10 differences between amateurs and professionals:
1. Amateurs make it look effortful, Professionals make it look effortless.
Effortless, elegant performances are the result of a large volume of effortful, gritty practice. Small things become big things.
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2. Amateurs love the prize, Professionals love the process.
You’ll never make it if the view at the summit is the only thing motivating you to climb. The hunt has to be just as exciting as the meal at the end.
Professionals truly fall in love with the process.
3. Amateurs blame others, Professionals are accountable.
The Amateur looks outward: Bad luck, unfair circumstances, a cheating opponent.
The Professional looks inward: Lack of preparation, gaps in routine, uneven intensity.
Accountability breeds progress.
4. Amateurs fear being wrong, Professionals enjoy it.
Professionals have retrained their minds to embrace new information that forces a change in viewpoint. They view each "software update" as an improvement upon the old.
Open mindsets rule the world.
5. Amateurs enter with 100 mediocre moves, Professionals enter with 1 perfect move.
Professionals know their unique edge—they play *their* game.
"I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times." - Bruce Lee
6. Amateurs are flashy, Professionals are relentless.
Many people are able to produce bursts of energy—few are able to produce consistent, steady flows, day-in day-out.
The former is flashy, but the latter is relentless. Never bet against the person who just keeps showing up.
If the thing is within your control, then go do something about it. If the thing is out of your control, then it's just a waste of energy to complain about it.
2. Don't allow negative people to steal your energy.
Stop avoiding difficult conversations. Embrace the need to remove toxicity from your life.
3. Do not allow more than 2 hours of inactivity.
Get up and go for a walk. Do a few pushups or lunges. Move your body regularly.
4. Do not "graze" on low-value tasks.
Parkinson's Law says that work expands to fill the time allotted for its completion. When you don't set fixed windows for managing low-value tasks, you end up "grazing" on them. Create short windows for processing low importance tasks.
This may be the best definition of success I've ever come across...
Here are Ralph Waldo Emerson's 9 Pillars of Success:
Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote the following passage on his definition of success:
I'd break this down into nine items...
1. To laugh often and much: Laughter keeps us young. Without laughter, you aren't really living!
2. To win the respect of intelligent people: Earning the respect of people you admire (my adaptation on "intelligent people") through the way you live your life.