I lost all parental rights to my sons. Goodbye, boys. Perhaps, we will meet when you are adults.
California Judge Juhas gave my ex-wife authority to castrate my son, James.
All contact with my boys must be supervised. I won't do that. I send letters and gifts to my sons. My ex is not required to give them to the boys. I cannot post pictures of my sons.
Let my story be a cautionary one for young men. Fathers have no rights to their children. Do not enter the family law system.
California Judge Juhas gave my ex-wife authority to castrate my son, James.
All contact with my boys must be supervised. I won't do that. I send letters and gifts to my sons. My ex is not required to give them to the boys. I cannot post pictures of my sons.
Let my story be a cautionary one for young men. Fathers have no rights to their children. Do not enter the family law system.
A number of well-meaning people (and some ill-meaning people too) have urged me to attend supervised visits.
That is a bad idea.
It's bad for kids. Supervised visitation reinforces in a child's mind that the father is dangerous, that something is wrong with him.
It's also bad for the father. The supervisor can record anything he wants. Whatever he writes down, the court will take as fact. Supervision provides infinitely malleable material for the courts to make damaging findings.
It's also very expensive. I have to do visits in Los Angeles County, California. The flights and supervision run to over $2,000 per visit.
No parent should do supervised visitation. It's bad for the children, bad for the father, and allows courts invent false findings to further endanger the father.
That is a bad idea.
It's bad for kids. Supervised visitation reinforces in a child's mind that the father is dangerous, that something is wrong with him.
It's also bad for the father. The supervisor can record anything he wants. Whatever he writes down, the court will take as fact. Supervision provides infinitely malleable material for the courts to make damaging findings.
It's also very expensive. I have to do visits in Los Angeles County, California. The flights and supervision run to over $2,000 per visit.
No parent should do supervised visitation. It's bad for the children, bad for the father, and allows courts invent false findings to further endanger the father.
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