Unlocking the power of social skills took me 5 years.
But here's the secret: (95% of people miss it.)
A thread on mastering social connections 🧵
Logic kills interesting conversations, especially with women.
Being too logical whilst socializing results in:
- Overthinking
- Burns charisma
- Lack of authenticity
- Coming off awkward
- Being stuck in your head
- Difficult to feel connections
- Struggle to make friends/dates
I've always been analytical.
Helped me in school/work but massively held me back in social situations.
Every sentence was pre-planned.
It came off as weird.
Thought I just didn't 'have it.'
It's only until I spoke to more people (hundreds) I came to a HUGE realisation.
You're the most charismatic/social when you're not trying to be social or charismatic.
There isn't any perfectly constructed lines or a rehearsed body language sequence that will make you SOCIAL.
It's something you need to trigger within yourself.
How do you do it?
Do challenging social missions:
1. Approach the hottest woman you can see
2. Do a weird dance in the middle of a crowd
3. Say everything that's on your mind to the next person
This will put you in the SOCIAL state.
'What if I've got social anxiety? I can't do it.'
Works better if you have social anxiety.
Makes it easier to tap into the social flow.
The adrenaline makes you more alert. After a couple interactions you'll be zoned in.
You'll naturally be funny, charismatic, ballsy.
I overcame social anxiety.
And I coach men to do the exact same.
If you're ready to break free from the social matrix and unleash your social confidence, apply to my social anxiety mentoring.