Men’s idea of a good relationship is a relationship with no conflict, but a zero conflict dynamic can only exist when one party (the woman) is unpersoned and therefore cannot voice disagreement. Demands for submission are just demands to shut up and let him have his way no matter what. It’s a toddler’s idea of marriage.
Women’s idea of a good relationship is not one that lack conflicts, but one in which conflicts are handled respectfully, and peacefully. It is not based in hierarchy, exploitation, and servitude, but rather collaboration and genuine partnership
When women accept the male view of marriage, that relationships are about maintaining the upper hand and being the one who gets to exploit rather than the one who is exploited, they become what people refer to as gold diggers, and their existence upsets a lot of men because women are not supposed to know the game that men are playing
Men are actually very emotionally fragile and conflict/risk averse, this is why any concern brought up by the woman is immediately met with defensiveness- “stop nagging” “I can never do anything right” “I guess I’m just terrible then” Men are not naturally wired to find solutions, they are wired to avoid and move on at the expense of someone else
Men are wired for MINIMUM EFFORT in all things. Traditional masculinity was a social invention to mitigate the problem of inborn male laziness. They promise men minimal effort in the home in exchange for effort in the mines, wars, factories, and now offices
Men are not naturally hard workers, they had to promise them easy p*ssy in order to put in effort toward society, now that p*ssy is no longer guaranteed they suddenly see no value in maintaining employment or being a part of the social fabric, this is because the average man does not inherently care about humanity or where it’s going, he does it only for treats, like a dog

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