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this is still one of the wildest graphs I've seen in recent times

why women and men go to college and what they expect to get out of college may have very little overlap, which explains (to the first order) a lot of differences in attendance, use, etc Image
just why they have such different expectations of college's purpose is harder to pin down
HAMMURABI'S ERA: Men pay Bride Price to the father

TODAY: Men pay Bride Price to college administrators, who laugh all the way to the bank

it's kind of impressive to invent something worse than the historic practice. At least the old way kept money in the family.
perhaps the median thinking is:

Men: if I go to college I will get a better job

Women: if I go to college I will become a better person

These are not terrible reasoning for a 17yo. They're equally unsophisticated. But they are quite distinct.

thinking of this bc of this thread about why many more women do study abroad in college

if goal is ~job-focused, median (male?) reasoning doesn't consider it. But if the goal is ~self-improvement focused, you weigh the costs v differently

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Nov 2
I put it here to heat the house and use with cooking. The whole house is heated by the wood stove, though the north bedrooms are supplemented a bit.

It makes the floorplan more open than I think is ideal, but given our budget constraints I think it was the best choice.
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We just have the one couch. I'm not crazy about it either. We need a lot more comfy seating but all the armchairs I like are pretty expensive. We're probably going to buy our first this December. And if we really like it get another.


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you can see part of Simi's sewing setup (because the studio room is now mostly my home office) and the beam that's where a wall would be there if we did not decide at the last minute to make the downstairs an open L shape so the wood stove could heat everything
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Oct 17
working on draft for my home design series, the part on my kitchen.
Is there anything you want answered?
slightly related we've finally bought a runner for it (not the best pictures just some that I had)

I was looking over old photos and its very weird to see so many for years without any shelves at all in the kitchen. It's starting to feel fuller.
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I'll mention:

no upper cabinets makes it feel (IMO) much more spacious, light, less dingy, yet less antiseptic too

we made the kitchen big at the expense of the downstairs bath/laundry which is a big tradeoff.

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Sep 22
thread of some advice on finding a wife
Step 1 you have to learn to love women. Not *a* woman, all women. You have to have affection for the entire sex. You should cherish the very thought of women, have a fondness and a sympathy overflowing for them. This is table stakes.
All kinds of people will try to get you to hate men or women these days and you must reject these people as imbeciles that want you to be unhappy.

I'm not saying you can't complain. But the faults of the other sex should be approached with a tender solicitude, and some humility.
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Sep 7
if a country wanted to increase the birth rate there's plenty of things they could try:

1. Ban full-time education after 18. Part time is fine. This stops ppl delaying their lives via the worse-than-unpaid internship. The sooner people make money the sooner they can have babies.
2. gov pensions (eg social security) are very small and only substantial if you've had children. People complain that social pensions require a growth pyramid of population, so just formalize that.

No children? Nearly no gov pension.

obviously #2 has a serious flaw...
one would think the people who might need a gov pension the most are the people with no children (to help them in old age).

But if childless people proclaim that being childless affords them so much money over child-having people, maybe... we take their word for it.
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Sep 2
THREAD OF SECRETS as I think of them

The secret to good sleep is to only use 5-15 watt incandescent bulbs on dimmers in the upstairs of your house, in sconces and table lamps. It should feel darker than downstairs.
I wrote about my own setup here with more recommendations
map.simonsarris.com/p/designing-a-…
The secret to waking up is to wake up way earlier than you have to. When you have 1-2 hours where you can just sit there calmly, drinking coffee, and not be rushed, you feel ten times better.

Later on, you can work on being ~productive~ in the a.m. too if you please.
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Aug 18
There's something I find deeply disturbing in the modern world about the concept of jobs.

When people say "no one wants to work [hard] anymore" I actually do think they're on to something.
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The problem is that a lot of (mostly liberal?) people seem to treat jobs *not* as an instrumental thing - a position for getting serious work done - but instead as a kind of reward or perk.

Jobs are things to be handed out. And if you don't like someone they should lose it, etc.
So many people I know don't *really* take their job seriously. In municipal gov especially.

I think to people in the civil service jobs in the early 1900s, something like the show Parks and Rec would be more horror than comedy.
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