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Jun 26 10 tweets 3 min read
"I just need closure."

This is one of the biggest lies men tell themselves after a breakup.

It's a trap that keeps you powerless, waiting for your ex to give you permission to move on.

Here's how to break free and create your own: Image Waiting for "closure" from her means you are putting the keys to your emotional recovery in someone else's pocket.

You are giving her the power to decide when, or if, you get to feel at peace.

A Man never gives away that power.
Jun 24 10 tweets 3 min read
Your biggest urge after a breakup is to "win her back."

You want to prove she made a mistake. You want to show her what she's missing.

This is a natural feeling. But it's a trap that will destroy your self-respect.

Here’s why, and what to do instead 👇 Trying to win her back is a low-value behavior.

It communicates that she is the prize and your life is empty without her.

You are subconsciously telling her, "You are more important than I am."

This is the opposite of attractive.
Jun 21 23 tweets 5 min read
Men who get women always follow these 20 unpopular dating rules

𝘈𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘣𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘢𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘨𝘢𝘮𝘦:

1. If another guy talks to your woman, the most beta thing you can do is... Addressing him instead of her.

Use this moment to gauge her actual commitment to you.

Does she leave room for flirty BS to take place or does she shut down the interaction immediately?
Jun 19 21 tweets 4 min read
A woman is NEVER loyal to you unless she does these 30 things for you

(𝘓𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘢 𝘭𝘰𝘺𝘢𝘭 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘶𝘱)

1. She understands that s*xual exclusivity isn't the only form of loyalty. Image 2. She makes your goal her goal.

3. She supports you even when she doesn't understand your path & dreams.
Jun 16 23 tweets 7 min read
20 Red Flags in a Man

What behaviors turn women off?

Discover these not-so-obvious mistakes that could be hurting your appeal: Image 1. Have a 50/50 relationship with her:

If you're not 100% leading or you believe you're "splitting" your authority..

She has you by the balls & you've been manipulated into following her.
Jun 15 23 tweets 6 min read
Women subconsciously seek these 20 masculine traits before considering a man attractive:

How many do you really have? 👇 Image 1. Commanding presence:

Within the first 3 seconds, a woman will recognize whether or not she should follow your lead, reject you, or use you.

And it's all based on how you carry yourself:
Jun 11 22 tweets 5 min read
No woman is ever worth committing to unless she's showing you these 20 green flags:

1. She follows your lead like your leadership is the law. Image 2. She trusts you blindly & never second guesses what you think.
Jun 8 22 tweets 5 min read
Men who master s*xual tension and build it with ease understand these 20 rules of s*xual attraction

𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘴𝘭𝘪𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥-𝘻𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴:

1. Your d*ck game cannot make up for bad foreplay & lack of s*xual tension. Image 2. When you obsess over her past, she realizes you're not fvcking other women.
Jun 7 23 tweets 6 min read
Dating switches to easy mode once you understand these 20 dark truths about women

𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘥:

1. If your woman talks about celebrity passes, this only means one thing: Image She's 100% going to cheat on you under the right circumstances.

Because you already let the thought slide.
Jun 5 18 tweets 5 min read
10 Laws of Seduction that Level Up Your Game

Building s*xual tension and making women imagine what it's like sleeping with you becomes easier when you follow these rules:

1. Reframe your attention as her reward & your D as her gift: Image Women will only fvck you when they feel like s*x with you is valuable to 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺.

One of the easiest ways to present s*x as a reward for her is by actually presenting it as such, playfully.

Examples:
Jun 3 22 tweets 7 min read
Every woman secretly wishes Men understood these 20 truths about s*xual attraction:

1. Her first playful test is an opportunity for you to flirt with her. Image 2. Qualifying her can frustrate her, but it adds s*xual tension.

Ex: You tease her during a convo about s*x & tell her she 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮𝘴 like an amateur.

She'll remember it & later try to prove you wrong.
May 25 17 tweets 5 min read
Women will always 𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗮𝘁 on guys who follow these behaviors:

1. Leading with love instead of s*xual attraction: Image Attraction is the foundation of any relationship, serious & casual.

2. Being romantic before s*x, not after:

You can't romanticize your way into pvssy.

3. Worrying about where you stand in 𝘩𝘦𝘳 life.
May 23 23 tweets 7 min read
Men who conquer women and wealth live by these 20 brutal truths

𝘔𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴:

1. You cannot guarantee a woman's loyalty and neither can she: Image This is why you must detach your self-worth from relationships and women.

You must love the right woman without falling in love with her.
May 21 23 tweets 5 min read
Most men play it safe, hoping it’ll make her choose them.

But women aren’t drawn to 𝘴𝘢𝘧𝘦.

They’re drawn to 𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦.

Here are 20 “toxic” traits women secretly crave, when channeled by a grounded Man: Image 1. Control.

The guy who takes charge of everything.

Where they both go.

Which place they go to.

Which direction they go together in life.

She’ll complain about him to her friends. But she still craves his approval.

Because deep down, she wants a man she can’t push around.
May 20 23 tweets 4 min read
Most men are 𝘵𝘰𝘭𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 by women, at best.

Few are truly 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘥.

Here are 20 shifts to trigger that primal “I want him” reaction: Image 1. You can’t logic your way into a woman’s desire.

You can only lead her into it.

Presence > persuasion.
May 18 23 tweets 6 min read
Men who conquer women and wealth live by these 20 brutal truths

𝘔𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴:

1. Women being born valuable & men having to build value is a LIE: Image Assigning value to a woman just because she is born pretty IS simping.

Value is benefit for YOU.

If a woman, ugly or pretty, isn't contributing to you, she is not valuable.

Stop giving women credit when they've done nothing:
May 12 23 tweets 7 min read
Why women feel the urge to CHEAT on you

If you think simply making her "happy" guarantees you her loyalty..

𝘠𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘳𝘶𝘥𝘦 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨.

Here's why a woman would cheat on you with no remorse: Image 1. You're not emotionally stimulating enough:

You can be many things to a woman, but being boring should NOT be one of them.

She cannot stay loyal to you if your presence doesn't engage her emotions.

But how do you engage her emotions?
May 11 20 tweets 6 min read
Being introverted is a secret weapon in dating.

It lets you create deeper, more authentic connections than most extroverts ever will.

Here are 9 ways your introversion makes you irresistibly attractive to women: 👇 Image 1. Being a great listener:

You'll never have a stimulating convo with a woman unless you pay attention to what she is *really* saying.

That's something many extroverts guys suck at - they tend talk AT others instead of TO them.
May 9 21 tweets 5 min read
Women are attracted to DOMINANT men who know how to lead confidently.

The problem is most men confuse being 𝗱𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝘁 with being 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴.

Here are specific dominant behaviors & mindset you must follow for women to genuinely desire & respect you: Image 1. Never wait for her to express your s*xual interest:

Waiting for choosing signals or any type of validation to approach women is for pvssies who are afraid of rejection.

As a Man, you create & lead the interaction & give her the freedom to choose whether or not to follow.
May 7 19 tweets 4 min read
Women sense weakness the second you show these 30 needy behaviors.

𝘋𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘱𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶.

- Dark Female Psychology Thread - Image 1. Being afraid to flirt even though she 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘴 you want her.

2. Playing it safe because you're worried about offending her.

3. Going along with her plans to make her comfortable:
Apr 22 21 tweets 6 min read
Men who are experienced in seduction, always follow these dark dating rules:

- Female Psychology Thread - Image 1. Never make a woman yours unless you're dating many women:

Your only option is rarely your best option.

Date many GREAT women first before deciding on the one you'll commit to.