As a Harvard psychologist who worked with the Dalai Lama, I learned…
Why, despite horrendous traumas, the Tibetans are immune to anxiety, chronic stress, and the depression epidemics...
Here's the ancient wisdom Western medicine is hiding from you:
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Mental illness is a silent killer in Western society:
• 78% report daily anxiety.
• 1 in 3 are chronically lonely.
• Depression tripled since 2020.
These trends are mostly in young adults (18-29) and the elderly (65+).
They are staggering.
I spent 4 years as Harvard's lead psychologist studying Tibetan refugees, working directly with the Dalai Lama.
Here's what we found:
In 1990, I led a Harvard study that would challenge everything we know about mental health.
We followed and observed 1,000 Tibetan refugees who arrived in America with nothing - no money, no English, no connections.
Here's what happened:
The West treats wellness like a productivity challenge.
• More apps
• More metrics
• More optimization
The Tibetans take the opposite approach…
A senior monk in Dharamsala told me something I'll never forget:
"The practice isn't separate from life. Life is the practice."
Longitudinal results over 30 years found:
Despite severe trauma and displacement, these Tibetan communities showed almost no cases of clinical depression, chronic anxiety, or attention disorders.
Here are 4 fundamental reasons why:
1/ Community over Self-Help 2/ Presence over Productivity 3/ Rhythm over Randomness 4/ Integration over Separation
Let me break these down...
1/ Community over Self-Help
While we're busy downloading meditation apps and trying expensive therapy...
5 personality traits that predict how you handle stress.
Find yours in 30 seconds (and how to work with it) 🧵
First: the Big 5 are not “labels.”
They’re your nervous system’s default strategy.
When you're aware of your default strategy, you can build on it and let it empower you.
Let's dive in...
1. High Neuroticism = The Threat Sensor
When you're high on neuroticism, you feel everything early, before others. You're very sensitive.
The signs of Neuroticism are:
→ overthinking
→ health worries
→ tension & rumination
→ The inner feeling: “I can’t turn this off.”
Quick fixes:
Regulate first, analyze second.
One sure-fire way to regulate is to walk outdoors without devices.
You want to downshift your alarm system. Walking is primo.