Do you remember when they couldn’t keep their hands off of you, but now you can’t remember the last time you shared a tender caress?
This is the most common story I hear from couples.
Here’s why it happens—and how to get the spark back. 🧵
This is the most common story I hear from couples.
Here’s why it happens—and how to get the spark back. 🧵
Passion doesn’t just “fade with time.”
It’s starves.
The fuel for lifelong passion is a hormone called oxytocin—the bonding chemical that makes touch feel electric and intimacy feel irresistible.
Without it, you drift apart.
With it, you can’t keep your hands off each other.
It’s starves.
The fuel for lifelong passion is a hormone called oxytocin—the bonding chemical that makes touch feel electric and intimacy feel irresistible.
Without it, you drift apart.
With it, you can’t keep your hands off each other.
So how do you refill your oxytocin tank?
I call it the Oxytocin Pipeline.
It’s a sequence that builds bonding step by step, bringing you from emotional distance back to desire.
Here’s how it works:
I call it the Oxytocin Pipeline.
It’s a sequence that builds bonding step by step, bringing you from emotional distance back to desire.
Here’s how it works:
1️⃣ Emotional Safety
You can’t feel desire when you’re bracing for rejection, criticism, or conflict.
Safety means you can drop your guard.
2️⃣ Emotional Closeness
Talk. Laugh. Share. Feel like partners, not roommates. This warms up the nervous system for connection.
You can’t feel desire when you’re bracing for rejection, criticism, or conflict.
Safety means you can drop your guard.
2️⃣ Emotional Closeness
Talk. Laugh. Share. Feel like partners, not roommates. This warms up the nervous system for connection.
3️⃣ Nonsexual Touch
Hand holding. Hugs. A hand on the back. Small, steady doses of contact tell the brain “we’re safe and loved.”
4️⃣ Sexual Touch
A step above. Playful, flirty touches that signal desire without pressure or demands.
Hand holding. Hugs. A hand on the back. Small, steady doses of contact tell the brain “we’re safe and loved.”
4️⃣ Sexual Touch
A step above. Playful, flirty touches that signal desire without pressure or demands.
5️⃣ Foreplay
Not rushed. Not skipped. A loving warm-up primes both partners’ brains and bodies for intimacy.
6️⃣ Sex
The culmination of connection, not the first step toward it. Oxytocin peaks here.
Not rushed. Not skipped. A loving warm-up primes both partners’ brains and bodies for intimacy.
6️⃣ Sex
The culmination of connection, not the first step toward it. Oxytocin peaks here.
7️⃣ Aftercare.
Cuddles. Words of affirmation. Falling asleep together. This seals the bond and tells your nervous systems to crave more next time.
This is not the end - it begins the repetition cycle. Repeat all 7 steps again.
Cuddles. Words of affirmation. Falling asleep together. This seals the bond and tells your nervous systems to crave more next time.
This is not the end - it begins the repetition cycle. Repeat all 7 steps again.
Every time you repeat the pipeline, oxytocin grows stronger.
And with stronger oxytocin, sexual desire skyrockets—especially for women.
Most couples I coach report a 3X increase in sexual frequency within the first month of using this method.
And with stronger oxytocin, sexual desire skyrockets—especially for women.
Most couples I coach report a 3X increase in sexual frequency within the first month of using this method.
Passion doesn’t “die with age.”
It dies from neglecting what feeds it.
Try this pipeline together. Watch how fast the warmth returns.
And if you want the full blueprint to rebuild connection and keep your marriage thriving for life, DM me the word MARRIAGE.
It dies from neglecting what feeds it.
Try this pipeline together. Watch how fast the warmth returns.
And if you want the full blueprint to rebuild connection and keep your marriage thriving for life, DM me the word MARRIAGE.
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