Only women are attracted to ego in women, and they're attracted to it in women for the same reason they're attracted to it in men - they mistake arrogance for confidence and think overcompensating by being out of control makes you powerful and respectable.
A childish view.
If this was false, people like Nicki Minaj and Cardi B wouldn't be idolised and admired for their "sass", called "queen" by legions of women who wish they were as narcissistic as the role models they conceptualise as the perfect woman, but who are far from it by men's standards.
The "boss bitch" as a meme is a female aspiration and concept of what "the ideal woman should look like"
There is no talk of grace, refinement, compassion, gentleness, no, it's all about "sass" and "making money" - their concept of apex femininity is fundamentally broken.
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If we define maturity as having empathy for you as a man, and we define empathy as having some insight into male psychology/your struggles and complementing that.
Then yes, most women never mature.
Only women who really have empathy for men are outliers with good dads.
From her perspective it’s accepting less than she thinks she’s worth because she’s not truly respectful of or attracted to the man she decided to marry
That’s why she calls it settling
In reality, she’s lucky to even have a man who thinks she’s worth the bother
She’s conceited
Imagine you have multiple potential investors and the least intelligent and poorest of them’s the only one who agrees to invest
And instead of being grateful you got the help you needed
You resent having to settle for your least preferred investor
The arrogance is breathtaking
Like you need them
But you won’t appreciate them and will in fact egregiously mistreat them because they aren’t “good enough” in your eyes
Even though you’re the fundamentally needy party and should be thanking God everyday they made it possible
Competing with a woman as a man is like competing with a child as an adult.
There is no upside for you.
If you win, you’re a bully, and if you lose, you’re a gay that got beat by a child/girl.
The asymmetry is inherently not in your favour.
This is why you need a pet woman as your champion to fight battles you can’t.
You actually see corporations do this all the time, even the police do it.
The police will use women to arrest women so they can’t fabricate a sexual abuse claim and so it doesn’t look as bad to the public
Elon has Linda Yaccarino to be the aligned HR mum for his company to offset all his “advertiser unfriendly” aka based masculine behaviour.
It’s amusing when you see it, but also an invaluable tool for you strategically.
All I will say is that the typical woman is not up to the task to “be your champion”.
It won’t be your wife, unless you married the wrong woman.
You’re looking for an unmarriageable, intelligent but knows how to be aggressive type of careerist woman who is tough and less delusional but has both positive masculine and negative feminine traits.
The whole “power couple” meme is very rarely done right and for the most part is just a man who married a masculine woman getting dictated to but thinking he’s in charge because he relies on her the way you would typically rely on a man.
It’s almost homosexual as zero polarity.
It’s only really possible with two outliers and even then it’s somewhat fraught.
Most celebrities are not good examples of this. I can think of maybe one good example.
But the average idiot girl boss thinks this is *THE MODEL* and what she deserves, when it will all but fail.
Being a top 1%er in any domain is shit because you have to suffer the tedium of almost everyone being shitter than you before getting curb stomped by an absolute alien who outpaces you by a factor of 10.
In chess that’s Magnus.
In football it’s Ronaldo.
In business it’s Musk.
Play literally any video game competitively and you will always find one absolute alien who makes all the other pros look shit (even though they’re all better than you)
It’s a universal phenomenon
In Hip-Hop it’s Eminem
Tupac got Goated because he died at his peak too young and got a cult/lore around his story
Artistically Eminem is actually the only undefeated one all the other rappers are scared of and find themselves publicly humiliated by when they try him
Women used to dealing with men who are always trying to prove their worth to them, don’t know how to be unannoying to men with nothing to prove to them.
They’re so used to getting to choose, that they haven’t actually developed the elegance necessary to get a man to choose them.
I can always tell when a woman who’s used to men trying to prove their worth to her is trying to get me to prove my worth to her
But what she fails to understand is:
I don’t give a shit what she thinks
It’s an affront to me she thinks she’s so above me she gets to test me
No.
Men like me indefinitely ignore women for this kind of behaviour
If you don’t want to be ignored: aim not to be annoying
Come from a place of modesty
If you’re coming from a place of arrogance and presume I must impress
Then I will never even bother with you let alone impress
The very dirty and messy work of being a man is having to be mean and punishing and villainous sometimes, BECAUSE IF WE ARE NOT we'll get treated like subhuman garbage and so merely to be afforded even a basic level of respect we have to teach you to fear us so you treat us well.
Exceptions notwithstanding, the vast majority of people seem to be incapable of treating men well if they do not possess an element of fear in regards to that man, as in, an acknowledgement of his destructive capacity/threat potential and a desire not to be on the receiving end of it.
Awareness of this capacity is the basis for all rudimentary respect and civil behaviour, and guides one's conduct towards him going forward. The absence of a dangerous element, or the belief it is not there leads to repeated violations of said man's dignity by the unafraid, who in its absence perceived or otherwise takes that to mean he is prey and thus exploitable and expendable.
If you are a man dealing with women or children this is especially true (due to their immaturity and dependence) and if you're dealing with low IQs it is likewise amplified because the stupid are best persuaded by aggression they can feel rather than reason they struggle to grasp.
When I say "teach you to fear us" I don't mean "be petrified of us" I mean "realise we can hurt you if you mistreat us so you treat us well so we don't hurt you"
Clarifying that for the dense midwit retards who'll inevitably misunderstand that point and start trauma posting.