Thread by @ResilienceOfMan

Being introverted is a secret weapon in dating.

It lets you create deeper, more authentic connections than most extroverts ever will.

Here are 9 ways your introversion makes you irresistibly attractive to women: 👇

1. Being a great listener:

You'll never have a stimulating convo with a woman unless you pay attention to what she is *really* saying.

That's something many extroverts guys suck at - they tend talk AT others instead of TO them.

If you're naturally a great listener as an introvert..

You'll always excel at finding more interesting ways to add depth to your convos with a woman & keep them engaging.

2. Initiating thoughtful convos:

Extroverts talk a lot, but they tend to keep it surface level and do a lot of small-talking without realizing it.

You as an introvert, however, can skip all of that:

When you don't talk unless you NEED to talk, you'll avoid small talks that lead to nowhere & focus more on topics that make women THINK & FEEL.

And this is the type of convos ALL women crave.

3. Being observant:

Extroverts are usually too busy focused on being engaging while introverts lean towards observing instead.

Taking the time to observe helps you read a woman's body language & what she's feeling, & that alone makes women think it's just easy to talk to you.

4. Excelling in 1 on 1 convos:

Extroverts do well in groups but they tend to keep the convos surface-level to make sure they address everyone.

Introverts, on the other hand, prefer very small groups & 1 on 1 convos, which is why..

Extroverts tend to get more quantity and introverts get more quality.

And i's only when you talk to one person at a time is when you connect to them deeply.

So when it comes to connecting to women emotionally, quality 1 on 1 convos > many convos with many people.

5. Being more authentic:

When you are present in the moment as you listen to women carefully, your convos with them automatically become more unique.

When you ask meaningful questions to explore her memories, emotions, & thoughts..

You create more impact & influence on a woman that an extrovert who likes to talk a lot wouldn't be able to do.

Less is more when building unique connections with women.

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6. Building trust:

Women will always trust you when *they* are able to talk to you more and feel understood.

And if you can navigate the convos to focus on their fears & dreams without judging them..

They'll have no choice but to feel more comfortable in sharing more about themselves with you.

This dynamic doesn't happen with many extroverts who are always sharing about themselves.

7. Not being available:

Introverts tend to disconnect from others every now & then to recharge.

And ironically, you just wandering off to go do your own thing regularly makes you seem mysterious to women who are attracted to you.

When you appreciate your alone time more, you get interested women even more intrigued.

8. Being charismatic:

Most people think being charismatic mean being able to talk in a way that captivates people's minds.

There's some truth to that, but charisma is actually more about being likable.

And one of the easiest ways to be likable is to be able to help people feel understood.

If you observe & help people talk about themselves & making them feel they made the right choice talking to you..

You'll come across as charismatic and personable.

9. Being good at vetting women:

The key to creating successful relationships with women is vetting them first before making one YOUR woman.

To do that, you need to be laser-focused on women's habits, attitude, & values.

The thing is..

If you don't know how to ask the right questions or miss out on all the chances of exploring her mind because you're too busy talking too much..

You won't be able to vet the woman.

Always observe in silence & let women reveal themselves to you.

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