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Same Sex Attracted (gay) Man. Critical of “Gender”. I support LGB and Women’s rights. #IStandWithJKRowling. #RepealTheGRA. “Tool of Radfems”.
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Apr 6 7 tweets 2 min read
Ok let’s pick one of these at random. “The same bigots you stand with used to say the same thing about people like you”

This is false in many ways, and is weaponising homophobia to advocate for *men pretending to be women* 1/
Image First, they are generally not “the same people”. The people I stand with are the same people who advocated *for* gay rights. The fact there are people who lump “LGBTQ+” into a “bad people” box is irrelevant. 2/
Apr 2 11 tweets 2 min read
I would like people who have sympathy for “HSTS” to reflect on that a bit. There are a few reasons. First, the sympathy shown to those men is craved and coveted by men with AGP. It inflames their jealousy even more.

Second - the HSTS vs AGP is flawed… 1/ There are many inputs to men claiming to be women. Sexual orientation is only one and the motivations overlap, and can exist in the same individual. It’s possible for a man or boy with ASD to misinterpret his own orientation as just one example. 2/
Feb 9 8 tweets 2 min read
Well good for you Janice. Use whatever pronouns you feel like using to be “courteous”

But you call a man she and I will consider you as disrespectful to me, pandering to an idiotic ideology or narcissists and that’s also my right. 🤷‍♂️ 1/

archive.is/lcrRb For the millionth time people criticising you and saying “you shouldn’t do that” or even “don’t do that!” Are not forcing you to do anything.

You’re an adult. You can say “no I will do what I want”

And we are allowed to have an opinion on it you don’t like. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ 2/2
Feb 6 5 tweets 1 min read
I just saw this. That Vulcan feeling I had earlier sadly did not last the day.

I don’t agree with this. I also don’t like gay men crying homophobia at the merest criticism.

Homophobia reaches *a minimum* in GC feminism. Not zero obviously, but a minimum. 1/ Image And rad fems. Of all people they are the only ones who genuinely treat me *just the same as every other man*

And that’s all I ever wanted.

And no you can’t convince me with one or two screenshots. I screenshot and keep every homophobic thing said to me.

I know who says what
Feb 3 4 tweets 1 min read
I am so irritated by people who imply I’m not being “respectful” if I don’t call some men “she” (which ones? What’s the criteria?).

It’s entirely disrespectful to women and to gay men trying to point out all men are equally men… because we ALL ARE. 1/ And then will complain that my “no I am not doing that and I don’t appreciate being called “disrespectful” equals “policing speech”.

No I’m not. YOU are. By applying emotional coercion of “be polite” to get me to lie.

Stop it!
Nov 9, 2023 5 tweets 1 min read
If you want to save boys from becoming men driven around by their sexual desires then the one thing you do not want to do is tell them that acting on every sexual desire and fantasy they have is “ok”. Instead reinforce boundaries and let them know they will not come to harm 1/ By not indulging every fantasy that pops up into their head, and to keep “sexy times” boundaried. No you do not want to live out your fantasy 24/7 even though I know when you’re aroused you definitely believe you do. 2/
Aug 3, 2023 10 tweets 2 min read
I have mixed feelings about this. Very mixed. On the one hand I feel anger that women like this are participating in the glorification of self harm, and that women can be men, or non women. She will never be a man, and those scars just prove it. But… 1/ Image She’s also a victim. A victim of the ideology that says women can be men, and that dysphoria - instead of being a response to the gendered world we live in, as well as a possible internal misinterpretation of sexuality - is a sign “body is wrong”. 2/
Jun 26, 2023 7 tweets 2 min read
🙄 there is. It’s often misdiagnosed, over or under depending on context but saying “it’s lit real” when there’s absolutely neurological evidence that some of us have an executive function that is so out of normal limits we have problems - is unhelpful. 1/ https://t.co/BuEOS7nhIQ
For many years I was misdiagnosed with anxiety until my ADHD diagnosis. The anxiety was and is real. It operates in lieu of Executive function and planning. Normal brains are able to just remember, plan and do. I struggle with that so I end up worrying myself into things 2/
Jun 12, 2023 4 tweets 2 min read
No.

Quite apart from the fact this started as “preferred” and it’s now pivoting to “required”, I will not be manipulated into playing someone else’s pretend fantasy about themselves because they demand it.

They can’t have that. Image How dare you claim to fight for me.

#LGBWithoutTheTQ Image
Jun 11, 2023 4 tweets 2 min read
@GNQ__ 🙄 what is it with people in the US apparently insisting on gay being a choice/abuse? Lots of kids sadly get abused just look at the testimony of women… and yet most people remain straight. Meanwhile I definitely wasn’t abused nor did I even know about anal at 14… @GNQ__ Or porn. The *weight* of evidence points to in most cases homosexuality arising from multiple biological pathways of development. Rather like personality traits. You can’t make someone’s personality what you want. Parents know this well.
Jun 11, 2023 10 tweets 2 min read
What i would like to say is actually that first bit of the video is really important. If you use wrong sex pronouns as Helen says - things start to not make sense, because sex matters. I also find it offensive if a person refers to a man as “she” 1/ And yes it’s my offence. I have my reasons, I’m happy to explain them

I understand the frustration of being corrected and I’m not “outraged” by Helen’s desire to tell people to just *stop* when they do that. I get frustrated with ppl ever day! Especially when they are right 2/
Jun 10, 2023 4 tweets 3 min read
@stormrobinson @theneonrequiem “This conversation may be old and closed for you, but it’s not for me”

And this is what education should be about. Especially for gay men. I was fortunate (?) to have every theory thrown at me in my youth. I grew up with it.

Not everyone else has… @stormrobinson @theneonrequiem I would focus on the absolute facts though.

1- being gay doesn’t predispose you to anything. Other than finding men hot.

2- how you live your life and what you decide to do is always on you and not the result of “urges” 🙄😬

3- a gay relationship can be entirely fulfilling.
Jun 9, 2023 6 tweets 2 min read
So when I say homophobia reaches a minimum amongst “GC” and sex realists, I’m particularly disappointed when I see it coming from gay and bisexual people.

I long for the day when being same sex attracted is not considered a problem to be fixed, cured - or prevented. 1/ Image It is not a disorder. This was established in Britain as long ago as 1957 in the Wolfenden report.

Seeing everything through the lens of suburban 2.4 (or 1.8?) kids and a dog is regressive thinking. I know that’s what’s going on 2/
Jun 9, 2023 6 tweets 2 min read
I am in a long term relationship. I do not have significant trauma, neglect or abuse in my past.

There is scientific evidence for a biological predisposition for homosexuality. Evolution would not permit sexual orientation to be dependent on environment. 1/ “Why am I gay” is an academic discussion. “Why do gay people struggle with relationships sometimes” - is a sociological discussion.

I know I am exclusively attracted to the same sex, and it’s not a problem. THAT is the key argument. 2/
Jun 9, 2023 4 tweets 1 min read
Some people didn’t seem to get what I was saying here and some are now apparently frustrated, think I am naive or apologising for things people do because I said they “care”.

That’s not what I’m saying 1/ What I am saying is that people who have an ideology that I think is harmful or passionately disagree with - are not all malevolent or want people to suffer.

I used to be a TRA. Caring about people was what motivated me. 2/
Jun 8, 2023 4 tweets 2 min read
@bradfjordd I agreed right up until the “it’s ok to try to prevent your child from becoming gay”. No one is “born gay” - technically. Born with a developmental pathway for homosexuality both genetic and biological that will emerge as you develop - is more accurate. Eg I wasn’t “born ginger” @bradfjordd Not only is it not right to suggest a parent should try to shelter their child from the unfortunately homophobic world - parents *do not have that power*

If a child turns out gay then it has absolutely nothing to do with the specific brand of parenting.
May 16, 2023 4 tweets 1 min read
As ever I am concerned again with the subtext in these articles. The article on the whole is common sense. Most people would agree with it except gender identity ideologues. But there is a subtext. 1/ Image The U.K. is a tolerant place. That’s good. But not all things that are tolerated should be, and this appears to be leaning into “most people tolerate me when I perform my impersonation of a woman”.

People who acknowledge sex - that’s the bare minimum expectation. 2/
May 15, 2023 6 tweets 2 min read
Sorry to be “that guy” - but I think people making fun of this AND people pretending (because it is pretending) that this is amazing or good - are basically the same people.

This is not good. I also think this person may have a genetic condition 1/ I’m not an expert but I have eyes. Something doesn’t add up and I’m willing to bet the people applauding this are virtue signalling, but in reality are treating this person (and others) as personal entertainment. A modern day freak show. People making fun are just being honest 2/
May 15, 2023 4 tweets 2 min read
No they aren’t. No amount of pretending privately makes it true. I wish it *were* just between them and their families.

I’m sure they will continue being who they are, but not who they claim to be, and I am not going to play along.

This is ridiculous now. ImageImage Not a fact.

People need to stop projecting their make believe on everyone else.

This isn’t “transphobic rhetoric” it’s the truth. How you deal with that is the not my problem or responsibility. Image
May 14, 2023 5 tweets 2 min read
Dear men who want to support women. If you are doing it for the right reasons (fighting injustice), then the level of praise and approval you need from others - is zero. The level of gratitude required - is zero. If you want to be a “hero” - then that’s the wrong reason. 1/ It should go without saying that shouting at and over women, and going on days long strops and claiming all gay men are into BDSM are also not consistent with being “in it” for the right reasons.

I’ll support women fighting injustice because injustice is wrong. The end 2/2
Apr 30, 2023 10 tweets 2 min read
I see plenty of people who use “passing” people who identify as trans as attempted “gotchas” for segregation on the lines of sex. There’s a major inconsistency with their own “gotcha” however. A mini thread 🧵 1/ Let’s say ok, segregation by sex will leave edge cases where some people who have gone to great lengths to deliberately disguise themselves as the opposite sex, will have difficulties in the spaces that they are entitled to be in (ie their own sex spaces). 2/