A married man must show reverence to his wife when it comes to her territory.
He should never allow his siblings or parents come before his wife.
His wife's decision, feelings & opinions must be taken into consideration before he acts.
If you're not doing this as a man, then
you married the wrong wife.
Or your wife has taken undue advantage of the privilege.
Reading that DM from a married woman, it says alot about her matrimonial home.
A home where the husband can just go out to anywhere, without informing his wife of his whereabouts.
Let me tell
you all this.
Even if you're planning to go an cheat on your wife, tell her where you're going to, even if you'll not give her the details of what you're planning to go and do.
She should be aware of where you are, even if she doesn't know what you're doing there.