1. Care about your appearance. Get a haircut. If you’re bald shave it off. If you're fat get your body in shape. If you're skinny add muscle to your frame. Dress like you care. Your body is your business card but most importantly you'll feel better by giving a fuck.
2. Choose a goal. Make it your health, career, finances, or relationships. Obsess over it. Get support. Disappear for awhile. Don’t tell anyone what you’re doing. Work your ass off. Show them with your results.
Harsh weight loss advice no one wants to hear in 2025:
1. Obesity is not about genetics. It's about epigenetics. The foods you eat and your environment will be the main tool in how much fat you gain or lose.
2. If you are out of shape your kids will most likely be out of shape too. Not because of genetics but because of the behaviors and example you have set for over the course of their lives.
3. The same people who say tracking your food is too time consuming are the same people who watch binge watch Netflix for 3 hours a day.
4. Tracking your foods is not an eating disorder much like tracking your finances is not a spending disorder.