Thread by @audiocoffee1

Both screenshots are such on-the-nose examples of DARVO in action

LEARN TO RECOGNIZE

DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It's a manipulative tactic where someone denies wrongdoing, attacks the accuser, & turns themselves(or their vicarious group) into the victim

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🚨THREAD: Understanding the Dynamic of DARVO🚨

Have you ever found it difficult to call out an abuser on their abuse or provocation? You might have experienced DARVO -a common tactic employed by abusers, often unconsciously. Let's break it down and empower ourselves against it!

1️⃣ DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It's the go-to strategy when an abuser feels threatened by your call-out. By understanding DARVO, we can unveil the manipulative tactics at play. Let's dive deeper! 💡

2️⃣ When you confront an abuser, they may deny the abuse or provocation altogether. They'll twist the truth and make it seem like you're exaggerating or misunderstanding. This puts you on the defensive and can make calling them out challenging. #DARVODenial

3️⃣ Next, the abuser launches an attack on you for daring to speak up. They shift the focus away from their own behavior and make you the target. This tactic is meant to distract from the real issue and undermine your credibility. Stay strong! #DARVOAttack

4️⃣ To add another layer of manipulation, the abuser reverses the roles of victim and offender. They portray themselves as the victim, painting you as the one causing harm. This reversal aims to confuse and guilt-trip you. Stay vigilant! #DARVOReverse

5️⃣ So how can we tackle DARVO effectively? It starts with naming the dynamic! By highlighting the DARVO pattern, we expose the abuser's tactics and reclaim our power. Spread awareness and share this response: #NameTheDynamic #StopDARVO

"No, this is what's happening. You're using DARVO. You provoked others, and their response is justified. Instead of acknowledging your provocation, you're trying to flip the script using DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender)." #StopAbuse #DARVOAwareness

6️⃣ Remember, when we name the dynamic, we expose the abusers and their manipulative tactics. Sensible onlookers will see through the smoke and mirrors, allowing the true provocateur to be identified. Together, we can dismantle the cycle of abuse! #DARVOKnowledge

Stay informed, call out the dynamic! By understanding and naming DARVO, we become equipped to recognize and challenge abusive behavior. Let's spread awareness far and wide!

REMEMBER: Identify and Name the Dynamic "DARVO"!