HOW TO MOVE QUICKLY AND EFFECTIVELY WITH WOMEN
Six years ago, when I started figuring out how to attract women, I thought it was all about being the most fascinating guy in the room, proving how amazing I was, and easing their fears that I was just after one thing.
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Six years ago, when I started figuring out how to attract women, I thought it was all about being the most fascinating guy in the room, proving how amazing I was, and easing their fears that I was just after one thing.
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Looking back, I can only laugh at how clueless I was! 🤦♂️No wonder I struggled so much.
The real keys? Move fast and dodge the boyfriend label (while still being a guy they like).
The real keys? Move fast and dodge the boyfriend label (while still being a guy they like).
Here’s how to move quickly and effectively with women:
1. Kick off with bold, genuine interest:
Start with something like, “I saw you over there, and I had to come say you’ve got the coolest vibe I’ve seen today. I’m Jake.”
1. Kick off with bold, genuine interest:
Start with something like, “I saw you over there, and I had to come say you’ve got the coolest vibe I’ve seen today. I’m Jake.”
This sets the tone fast—women know your intentions, and you’re not wasting time.
2. Swap names immediately:
Forget the “make her ask for your name” nonsense. Exchange names right away to break the stranger barrier. It makes everything feel natural and lets you dive into getting to know her without awkwardness.
Forget the “make her ask for your name” nonsense. Exchange names right away to break the stranger barrier. It makes everything feel natural and lets you dive into getting to know her without awkwardness.
3. Dig deep, fast:
A few basic questions are fine, but use them to uncover her core—her dreams, passions, what drives her. Most guys get stuck on surface stuff (job, hometown, etc.), but that’s just a springboard. Get to what makes her tick, not just facts.
A few basic questions are fine, but use them to uncover her core—her dreams, passions, what drives her. Most guys get stuck on surface stuff (job, hometown, etc.), but that’s just a springboard. Get to what makes her tick, not just facts.
4. Move her quickly:
Until you’ve moved her somewhere, you’re just a random guy chatting her up. Once she moves with you, she’s investing in you.
Until you’ve moved her somewhere, you’re just a random guy chatting her up. Once she moves with you, she’s investing in you.
Within 3-5 minutes, ask her to shift—maybe to a quieter spot, a seat, or just to walk with you. If she won’t budge, she’s likely not going anywhere with you later either.
5. Grab her contact info early:
Get her number or follow-up details within a few minutes if you’re going for it. Then keep the conversation flowing like it’s no big deal. Don’t make it a milestone; just secure it and move on.
Get her number or follow-up details within a few minutes if you’re going for it. Then keep the conversation flowing like it’s no big deal. Don’t make it a milestone; just secure it and move on.
6. Take her home fast or wrap it up:
These days, I either take a girl home within 30 minutes of meeting or grab her number and end the interaction in 10 minutes. Lingering too long doesn’t make her like you more—it just risks you screwing it up. Aim for this efficiency.
These days, I either take a girl home within 30 minutes of meeting or grab her number and end the interaction in 10 minutes. Lingering too long doesn’t make her like you more—it just risks you screwing it up. Aim for this efficiency.
7. Set a date soon:
Plan to see her the next day or within 2-3 days max. This keeps the vibe fresh and boosts the chances she’ll say yes and still feel excited about you from that first meeting.
Plan to see her the next day or within 2-3 days max. This keeps the vibe fresh and boosts the chances she’ll say yes and still feel excited about you from that first meeting.
8. Keep dates simple:
Fancy dates are for friends, not lovers. Focus on you and her connecting, not some elaborate activity. Keep it low-key so the spotlight stays on your chemistry.
Fancy dates are for friends, not lovers. Focus on you and her connecting, not some elaborate activity. Keep it low-key so the spotlight stays on your chemistry.
9. Invite her home on the first date:
Aim to get her to your place within 2-3 hours of the date. Waiting for a second date pushes you into boyfriend territory, which kills the spark. Make it happen on Date #1 if you can.
Aim to get her to your place within 2-3 hours of the date. Waiting for a second date pushes you into boyfriend territory, which kills the spark. Make it happen on Date #1 if you can.
10. Make a move fast:
Nothing’s worse than bringing a girl home, hesitating, and letting her leave disappointed. You’ll both regret it. Set a rule: no girl stays alone with you for more than 10 minutes without a kiss. Take action or lose her.
Nothing’s worse than bringing a girl home, hesitating, and letting her leave disappointed. You’ll both regret it. Set a rule: no girl stays alone with you for more than 10 minutes without a kiss. Take action or lose her.
This approach, rooted in speed and avoiding the “nice guy” trap. It’s about taking charge and keeping the interaction moving toward connection, not overthinking or stalling.
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