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SEXY HOBBY 101

A sexy hobby helps you meet a constant supply of new women

bartender
surfer
salsa dancer
musician/DJ
world traveler
party thrower
visual artist
amateur chef
personal trainer
ski/golf/tennis
beach volleyball
poetry reading
city tour guide
hiking group organizer
SEXY HOBBY 102

Another group of sexy hobbies doesn't help you meet women directly, but it adds a masculine aura to your persona –– so when you meet a girl, she will be impressed

boxing/MMA
motorcycle racing
extreme sports
outdoor rock climbing
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"Engaging in a sexy hobby just to meet women is leaning into her. Entering her world instead of the other way around"

If you're fascinated by the American Civil War and spend most of your free time reading about it and you're single, you only have yourself to blame
A lot of times, this is simply done out of fear

Yeah, the American Civil War is fascinating but it's also a very "safe" hobby to sit in your house reading about it

Going to a ballroom dance class and looking like a fool, that's much harder –– but maybe you would enjoy it?
A lot of guys stick to dry "safe" masculine hobbies –– if they even have hobbies apart from watching football on TV –– and then wonder why they can't generate sparks w/ girls

I'm not saying you need to pick up artistic "feminine" hobbies – both salsa dancing and boxing are GOOD
Maybe this sourdough guy is joking, but this kind of thing happens

I became a photographer because I was fascinated by feminine beauty and wanted a way to meet women. I was always curious about photography, I knew I would like it, but the big push & motivation came from pussy Image
Eddie Murphy got the courage to do stand up comedy thanks to the allure of pussy

Another misguided semi-blackpill idea is the notion that we shouldn't do anything for women or to meet women

In a way, it's well intentioned. Don't lean into her world –– I get it

But don't be so rigid and fearful that you can't allow yourself to be inspired by the opposite sex
I've heard women make this mistake too:

"I don't dress up to get attention from men, I dress for myself"

It's okay to want to be attractive to the opposite sex!

In fact, this is the way it was meant to work

Women inspiring men to be brave

Men inspiring women to be beautiful

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