest CRITIC?

You deal with PROBLEMS all day at work & then come home & deal with her?

I used to be like this.

I used to blame her for everything.

Then, a few mindset shifts CHANGED our entire marriage!

*BOOKMARK THIS! 1) Take OWNERSHIP of everything

But Ty my wife doesn’t understand as a guy my need to feel respected & built up.

She doesn’t get my need to see friends & have some guy time.

I get it BUT…..

IT IS YOUR FAULT YOU HAVN’T communicated to her how critical these things are to you.

A lot of marriages & sex lives DRY UP after kids because it becomes all about the kids.

It becomes only MOMMY & DADA not MAN & WIFE.

•No date nights.
•No fun, laughter, & passion.

The enemy loves SEXLESS MARRIAGES as much as he loves SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE.

Here's 4 ways to FLIP THE SCRIPT & bring back the HONEYMOON! A few years into marriage (especially when kids come) life can become so transactional.

•Did you pay the bill?
•Did you fill the bottles?
•Did you pack the lunches?

I coach men & hear this often.

I call this getting STUCK in FACTS.

We need to move to the FEELINGS & DREAMS!

Here are the TOP FIVE REASONS PORNOGRAPHY IS GREAT & should be ON X & EVERYWHERE!!!

*From Satan's perspective.
Told as the enemy thinks. 1) The BEST thing about pornography is it DESTROYS MARRIAGES & families.

A healthy, Godly society thrives on locked in marriages raising healthy & happy kids.

What better tool to DESTROY marriages & break apart families than offering FREE porn.

"Every man lives two lives & the second starts when he realizes he has just one."

I'll never forget this picture as long as I live.

The night before I was SOBBING tears of shame & then rage.

I was failing myself & my family.

Here's a story to inspire someone feeling stuck. I had wasted the entire Sunday watching football on the couch eating pizza & chips.

My wife invited me outside to play with her & my daughter a few times but I was DETERMINED TO BE MISERABLE & play the VICTIM card.

"I worked 6 days this week at a job I don't even like.....

I deserve ONE to lay around....."

I snapped at her wanting to make EVERYONE AROUND ME MISERABLE TOO.

Somedays as a Christ follower I can be so in tune with God.

Other days, I can feel like God is so distant.

For years it felt like this.

Here’s 5 THINGS I’ve implemented to make my walk with Jesus stay more CONSISTENT & IN HARMONY!

*Many habits apply to nonbelievers too. First off I believe faith to be extremely personal.

I share mine openly as it’s the CORNERSTONE of my life.

Having said that, I LOVE PEOPLE.

I have friends that are atheists & all different faiths.

I’ll meet you wherever you are.

If you are a Jesus person this is for you.

If you ever feel RESTLESS or PURPOSELESS read this.

I had a MID LIFE CRISIS.

I didn't go after a younger woman or want a sports car, but it HIT ME the things I was CHASING were not making me happy.

TWO things changed it all for me & can for you too! On paper I was great.

•Good stable job.
•Pretty wife & and angel daughter.
•Financial stability & a nice home.

The BLUEPRINT I had for my life had come to fruition so why was I never at peace?

I felt restless & thought IS THIS IT?

I felt like a PASSENGER IN MY OWN LIFE.

At 29 I sat on the rooftop of my condo overlooking Chicago thinking if I wasn’t such a pansy I would just jump off & end it.

I was recently cheated on & divorced.

I was drinking 6 days a week & popping pills like they were skittles.

I was around drinking buddies often, but ALWAYS FELT ALONE.

I couldn’t get off the couch for days during some periods.

I felt my best days were behind me & couldn’t see a way out.

It was the lowest depression I’ve ever experienced.

And then……… A couple miracles happened in the form of TWO PEOPLE God sent into my life.

One night around midnight at a bar I was introduced to a guy named Kolby.

He was there with a couple mutual friends & we were taking sports.

This guys energy lit up the room.
He was chiseled like a Greek god.

As we spoke, I asked him how he was in such good shape?

What was the cheat code bro?!

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My dad warned my sister there was a high tide & the ocean would be really dangerous before they left.

One day a few years ago in North Carolina a HORROR STORY happened & within the blink of an eye my families life changed forever. My sister, brother-n-law & their two sons were enjoying a great day on the beach.

My sister recalls turning around & hearing a scream.

Her son was rushing farther into the ocean engulfed in the waves.

He was 8 years old & a strong swimmer, but with the waves he had no chance.

The other morning at the gym I clearly had my:
•keys
•phone
•gym card

At a squat rack.

I went to refill my water & when I came back a dude was on MY SQUAT RACK.

You know what I did next…….. Gave him a fist bump & said crush it today bro.

I took the next rack 2 steps over while smiling, dancing & thanking God for a healthy body & sound mind!

I used to let things like this upset me.

Traffic, a negative comment online, or a minor inconvenience could RUIN my day.

I don’t understand a lot of modern single Christian men.

They SAY they want a great Godly wife, but their actions aren’t aligning with ATTRACTING one.

Here’s what single Christian men should do to ATTRACT a great Godly wife: 1) Build yourself daily.

•Body
-Lift -Run -Walk -Stay active & fit

•Mind
-Read -Journal -Meditate -Study

•Soul
-Pray -Bible study - Devotions -Fast

Nothing is MORE attractive than a human FLOURISHING, ON FIRE & GROWING.

Let her see you killing life & she can add to it & you add value to hers.

Today I turn 41.

At 34 I was the guy on the left.

Dad bod.
Always tired, a victim, & low energy.

At 41 I'm in the best shape of my life physically, mentally & spiritually.

It's not GENETICS.
It's LIFESTYLE CHOICES.

Here's the cheat codes: 1) Limit alcohol.

Look I get it booze can be fun.

I don't NOT DRINK EVER.

I DO acknowledge it's a poison tho.
It's awful for my body so I set RULES.

•Put a water between each drink.
•Pre set a limit on number of drinks.
•6-10 times a year I'll have 3-5 drinks.

Works for me, find what works for you!

-18: college/partying lost God.

-20: poker, dropped out of college. Focused only on money/stuff.

-24: married.

-27: internet poker banned, went from 250k/year to zero overnight.

-27: divorced, depressed alcohol & pills.

-28 going broke, spent 200k partying. Felt dead inside. -28: Low point. Rock bottom.

Blaming everyone but myself.

Wish I WAS NOT ALIVE most days.

Break down crying in a Doctors office.

She tells me she’s overcome divorce.

Shows me a picture of her children & husband now.

Better days are ahead she reassures me.

Hope is restored.

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Get ready to rocket into 2025!! 1) Plan your next day the night before.

I take 2/3 minute each night & OUTLINE my next day.

You are the CEO of your life & no successful person or company wakes up without a plan.

•Lay out your clothes.
•Schedule top priorities.
•Schedule your workout.

Plan to win!

5 years ago I started my second corporate job for a great local bank.

I had previously been FIRED from my last corporate job.

My entire FOCUS was to FIRE this company, be my own boss, create multiple revenue streams, & become 100% sovereign over my time.

Here's how it went: I'll never forget my then 4 year old daughter SOBBING one night, so you'll be home after dinner again daddy?

I miss you.

My heart shattered into a million pieces.

I wasn't going to accept NORMAL anymore.

Normal:
-Work 5 days for 2 off.
-work 50 weeks for 2 off.
-work 40 years for 12-15 off.