A large majority of men prefer willing women and have no interest in treating them violently. They're happy to take the lead, but indifferent to sexual dominance.
The ironic consequence of this is that...
The sexual dominance and violence men act out is for women's pleasure, not their own.
Thus, it's an act of servitude, or SUBMISSION--not dominance at all!
The most common male fantasies revolve around willing women, preferably more than one, actively (not passively) giving them visual and tactile pleasure.
Because the women men fantasize about are both willing and active, there is no need for violence or interest in it.
Would you rather date a woman with a "balanced" figure who's flat from top to bottom--or a woman with an "unbalanced" figure, who's either top-heavy or bottom-heavy?
Examples and poll below.
Boys,
Would you rather date a woman with a flat and "balanced" figure, or a woman with an "unbalanced" figure who has curves on top or bottom?