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Jul 20 8 tweets 1 min read Read on X
Want to actually get things done?

I've been using this ridiculously simple method that works way better than any app.

U just need pen and paper…
The problem with most tasks is that they're boring, take forever, and the reward comes way later.

Eg studying for a test.

Your brain hates delayed gratification.
My solution: Write your daily tasks on actual paper. Today mine were:

• Register company bank account
• Clean room
• Wash clothes
• Call a friend
• Make a video
• Reply to comments
When you complete a task, you get to physically cross it out.

That line through the words hits different than tapping a phone screen.

Your brain gets instant dopamine.
Order your list by importance.

Most important at top, least at bottom.

I put "register new company" first because it was crucial for my business launch.
Use fun tasks as rewards for boring ones.

I Just finished tedious paperwork?

I Reward myself by calling my friend or making that video.

You're literally training your brain to enjoy hard work.
Why paper works better than apps:

• Physical action of crossing out = bigger dopamine hit

• Can't get distracted by notifications

• Something about handwriting makes it stick in your brain

• No battery required lol
Try it tomorrow.

Write 5-7 tasks on paper, rank by importance, cross them out as you go.

Use the fun stuff as rewards for the hard stuff.

Your productivity will actually surprise you.

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More from @Aal_Moalim

Jul 12
Ever wonder how someone becomes so delusional they think they're God?

Pharaoh's story reveals the terrifying psychology of tyranny - and it's more relevant today than ever... Image
The Core Delusion

Pharaoh declared: "I am your supreme lord" and "I know of no god for you other than me."

But here's the twist: he actually KNEW Moses was telling the truth.

Pharaoh "was certain of the signs in his heart, but rejected them out of arrogance."
The Victimhood Reversal

Note the Classic tyrant move: Make yourself the victim.

Pharaoh to his people: "Moses wants to kick YOU out of YOUR land!"

Reality: Pharaoh was enslaving and killing people.

But he positioned himself as the protector.
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Jul 10
When Pharaoh threatened to kill the children of those who believed in Moses, how did they survive?

Moses gave them a strategic roadmap that's incredibly relevant today...
After the magicians believed, Pharaoh was furious. He declared:

“We will kill their sons and spare their women. We are dominant over them.”

The believers came to Moses panicking:

“We were harmed before you came and after you came!” Image
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Moses' first instruction:

“If you truly believe in Allah, then put your trust in Him - if you are truly Muslims.”

Not passive waiting.

Active trust while taking action.

The foundation of all other strategies. Image
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Jul 8
Imagine being at the top of your profession, then witnessing something that completely shatters your worldview in seconds.

This is the untold story of Pharaoh's magicians...
Pharaoh gathered the best magicians from across Egypt.

These weren't street performers - they were masters of illusion, the elite of their craft.

Pharaoh promised them rewards and high positions if they could defeat Moses.

They came confident. They left as believers.
Here's what's fascinating: the crowd might be fooled by magic tricks, but magicians? They know EXACTLY how every trick works.

They can spot illusions from miles away.

When they saw Moses' staff, they knew immediately this wasn't magic.
Read 14 tweets
Jul 7
The Secret Training Program - How Moses ﷺ Was Prepared Before His Mission

Most people think leadership is about jumping into action immediately.

But Allah showed us a different way through Moses' story.

Here's the preparation phase that changed everything...
The Burning Bush Moment

Moses went to get fire for his family. Instead, he encountered Allah directly.

But notice: Allah didn't immediately say "Go confront Pharaoh."

First lesson: “I am Allah, there is no god but Me - so worship Me and establish prayer for My remembrance.”
Before any external mission, Moses needed internal preparation:

• Clear monotheistic belief
• Direct connection with Allah through prayer
• Understanding his role as a chosen servant

The reformer must be reformed first.

The teacher must be taught first.
Read 10 tweets
May 21
Dealing with the Wedding Night
1. A Night Like Others and Unlike Others

Treat this night as though it might pass naturally like any other night.

As if today you went and visited her at home, sat with her, had dinner together, then escorted her to the gate and bid her farewell.

This is "a night like others."

it is the anticipated night and the real privacy, and the first time you test yourself and she tests herself, and you will read her and she will read you.

It has its specificity, but don't let this specificity reach a degree that makes this night terrifying for the wife, and possibly for you too.

This is "a night unlike others."
2. From Sexual Tension to Psychological Tension

What do I mean by sexual tension and psychological tension?

The tense young man who insists on achieving something specific may create a crack in the wife's psyche that remains with her for the rest of the marriage, like saying:

“Listen, today this thing must happen like this and this and as I want.”

it's true that she's been in the engagement period and perhaps there have been some flirtation’s between you, but she might not be prepared for what’s on your mind.

There's the issue of fear of pain from the (virgin) woman's side, and the fear of failure to perform from the man's side.

You MUST forget much of what exists in illusions in media, customs, and traditions.
Read 10 tweets
May 15
There are 8 widespread engagement misconceptions that will derail your marriage before it even starts.

You MUST avoid them:
Misconception #1: “I have to feel completely comfortable with my future spouse during engagement.”

We are Muslims.

The reality is, if it’s done in Halal, complete comfort is IMPOSSIBLE at this stage.

There will always be an element of uncertainty.

Your future spouse remains partially unknown regardless of how many conversations you have.

This is normal, not a red flag.
Men and women experience this uncertainty differently:

Women will typically approach the engagement with a natural protective caution

Whereas Men want a more immediate, positive affirmation that it’s going where he wants it to go.

And so the two colliding creates that uncertainty.

But remember neither approach is wrong - they're complementary safeguards in the relationship formation process.
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