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No.

Quite apart from the fact this started as “preferred” and it’s now pivoting to “required”, I will not be manipulated into playing someone else’s pretend fantasy about themselves because they demand it.

They can’t have that. Image
How dare you claim to fight for me.

#LGBWithoutTheTQ Image
It’s lying. It’s playing into someone else’s fantasy. And it’s not “seeing a whole person” it’s pretending that person is something they are not, and have absolutely zero right to claim. Image
The US for example - lying.

Refusal to say something cannot be harassment. If this idea comes to the U.K. I will be on the streets defending our rights to not have speech compelled. Image

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More from @DuncanHenry78

Jun 11
@GNQ__ 🙄 what is it with people in the US apparently insisting on gay being a choice/abuse? Lots of kids sadly get abused just look at the testimony of women… and yet most people remain straight. Meanwhile I definitely wasn’t abused nor did I even know about anal at 14…
@GNQ__ Or porn. The *weight* of evidence points to in most cases homosexuality arising from multiple biological pathways of development. Rather like personality traits. You can’t make someone’s personality what you want. Parents know this well.
@GNQ__ I’m going to bookmark my own short thread on the most plausible origins of homosexuality. Oh and if anyone says it’s a choice I’m going to assume they are bisexual.
Read 4 tweets
Jun 11
What i would like to say is actually that first bit of the video is really important. If you use wrong sex pronouns as Helen says - things start to not make sense, because sex matters. I also find it offensive if a person refers to a man as “she” 1/
And yes it’s my offence. I have my reasons, I’m happy to explain them

I understand the frustration of being corrected and I’m not “outraged” by Helen’s desire to tell people to just *stop* when they do that. I get frustrated with ppl ever day! Especially when they are right 2/
First, it’s just “offence”. People will correct you. It feels like coercion when they do that but I might suggest they are bluntly pointing at an incoherency/inconsistency in your head. Probably why people get frustrated. 3/
Read 10 tweets
Jun 10
@stormrobinson @theneonrequiem “This conversation may be old and closed for you, but it’s not for me”

And this is what education should be about. Especially for gay men. I was fortunate (?) to have every theory thrown at me in my youth. I grew up with it.

Not everyone else has…
@stormrobinson @theneonrequiem I would focus on the absolute facts though.

1- being gay doesn’t predispose you to anything. Other than finding men hot.

2- how you live your life and what you decide to do is always on you and not the result of “urges” 🙄😬

3- a gay relationship can be entirely fulfilling.
@stormrobinson @theneonrequiem I know the theories on “causeS” (because if there’s only one I’ll eat my hat) - but I also know that being gay isn’t a detriment. It doesn’t matter how it’s caused nor is there any reason to prevent it so that prejudiced people can be happy.
Read 4 tweets
Jun 9
So when I say homophobia reaches a minimum amongst “GC” and sex realists, I’m particularly disappointed when I see it coming from gay and bisexual people.

I long for the day when being same sex attracted is not considered a problem to be fixed, cured - or prevented. 1/ Image
It is not a disorder. This was established in Britain as long ago as 1957 in the Wolfenden report.

Seeing everything through the lens of suburban 2.4 (or 1.8?) kids and a dog is regressive thinking. I know that’s what’s going on 2/
For the longest time I also longed for the perfect family life that I had been sold as the ideal, and was angry at being gay. Not self loathing just annoyed.

But then I realised the whole point of a social species doesn’t revolve around individual procreation but the group 3/
Read 6 tweets
Jun 9
I am in a long term relationship. I do not have significant trauma, neglect or abuse in my past.

There is scientific evidence for a biological predisposition for homosexuality. Evolution would not permit sexual orientation to be dependent on environment. 1/
“Why am I gay” is an academic discussion. “Why do gay people struggle with relationships sometimes” - is a sociological discussion.

I know I am exclusively attracted to the same sex, and it’s not a problem. THAT is the key argument. 2/
It is not a problem. I am not unsatisfied or in need of help. If my homosexuality is a result of falling on my head age 3 - it still doesn’t matter, because it doesn’t matter.

I’m happy. I’m not doing myself, others or society harm by having gay sex or relationships. 3/
Read 6 tweets
Jun 9
Some people didn’t seem to get what I was saying here and some are now apparently frustrated, think I am naive or apologising for things people do because I said they “care”.

That’s not what I’m saying 1/
What I am saying is that people who have an ideology that I think is harmful or passionately disagree with - are not all malevolent or want people to suffer.

I used to be a TRA. Caring about people was what motivated me. 2/
And this is relevant to all ideologies that do harm. Those who are activists for fame/attention/grift - will move on or disappear. Those who are indoctrinated and care - *and will not listen* are the most dangerous and should not be underestimated. 3/
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