We know how not to do this. We don't have to go back to the kinds of institutions depicted in One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest - even though they were not all like that.
🧵 1/6
I stopped at a light the other night and there was a family begging on the street. Mom, dad and 8 or 9 year old daughter. Another vagrant approached the family and the dad and other man started shouting and pushing each other. Then the mother joined in.
The child looked terrified, the other drivers stopped at the light looked terrified - was someone going to pull a gun and start shooting? The man started to walk off, but kept coming back and yelling. Eventually the light changed and everyone went about their business. 2/6
No child should live in these conditions, and we have safeguards in place so they don't have to, but the parents chose that life for their daughter. That's criminal in my opinion. 3/6
Witnessing these scenarios regularly - the drug use, the homelessness, the abuse the women face daily, etc - is bad for society. When we are powerless to help these people we become immune to suffering - it's a coping strategy and we shouldn't let it happen. 4/6
I'm not sure how this will work - if someone doesn't want treatment, it's not likely to work - but I think we'll find a lot of these people do want the help, they do want off the streets. So it's important to offer incentives and a pathway to housing and stable employment, and community that supports these endeavors.
Whatever we do, it has to be better than what we are currently doing - which is nothing. 5/6
Today I learned @preta_6, had been terminated from her nursing job. She was fired because she would not say that men can be women.
It’s such a simple lie, why not go along with it to save your job? 1/12
I’ve been asked this question so many times I’ve lost count. Why can’t I just go along with a lie? What does it hurt to tell a little white lie?
I’ll tell you why I won’t lie. I won’t lie because I’ve been lied to and I hate it. 2/12
When I was a kid I had to live with my aunt and uncle and two cousins because my mother was in the hospital recovering from her brief death while my father finished his time in the army and moved us from Colorado back to Minnesota. My brother went to my other aunt’s house.
I’d always wanted an older sister, so I was excited to share my cousin’s bedroom. She had these twin beds with beautiful matching floral bedspreads. Her room was sunny and there was plenty of room to play with dolls or Barbies, if she let me. 3/12
I'm not a coach, and I have not read through any code, but bookmark this thread 🧵 if you're trying to grow your account.
I've been doing this blogging and social media thing for a long time and have learned a few things in the process. 1/14
Be sure to include CTAs in your posts. CTA = Call To Action. Ask your readers to do something. I did it in the post above where I asked you to bookmark this post. People want to support you, let them.
Ask for a bookmark, a share, a like and a comment. People will be happy to oblige. Be sure to do the same with their content that grabs your attention. 2/14
Find your niche and stick to it. You're trying to brand yourself and develop a loyal audience based on that content, so decide what your niche is and then master it. If you build it, they will come.
My niche is humor writer - it works really well in the long form, and for some in the short form. I need a lot of words to set up the joke, others can do it with far fewer and I am in awe of them, but that's not my forte so I stay in my lane.
This niche allows me to dip my toe into many different subjects, and if done well I can tackle some pretty heavy topics, but if it's not in my niche wheelhouse I save my thoughts for other people's posts. 3/14
This is Lisa Bunker, the man who wrote the She Persisted edition on Rachel Levine, published by Philomel, a division of Penguin Random House. 🧵 1/6
Lisa is not just a they/them, but he is also vo/ven. I challenge you to read his bio with a straight face and then say a prayer for his wife. 2/6
Why are these guys always so dramatic? No one is going to fight you, certainly not physically since you're a man and have all that upper body strength we women are missing, that extra muscle, larger lung capacity, bigger heart - you know all those things that make competing against us unfair.
We don't care if you exist, we're more than happy to ignore you, we just don't want you in our same sex spaces because we are not the same sex and we don't want to participate in your fetish. 3/6
Not as much fun as my dating threads, but important insight from my experience with marriage.
I’ve been thinking about posting this since Pete Hegseth was nominated for Secretary of Defense. Then the Lily Phillips story was all over the place and I shelved it. Actually, I’ve been thinking about telling this story since the Kavanaugh confirmation hearing, but it’s so personal, and I’m only a bystander. 🧵1/12
Today, Crystal Mangum came forward and admitted she lied about the three Duke Lacrosse players - they did not rape her. It never happened. What a surprised /s 2/12
Guess what? Women lie. Women lie about r4pe and they lie about pregnancy. 3/12
I wasn't going to post about my date last night, because it was just kinda Meh, but people keep DMing me about it and after some thought it was more than Meh. A lot more than meh. 🧵1/
First of all, I don't want to be known as the woman who mocks her dates on X. I'm not choosing these guys because I want to make fun of them. I really am searching for a long lasting relationship. It even says so in my dating app profiles. I'm not interested in hookups or casual dating. 2/
So anyway, we liked each other on the dating app last week and after one exchange via the app he asked to talk on the phone -sure. He scheduled a time to call the next day, which I liked, and he called when he said he would - which I also liked. We talked for 15 minutes while he was driving to visit his parents. 3/
Ok, so first off, I looked good tonight. Really good. Black halter top, black and white palazzo pants. Awesome earring from @kln3109 leather bracelets and thankfully Birkenstocks. Hair cooperated and it was cool out.
We met at a restaurant. He's wearing shorts, a Comcast t-shirt and tennis shoes and socks that needed to see some bleach. He smelled funny. Not bad, but just funky. I can't place the odor, but I can still smell it as I type and it's pissing me off because I didn't touch him.
After ten minutes of texting trying to locate each other we meet in front of the restaurant. He starts talking about a conversation he struck up with someone wearing a local college t-shirt and said he was giving her shit because it is a right leaning college.
I have not eaten because I think we're going to grab a drink and maybe some appetizers at the RESTAURANT. But we don't. He wants to go for a hike. I swear to god it felt like a fucking test. Thankfully I have my Birks on because I'm still having issues with the hairline fracture on my foot. I mention it, because we're going to be going up and down a ton of stairs and walking along the fucking river. He blows me off.