A few years ago, I was working with the founder of a 200-person company who was badly burned out.
He'd checked all the boxes he thought he needed to be happy.
He'd built a respectable business.
Yet everyday, he still found himself waking up unhappy.
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When I asked him what would happen if he redesigned his work so he actually enjoyed it, he laughed.
Then he paused.
Then he realized: The things he hated doing were the ones most out of alignment with who he was — and what the company truly stood for.
The next 3 months became an experiment in "What if my only job is to enjoy my job?"
He started by mapping every task onto buckets:
1. Love it – work that lit him up. 2. Could love it – work that might feel good with a tweak or two. 3. Delegate or delete – everything else.
Slowly, a pattern began to emerge.
Every chore he dreaded—the endless status pings, the Monday finance huddles, the product reviews he kept rescheduling—was also where the company was slowest or most error-prone.
Low enjoyment, it turned out, was a sign of inefficiency.
So he made two moves:
1. He reassigned or eliminated the “delegate/delete” tasks.
Some went to colleagues who genuinely enjoyed them; others got automated or scrapped.
2. He fixed the root cause of the “could love it” pile.
Usually that meant one of 3 things: tighter ownership, a clear metric, or a decision-making window.
When those pieces were in place, the urge to micromanage evaporated. Trust in the system replaced the need for control.
What happened next:
- Real-time dashboards slashed his “Just checking in…” messages by 70%
- Teams reorganized themselves around enthusiasm, and voluntary turnover dropped by a quarter.
- With fewer bottlenecks, product velocity jumped—and so did revenue.
I’ve seen the same arc with individual contributors, freelancers, even artists.
The moment you treat enjoyment as a leading indicator, output and impact climb together.
When work aligns with genuine desire, it stops needing to be managed and starts pulling itself forward.
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(4 ways to find your biggest emotional blind spots)
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1/ Judgements
Every time you judge somebody or yourself, there’s an emotional experience you don’t want to have that you can find.
- Judging others for showing off often means you’re struggling with a desire to be seen
- Judging others as "lazy" hides your own guilt around rest
2/ Every time you say “I can’t”
Anytime you tell yourself “You can’t” or “It’s too hard,” there’s an emotional experience you’re avoiding. If you felt great during the experience, you wouldn’t avoid it .
"I can't ask for a raise" = Avoiding empowerment or rejection
"I can't learn to code" = Avoiding feeling failure or frustration
"I can't go to social events alone" = Avoiding awkwardness or vulnerability