1/ Last night I walked through a London that felt broken.
Tense. Unfamiliar.
I left grieving what’s been lost in our culture.
30 mins ago, my daughter texted me—
And now I’m crying again.
This time: from pride.
A short thread on fear, motherhood, and hope 🧵
She just earned First Class Honours in her BSc.
She’s studying medicine, and took a year to research why kidney transplants fail in young people.
When she graduates, she’ll hold both a BMed and a BSc.
I’m in awe.
3/ Last night on Moral Maze, Ash Sarkar spoke of women choosing not to become mothers.
And I get it.
When I was pregnant, I was terrified.
I didn’t feel ready. I wasn’t sure I was strong enough.
How nasty. In fact I have 5 children. 1 from 1 man, 4 from the one I am married to.
I had an abortion after being raped. It made me pro-life. An an exception from Rome is not hypocritical.
For years Hayden has trotted on about this multiple kids by multiple fathers line as though it's something to be ashamed of because I had a child from an ex-partner.
Life is messy sometimes, the bible is full of it, but ultimately great healing is to be found in Jesus Christ.
Experiencing the trauma of abortion, the coercion, having people project how they believed I would feel, telling me what I should do, feeling I had no other choice, and the terrible visceral pain afterwards, made me vow that no other woman or baby should ever suffer.
These people have spent years trying to goad, trigger and provoke. Talking about my home, making me feel violated and unsafe. They talk about my family, my pets even, every aspect of my life and are linked to some appalling harassment, such as interfering in my travel.
I'm completely over their nonsense. They threw everything they had at me, tried to put my family through hell and failed.
But the police allowed themselves to take the side of a serial offender, solely because they identified as a woman.