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HOW TO RESPOND TO WOMEN'S UNEXPECTED REQUEST

Sometimes women will hit you with strange or unexpected requests. When they do, you need a way to answer.

Want to learn how? Let's dive in👇

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A member in our whatsapp chat support met a girl at a shopping mall who told him her fiancé was out of town... then asked him for pics of his manhood.

Now, depending on your experience with women, you might have one of several reactions to this request:

1. "Oh man, she wants a pic of his junk! She must really be randy for him!"

2. "Hmm, just met a girl and right away she asks for a picture of his privates? Sounds fishy."

3. "Whether she likes him or not, demanding him show his before she's shown hers or they've even connected much is asking a lot of him."

The third reaction is the most on-point one.

If you're wondering why, well, the thing about pictures of a man's privates is they don't turn women on.

Women who collect them do so as a hobby, and they can have a LOT of them:

-"Here is the guy I talked to on Tinder. He says he's a doctor."

-"Here is a guy I matched with on Bumble. He's unemployed but look how HUGE he is!"

-"Here's this guy who's still a college student. Look at his, it's kind of twisted!"

-"Here's one a guy sent me who I met at happy hour."

-"Here's one from this boss at my office who was flirting with me. I'm keeping this one for blackmail!"

... and so on. She hasn't ever actually seen any of these men's members in PERSON, and likely never will.

But it certainly was thoughtful of those men to give her the pics of her privates and help her expand her collection, wasn't it?

Here's the thing: you need to be able to differentiate between women who are genuinely interested in you vs. women who just want to use you.

If she's genuinely interested, maybe she's using a request like this to get a sexy dialogue going.

If she's just using you though, all she wants is for you to give her the thing she wants, then be on your merry way. 'K thanks bye!

What do you DO when a girl hits you with an odd on the spot request like this?

Well, simple... you turn it right back around on HER.

WHAT TO DO WITH ON THE SPOT REQUESTS

In the case where she wants a picture of his privates, here are a few example ways to answer this when she asks:

1. "Well, I don't know. What are you going to do with it?"

2. "That depends. What're you offering?"

3. "It prefers warm, dark places to cold, harsh camera lights."

Voice tone is CRUCIAL here. Yours should be sexy and suggestive.

As for the responses themselves, the first two challenge this woman directly.

The third, on the other hand, ups the ante.

Let's look at the first two. What happens if you ask what she'll do with it?

Well, you create an opening for her to do all sorts of things:

-She can move things into sex talk, and tell you she'll pleasure herself

-She can move into playful banter by giving you a sarcastic response ("Hang it on my wall!")

-Or she might shoot down any ideas you've got by being matter of fact ("Nothing, I collect them")

This is what you WANT.

You want to use this to either springboard into more playful or sexual communication, OR find out she isn't interested if she isn't.

It works exactly the same with "What're you offering?"

Either she is going to respond with something playful and flirtatious, or she will be entitled and demanding about it.

Entitled and demanding is like "Nothing, just send it to me." Or "Are you going to send it or not?" Or "Well, I hope you send it!"

If you get a response like that, she isn't interested.

She just wants free stuff and expects men to give it to her. You won't get her by playing that game (it's HER game... rigged in HER favor).

HOWEVER... if she responds with something playful or flirtatious ("Well, that depends how big it is"), you're golden.

Now, it's important here that you don't just do the thing she's asking for nothing.

You've got to have standards.

You're a guy who wants something for his time and effort.

So there should be plenty of bantering and flirtation here.

And you probably won't ever actually send her the pic.

What about our third example above? The one that ups the ante?

If you just directly tell her "it prefers warm, dark places to cold, harsh camera lights" you again put pressure on her to clarify her intentions.

She can flirt back with something like "What kind of warm, dark places?" or by giggling or blushing.

Or she can respond with repeating her demands or trying to cajole you: "Camera lights aren't THAT harsh!"

If she flirts, blushes, giggles, or anything like that...

you're in good shape. Continue the flirtation. See where you can take it.

If she ignores your flirtation & continues to press you to give what you want, you can be confident she doesn't want to flirt.

She just wants to use you. Excuse yourself and move along.

OTHER KINDS OF ODD REQUESTS
Random genital picture requests from women you've met at the mall is not the sole time you'll use this sort of response.

You can use it for all KINDS of odd, overmuch, or unexpected requests from women:

-"Can you go to the bar and buy me a drink?" two minutes after you've met her

-"Could say that joke again so my friend can hear? She'd think it's so funny"

-"Can you give me your scarf? I'm cold" a minute after you've met her

-"I know we just met, but do you think you could drive my friends and me home? It's only an hour away"

Nobody makes you do these things.

Men often feel like they HAVE to do them... because they hope that if they do them it will lead to the goodies.

But as every guy's experienced, all too often there are no goodies attached to requests like this. Just inconvenience.

The best way to steer CLEAR of the inconvenience and sift out the girls who are interested from the ones who aren't is by turning her request right around on her.

Ask her what she wants it for, if that applies.

OR ask her what's in it for you (applies to everything). Then it's on her to sweeten the deal.

If she can't make it a sweet deal, you'll know she isn't interested... and you can spare your time, energy, and focus for the women who ARE.

And if she DOES flirt back, giggle, blush, or make the deal a sweet one?

Well, then you'll sure be glad you asked, won't you be?

Always,

Master Togan

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