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Here's the thing, though, & it should be 🚩🚨. Rez & presumably other churches w/in UMD *do* require members agree to obey clergy in their extraordinarily unconventional "New Member Covenant."

Full document here, but I will highlight multiple things drive.google.com/file/d/1YHQtth…🧵⬇️
It opens with a commitment to obey and support those in spiritual authority, particularly the bishop and clergy.

Nowhere in this document does it discuss informed methods of issuing a complaint about clergy, only a members responsibility to comply. Image
Concerns with leaders are to be kept private, not even to be discussed with friends or other leaders in the church.

Instead, the concerned layperson is to attempt to privately confront the leader, something that disregards power dynamics & safeguarding best practices. Image
Note this entire subsection about honoring leaders including:
-obedience & submission to their authority
-idea that obedience prevents conflicts (!!!)
-preemptive dismissal of *common & dangerous* allegations against leaders.

This is highly irregular & controlling. Image
Again, people who have concerns or issues are directed to privately go to someone in leadership, presumably so they can persuade them to stay.

I don't know what kind of church discipline was going on at the parish level, but the way it is addressed here is foreboding. Image
The signature page includes agreeing to the extensive rules on conflict (the focus itself a 🚩) and again a reminder to honor leaders.

I don't know if all UMD churches sign this membership covenant but to my knowledge they are required to include the Unity Pledge. Image
If you are wondering why people in UMD/Rez are not speaking about these matters directly, well, this is why.

Members have been taught this from when they joined the church, and the church culture supports it.

This is wrong & weirdly controlling.
It's also unbiblical, despite the fact that the entire document is prooftexted with Scriptures to bolster these points.

There are many NT examples of Christians confronting problematic teaching & much of it involves public discussion.
If you are in @MidwestAnglican or another @The_ACNA diocese that attempts to muffle your concerns or funnels all information through the clergy, please know this is a mark of unhealth.

#acnatoo #churchtoo

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Jun 9
The alleged pattern in @MidwestAnglican is that it is acceptable to ordain or put in visible leadership positions men who have past felony charges of violent domestic abuse, confessed grooming & sexual predatory behavior, or criminal sexual activity.

Lacking discernment… 🧵
…and the capacity to hold grace/forgiveness/healing alongside wise safeguards & boundaries, it appears that a man’s vocational ministry aspirations/“calling” is more of a priority than the well being of the ppl under his care.
In this system, I wonder what, if anything, would disqualify a man who felt “called” to vocational ministry.

(Survivor stories have indicated a few things: questioning current leaders, sexual identity, & singleness disqualified them).
Read 12 tweets
Jun 8
Helpful post from @a_wassen explaining normative canonical processes & providing historical canonical context for what's happening in @The_ACNA
@a_wassen @The_ACNA I am struck by this: can a bishop ever have a Presentment made against him? Image
And this: is the reality that there is no circumstance under which findings from PIT can be considered?

Is it wise to let individuals alone determine their recusal? Image
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Jun 8
I am glad @The_ACNA is sorting out canonical processes & discovering gaps in underdeveloped structures. This is important work 🔗anglicanchurch.net/update-on-the-…

I am distressed to read ⬇️ response from @MidwestAnglican Bp Ruch who skillfully redirects from inciting incident: 🧵 Image
Multiple survivors still allege they were neglected, ignored, mistreated & ultimately villainized by the @MidwestAnglican leaders they turned to for help.

There are outstanding & unanswered allegations of irresponsible & domineering leadership w/in UMD.
acnatoo.org/diocese-of-the…
The failed response to a minor's disclosure of abuse by Mark Rivera, now convicted of multiple counts of felony sexual assault, remains unaddressed.

Yes, fast and pray, but rend your hearts while you do it.

Read 11 tweets
Jun 8
Authoritarian Christian parenting carries such an undercurrent of contempt for children:

They are named “vipers in diapers,” little tyrants, sinners who need sin spanked out of them.

Their developmental, God-given qualities of curiosity & tenderness are viewed as rebellion 1/12
They are required to respond quickly, immediately, w/a self-control most adults don’t demonstrate.

Their “failures” are discussed publicly, as adults would never do w/other adults & they have little privacy. 2/12
They are “trained” with abusive behavior-control methods that demand a dissociated accompanying cheerfulness &!forced affection afterward.

Children aren’t conceived of as full persons, they are belongings to be controlled & managed & shaped 3/12
Read 12 tweets
Jun 7
Thinking more about how high control religious comms have rigid formulas for everything from scheduling 30 min increments of each day to clothing rules to purity of the food one eats.

Disordered eating becomes an outlet for control & representative of broader home economics. 🧵
Someone replied that diet/appearance were heavily monitored in IBLP to meet expectations for girls/women to have pleasing countenances & achieve a certain type.

But the inclusion of food rules struck me b/c I came across them here too:
In researching these communities I've seen a kind of orthorexia, an obsession with the "right" kind of eating in everything from milling your own wheat to fasting/elimination diets to no sugar/processed foods to growing your own produce & a return to homesteading.
Read 23 tweets
Jun 7
Digging deeper into parenting ideas exposed in #shinyhappypeople & came across old transcript of Mother's Panel talk given at IBLP Knoxville conf.

I want to spotlight the horrible ideology that supports IBLP abuse & is a kernel of broader Xian parenting teaching in long🧵⬇️
CW: abuse
You can access the full transcript here, about halfway down, after an interesting discussion about ways Gothard's "Character First" curricula was taught at public schools & implemented via "Cities of Character" program by Sarah Palin & others. democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboar…
Things to note: panel includes four women & one man who describe their large families: 9 children, 6 children, 8 children & 5 + *we work w/a lot of other children*

Unsurprisingly, all panelists are exhorters/prophets, a spiritualized term enabling them to tell others what to do
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