The problem of focusing on what women can do to avoid becoming rape victims
Responses to my tweets on men’s sexual violence against women, particularly by men, often focus on what women can do to avoid or escape this violence. There are 5 problems with this:
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1) Women are told throughout their lives what to do to try to avoid rape. 2) If this is *all* we do, this is victim-blaming. 3) Women already use a whole range of strategies to try to lessen their risk. 4) This focus does nothing to hold perpetrators to account.
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5) Perhaps most importantly of all, focusing on what potential victims of sexual violence can do to lessen their risk does nothing to *prevent violence perpetration in the first place*.
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Yes, there are ways women can lessen their risk of victimisation, e.g. to detect or resist sexual coercion by a male acquaintance or partner.
Indeed, there is good evidence of the effectiveness of feminist rape education, and it's neglected in prevention: xyonline.net/books/bibliogr…
But prevention efforts, and community and media discussion, *should not* focus only on how potential victims can avoid or resist sexual violence.
There is a pervasive unwillingness in our culture to locate the problem of sexual violence with the perpetrator.
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The emphasis on what women should do to avoid rape is based on victim-blaming, but also on:
-- Underestimation of how common sexual assault is
-- An assumption that the men who rape are a tiny minority (they are not: see pp. 23-28 of ), and
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-- A belief that rape is the expression only of individual pathology or sexual desire.
Here are the facts.
-- Substantial numbers of women suffer sexual assault.
-- Large minorities of men have perpetrated sexual assault – it’s likely that at least one man you know has done so.
And rape is the entirely predictable outcome of common norms of gender and sexuality (male sexual entitlement, sexism, etc)
For reviews of the causes or drivers of sexual violence, see
-- This report, pp. 36-42:
-- This review:
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If we *actually* want to reduce men's rape of women in the first place, we need to change the norms, conditions and inequities that make rape more likely
The good news is, there is evidence that *it is possible to prevent* sexual assault
Key reviews here: xyonline.net/content/preven…
And, men have a positive and vital role to play. See here for practical tips on what men can do in our everyday lives to make a difference:
See here for broader discussion of men’s roles in violence prevention:
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... I'm wishing I had included these graphics somewhere.
And this fabulous poster on '10 Top Tips to End Rape'.
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Men and violence against women: Some men think that if they themselves are not perpetrating domestic or sexual violence against women, the problem has nothing to do with them. But it does. A consistent predictor of men’s use of domestic and sexual violence is...
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A consistent predictor of men’s use of domestic and sexual violence is their *perception of peer support*: the extent to which they think that the men around them condone, support, and themselves use violence against women.
Male peer support is a key risk factor for perpetration.
One key reason many men don’t recognise our roles in preventing and reducing rape is that we don't realise that most rapes are by men known to the victim, in a familiar location, without serious physical injury, and that rapes are common. Many men have a mistaken idea of rape
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Men often imagine some crazed guy, in a park, violently raping a passing woman.
Men often don’t think of what’s far more common:
A man pressuring his date into sex.
A man expecting that his wife will have sex whenever he wants to.
A man taking advantage of a drunk woman. Etc.
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Men, and to a lesser extent women, often believe, mistakenly, that most rapes are by strangers, in a public place, & involving severe physical force, contributing to the neglect of the reality of sexual violence and to victim-blaming.
Report, p. 54: ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/upl…
Violence and gender: Men’s rights advocates (MRAs) like to cherrypick findings that show or seem to show that domestic violence against men is more common than DV against women. The latest example comes from a multi-country study of university staff’s experience of violence.
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MRAs claim the study shows more men than women have experienced physical domestic violence.
Two problems: 1) The study *is not* about DV. All the questions ask about violence by someone connected with the institution – other staff or students - not about intimate partners 2/5
2) The study shows that women suffer *more* violence than men. Women suffer more violence overall, and more psychological violence, economic violence, sexual violence, and sexual harassment. See the table, p. 33
The full report is here: 3/5 zenodo.org/records/754022…
Fostering Healthy Masculinities among Men and Boys
First, let’s define ‘masculinity’: The socially learnt roles, behaviours, and attributes that are seen as appropriate for boys and men in a given society.
There are diverse versions of masculinity in different contexts.
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But in many contexts, masculinity is defined in terms of dominance over women, sexual entitlement, homophobia, aggression, rigid stoicism, etc.
There are various terms for this form of masculinity: Hegemonic. Sexist. Traditional. Toxic. Patriarchal. I’ll go with the last of these
There are three compelling rationales for critical attention to masculinities 1) Patriarchal forms of masculinity are implicated in a series of social problems: public violence, sexual and reproductive health, suicide, alcohol & drug use, mental health, occupational injuries, etc
Sex and housework: In heterosexual couples with children, when women do more of the household labour than men, they have lower sexual desire, for two reasons: 1) they are more likely to see their partners as dependent on them, and 2) they see the division of labour as unfair
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Implications: Women's sexual desire is constrained by gender inequities. Low desire in women is not located in women, their bodies or minds. Instead, it is a symptom of a broader problem, of inequalities between men and women, including in the division of household labour.
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So if you are a man with a female partner, alongside fairness, decency and respect, here is another reason to share fairly the domestic work and care.
See a journalistic summary of the new study here:
See the academic paper here: https://t.co/8qiTFh3pEUpsypost.org/2022/12/when-w… link.springer.com/content/pdf/10…
Sexual violence: It is comforting, but wrong, to think that only a tiny proportion of men ever commit sexual violence. 29.3% of male university students in the USA and Canada have perpetrated some kind of SV - systematic review of studies over 2000-2017 among 25,524 men. 1/4
International studies, similarly, find that significant proportions of men, from 2%, to 10%, to 51%, have ever used sexual violence against a woman. This survey (2011) finds that men’s lifetime reported use of SV was around 9% in most countries. 2/4 https://t.co/gNyen0g4eTicrw.org/publications/e…
So why do some men perpetrate sexual violence against women? Because of gender socialisation and gender inequalities, in particular. Because of sexual entitlement and gender-inequitable social norms. Authoritative review of scholarship on perpetration: 3/4 https://t.co/PWdYGkW2nRxyonline.net/sites/xyonline…