A sexy hobby helps you meet a constant supply of new women
bartender
surfer
salsa dancer
musician/DJ
world traveler
party thrower
visual artist
amateur chef
personal trainer
ski/golf/tennis
beach volleyball
poetry reading
city tour guide
hiking group organizer
SEXY HOBBY 102
Another group of sexy hobbies doesn't help you meet women directly, but it adds a masculine aura to your persona –– so when you meet a girl, she will be impressed
boxing/MMA
motorcycle racing
extreme sports
outdoor rock climbing
ASK RIVELINO
"Engaging in a sexy hobby just to meet women is leaning into her. Entering her world instead of the other way around"
If you're fascinated by the American Civil War and spend most of your free time reading about it and you're single, you only have yourself to blame
A lot of times, this is simply done out of fear
Yeah, the American Civil War is fascinating but it's also a very "safe" hobby to sit in your house reading about it
Going to a ballroom dance class and looking like a fool, that's much harder –– but maybe you would enjoy it?
A lot of guys stick to dry "safe" masculine hobbies –– if they even have hobbies apart from watching football on TV –– and then wonder why they can't generate sparks w/ girls
I'm not saying you need to pick up artistic "feminine" hobbies – both salsa dancing and boxing are GOOD
Maybe this sourdough guy is joking, but this kind of thing happens
I became a photographer because I was fascinated by feminine beauty and wanted a way to meet women. I was always curious about photography, I knew I would like it, but the big push & motivation came from pussy
Eddie Murphy got the courage to do stand up comedy thanks to the allure of pussy
HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS
Talking to a girl you don't know is NOT easy, but we can break it down into 5 concrete steps
I will describe the steps & then give examples
1-Break the ice in an honest way, say that you saw her, she caught your eye, tell her something you noticed about her
2-Keep on talking to her about her, your impressions of her, in a playful fun non-needy way. This is how you display your humor and social courage. Also, as you talk she can start to warm up to you & your vibe, and catch her bearings since this was completely unexpected for her
3-Ideally, she starts to warm up to you and begins to share more about herself & the conversation turns fun. You can start sharing a bit more about yourself too, but keeping the ratio 80/20
If she seems very not interested in talking to you, this is where you bow out gracefully