I’m personally excited to finally see society judging cheating spouses so brutally.
When I found myself in this situation a decade ago, we were still blaming victims, behaving as if infidelity is inevitable & a non-issue, and if you spoke publicly about it, you were shunned.
When I found myself in this situation a decade ago, we were still blaming victims, behaving as if infidelity is inevitable & a non-issue, and if you spoke publicly about it, you were shunned.
Apparently times are changing, & I am here for it. I am SO tired of living in a world that is controlled by the con artists and cheaters.
When I found out, I got on Facebook & started venting publicly, & my family got SO MAD at me for telling the secrets. My cheating husband did not field any of that anger or resentment. But the old days are gone, & now we get to talk about it. It’s delicious.
And society has never acknowledged it is a trauma. Cheaters always got a pass—we heard it was just one of life’s unpleasant realities, & we just have to grin and bear it. Our entire society is built on secrets and lies, & it’s exhausting.
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