Thread by @jon_d_doe

Almost everyday, I come here to enlighten men on the consequences of dating or marrying a single mother.

Even though I know that it's mostly men that deceive the women into getting pregnant.

I still expose the consequences of dating one, or marrying one.

I also talk about

the possible consequences of dating or marrying a lady that was raised by a single mother.

And we have read countless times, from single mothers sharing their pains & regrets.

So is it me that will now come to encourage women to get pregnant for men who do not wish to be

responsible?

I have a sister that is a single mother and I know what she's facing.

I know how disappointed my dad was, when he found out.

I've told you young ladies.

Don't allow these men deceive you. Any man that wants you to have his child, should go and meet with your

parents to do things the proper way.

Some of these men want to escape the responsibilities of being a husband.

They're not selfless.

They don't believe in taking care of bills alone as a husband.

They want to be free but have a child they can call their own.

It's not right.

Both of you have agreed to commit fornication.

So you as the woman, should not be made to suffer the consequences alone.

You're the one that your life will be truncated.

You're the one that will bear the burden of shame.

You're the one that a lot of men will reject because

you have a child outside wedlock.

Don't let him guilt trip you into getting pregnant for him.

If a man doesn't marry you the proper way, he will take you for granted.

Show him that you're not desperate and that you have a family name to protect.

If a man tells you to get

pregnant for him first, ask him if he will advise his own sister to do that?

The responsibility of being a father and a husband is enormous.

Any man that is not mentally & financially ready to carry out those responsibilities has no business bringing an innocent child to this

world.

You women are incapable of raising a child without the presence of a man.

And the man that fits perfectly, is your husband and father of your children.

That should always stick at the back of your minds.

And you the women...

If you think that getting pregnant for

a man will make him wife you, you just may be making a big mistake.

Guard jealously, whose child you'll decide to carry.

It's your womb & it's your body that will undergo irreversible changes.

Let the scars of your motherhood be tied to your husband.

He's the only one that

will appreciate and value those changes in your body.

Let him be the one that is responsible for your fallen breasts and wrinkled belly.

Another man will not appreciate it.

Hence, don't accept to be a baby mama.

Unless you truly need a child, & no man is forthcoming and

You're getting old.

In that case, you chose to do it, without being deceived by a man.

Your family & the society will understand.

But being an under 30 & you want to be a baby mama?

Don't limit yourself.

You're a woman, & you deserve to be a mother under a man's roof.

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