At 10, I began my 53-year study of ancient Eastern texts—Kashmir Shaivism, Vedanta, and Buddhist sutras...
What I discovered? Most Western "gurus" are reselling kindergarten versions of Eastern philosophies.
Here are my 7 best insights from a lifetime of spiritual work:🧵
1. Consciousness Creates vs. Consciousness Observes
Modern day: "Consciousness means being aware of the present moment."
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Ancient texts: "Consciousness is the creative force that manifests all reality."
This changes everything about how you practice.
2. Map The Universe vs. Empty Your Mind
Modern day: "Empty your mind of thoughts."
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Abhinavagupta: "Here are 36 precise levels from pure consciousness to matter."
They wanted you to understand reality's architecture, not just get calm.
4. Rigorous Philosophy vs. Just Feel Good
Modern day: "Don't intellectualize—just feel."
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Shankara: "Use viveka (precise discrimination) to distinguish real from unreal."
The ancients demanded sharp thinking, not fuzzy feelings.
5. Sacred Lineages vs. Weekend Certifications
Modern day: "Get certified in 200 hours."
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Vedanta: "Knowledge passes through unbroken lineages for millennia."
Because getting this wrong can seriously harm people.
6. Complete Systems vs. Random Techniques
Modern day: "Try whatever meditation feels good."
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Vijnana Bhairava: "These 112 techniques only work within their philosophical framework."
Like taking pills without knowing what they're for.
7. Confront Terror vs. Seek Comfort
Modern day: "Eastern philosophy brings peace and calm."
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Tantra texts: "Face the terrifying aspects of existence head-on."
They weren't selling comfort—they were revealing truth.
8. Cosmic Technology vs. Stress Relief
Modern day: "Repeat mantras to feel better."
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Sanskrit tradition: "Each sound vibration activates specific cosmic principles."
Mantras were precision instruments, not relaxation tools.
The pattern is clear:
We've turned profound systems for understanding reality into feel-good techniques for stress relief.
Here's what the ancients actually taught:
• Confronting difficult truths
• Years of philosophical study
• Identity-level transformation
• Practices within complete frameworks
• Direct transmission from teacher to student
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My most important finding?
Modern day: "Enlightenment means feeling peaceful."
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Kashmir Shaivism: "Recognition means knowing yourself as Shiva—pure creative consciousness."
Not a mood. A complete identity shift.
After 53 years with these texts, my advice:
• Read originals, not interpretations
• Find teachers with real lineages
• Study the philosophy first
• Expect it to be difficult
• Don't settle for comfort
The real teachings will shake you awake.
As a Harvard psychologist who studied with the Dalai Lama, I bridge both worlds.
I see how Western psychology misses consciousness.
I see how Eastern pop spirituality misses depth.
There's a middle way that honors both.
Anxiety Relief Transformation™ opens August 4th.
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5 personality traits that predict how you handle stress.
Find yours in 30 seconds (and how to work with it) 🧵
First: the Big 5 are not “labels.”
They’re your nervous system’s default strategy.
When you're aware of your default strategy, you can build on it and let it empower you.
Let's dive in...
1. High Neuroticism = The Threat Sensor
When you're high on neuroticism, you feel everything early, before others. You're very sensitive.
The signs of Neuroticism are:
→ overthinking
→ health worries
→ tension & rumination
→ The inner feeling: “I can’t turn this off.”
Quick fixes:
Regulate first, analyze second.
One sure-fire way to regulate is to walk outdoors without devices.
You want to downshift your alarm system. Walking is primo.