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Jun 9, 2023 9 tweets 4 min read Read on X
Here's the thing, though, & it should be 🚩🚨. Rez & presumably other churches w/in UMD *do* require members agree to obey clergy in their extraordinarily unconventional "New Member Covenant."

Full document here, but I will highlight multiple things drive.google.com/file/d/1YHQtth…🧵⬇️
It opens with a commitment to obey and support those in spiritual authority, particularly the bishop and clergy.

Nowhere in this document does it discuss informed methods of issuing a complaint about clergy, only a members responsibility to comply. Image
Concerns with leaders are to be kept private, not even to be discussed with friends or other leaders in the church.

Instead, the concerned layperson is to attempt to privately confront the leader, something that disregards power dynamics & safeguarding best practices. Image
Note this entire subsection about honoring leaders including:
-obedience & submission to their authority
-idea that obedience prevents conflicts (!!!)
-preemptive dismissal of *common & dangerous* allegations against leaders.

This is highly irregular & controlling. Image
Again, people who have concerns or issues are directed to privately go to someone in leadership, presumably so they can persuade them to stay.

I don't know what kind of church discipline was going on at the parish level, but the way it is addressed here is foreboding. Image
The signature page includes agreeing to the extensive rules on conflict (the focus itself a 🚩) and again a reminder to honor leaders.

I don't know if all UMD churches sign this membership covenant but to my knowledge they are required to include the Unity Pledge. Image
If you are wondering why people in UMD/Rez are not speaking about these matters directly, well, this is why.

Members have been taught this from when they joined the church, and the church culture supports it.

This is wrong & weirdly controlling.
It's also unbiblical, despite the fact that the entire document is prooftexted with Scriptures to bolster these points.

There are many NT examples of Christians confronting problematic teaching & much of it involves public discussion.
If you are in @MidwestAnglican or another @The_ACNA diocese that attempts to muffle your concerns or funnels all information through the clergy, please know this is a mark of unhealth.

#acnatoo #churchtoo

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Let's pick up where we left off.

Look over there at the Mount of Olives. Do you see that company of weeping ppl—barefoot King David, 600 of his men & most of the royal court? The mighty man Ittai? They have left the city before Absalom returns.

That scent on the air? 🧵
Sacrifices, offered by Abiathar the priests as Zadok leads the Levites and the ark after David.

But David sends the ark back. This carries hints of the old David, the one who wouldn't raise his hand against God's anointed Saul.

David doesn't know if his rule is over. 2/
He also sends Zadok & Abiathar (and their sons) and Hushai the Arkite back...as spies.

As they go, they encounter friends (?) and foes. They meet Ziba, servant of Jonathan's son Mephibosheth & Shimei, who curses David "for all the spilled blood of the house of Saul." 3/
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1/2 Samuel & books of Kings & Chronicles read like a game of thrones. 🧵
David's sons are ofc vying for the throne & 2 Sam weaves these political machinations together in ways we sometimes just read right over.

The storyteller takes us almost directly from Bathsheba/Uriah story to Amnon/Tamar (not coincidentally; this is to show the parallels). 2/
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We get an abridged version of Mary’s recollections on pgs of gospels—treasured details alongside other mysterious, wonder-full moments: magi & shepherds & aged prophets in the temple. 2/
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She herself witnessed His miraculous works beginning with her request at the wedding of Cana. 3/
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Where might Doug Wilson have learned that “Discipline must by painful...God has required us to inflict pain on those who are dear to us” (Federal Husband)? 🧵
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If deconstruction is a necessary stage of faith formation 🔗⬇️, why is it that Christian parents (& pastors in faith families) speak so negatively about it?

Probably many reasons, but b/c I've been reading so many Christian parenting resources, I want to talk about one 🧵
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A 🧵on the necessity of deconstruction:

As I analyze various Christian resources, I often think about the ppl who lived them. What was it like to parent according to the suggested principles? To be a child “trained up” by them? A family spiritually formed by them?
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