HOW TO VIBE WITH A NEW GIRL
I’ve read over 1,000 DMs, and about 30% of guys struggle to keep a conversation going when they meet a girl. Here’s how to hit the right vibe:
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I’ve read over 1,000 DMs, and about 30% of guys struggle to keep a conversation going when they meet a girl. Here’s how to hit the right vibe:
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When you meet a girl, you don’t know much about her, so make guesses about her to spark a chat. Don’t ask questions—you do the work to get her interested. Make a bold observation (a guess) to get her talking after you approach her.
Pick one of these three things to guess about:
Pick one of these three things to guess about:
1. Where she’s from (e.g., “Your skin’s super light, I bet you’re from X.”)
2. What she does for work (e.g., “You’re dressed so sharp, you must be a banker.” Or “Your makeup’s on point, are you a makeup artist?” Or “That outfit’s bold, are you a model?”)
2. What she does for work (e.g., “You’re dressed so sharp, you must be a banker.” Or “Your makeup’s on point, are you a makeup artist?” Or “That outfit’s bold, are you a model?”)
3. What she’s doing right now or the situation you’re both in.
The cool thing about guesses/cold reads? It’s fine if you’re wrong—it actually helps! She’ll respond anyway, and what she says gives you your *topic* to vibe on.
The cool thing about guesses/cold reads? It’s fine if you’re wrong—it actually helps! She’ll respond anyway, and what she says gives you your *topic* to vibe on.
Vibing is the trickiest part of talking to girls. Take the *topic* she gives you (her hometown, job, or what she’s doing) and run with it. Tell a short, flirty story to keep things fun and get her talking back. You want a playful, back-and-forth flow.
Stay flirty, tease her a bit, and keep it light. Don’t be a boring “nice guy” or ask interview-style questions.
When she responds to your guess, jump into a vibing story with one of these starters:
When she responds to your guess, jump into a vibing story with one of these starters:
“When I think of [topic], I picture [fun story].”
“My friend went to [place] and said [fun story].”
“My friend’s a [job] and said [fun story].”
“My friend went to [place] and said [fun story].”
“My friend’s a [job] and said [fun story].”
Example vibing story:
“My friend went to [place], and he told me this wild story. He was chilling at a bar, just having a beer, when two local girls came up, super friendly, chatting him up.
“My friend went to [place], and he told me this wild story. He was chilling at a bar, just having a beer, when two local girls came up, super friendly, chatting him up.
They even bought him drinks—shots, too! Long story short, he woke up in a park two hours later… with no pants!”
Another example:
“My friend’s a banker, and he says you guys look all professional and work hard, but when no one’s watching, you’re sneaking Tinder swipes or taking selfies. And when you all go out? Total chaos—shots, dancing on tables!”
“My friend’s a banker, and he says you guys look all professional and work hard, but when no one’s watching, you’re sneaking Tinder swipes or taking selfies. And when you all go out? Total chaos—shots, dancing on tables!”
The goal of these flirty stories is to get her to join in and keep the vibe light and fun—not boring or too serious. Your vibe should say: “I want to impress you, but I don’t care if you’re impressed.” Be playful, a bit cheese
and confident with a “whatever” attitude. That’s what pulls her in. Then, you qualify her and get her to invest in the convo.
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