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Aug 19 โ€ข 20 tweets โ€ข 6 min read
Being introverted is a secret weapon in dating.

It lets you create deeper, more authentic connections than most extroverts ever will.

Here are 9 ways your introversion makes you irresistibly attractive to women: ๐Ÿ‘‡ Image 1. Being a great listener:

You'll never have a stimulating convo with a woman unless you pay attention to what she is *really* saying.

That's something many extroverts guys suck at - they tend talk AT others instead of TO them.
Jul 31 โ€ข 17 tweets โ€ข 4 min read
Men,

Not every hot chick ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด to be your girl.

Especially if she shows you any of these 30 red flags:

1. Her presence brings chaos, drama, & problems ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด*๐˜น ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ. Image 2. She is focused on what you can do for her, not who you are.

3. She feels entitled to your time, money, or attention.
Jul 30 โ€ข 16 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
You don't ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ to manipulate women to have fun & casual s*x with them.

๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ'๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ.

Here are the behaviors you need to follow to become a player with integrity:

1. Aim for s*x, shamelessly: Image If you believe it's ๐˜ธ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ to be upfront with women about wanting to fvck..

You'll naturally be indirect & manipulative to get laid..

A player ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ด women LOVE to fvck.

In his mind, he's doing women a favor by having s*x with them.
Jul 28 โ€ข 24 tweets โ€ข 6 min read
The deep, dark truths about women.

Women will always run circles around you until you internalize these 20 facts:

1. The Man with the most s*xual influence over her is her leader: Image She can be happily married for 20 years.

But if you can help her express her restricted s*xual side that her husband can't unlock..

You'd be the ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก husband.
Jul 13 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 6 min read
Creating s*xual tension with women comes naturally to you when you follow these 20 attractive behaviors:

1. Playfully tell her she seems too innocent for you: Image Nothing builds s*xual tension quicker than a playful challenge.

If she already likes you, she will prove you wrong & show you she's not innocent at all.
Jul 12 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 6 min read
Men who excel at seduction, understand these 20 facts about s*xual attraction:

1. Her love for you doesn't make her loyal. Respect is what keeps her: Image Her loyalty comes from desire and desire comes from respect.

If you don't command her respect, her love will mean nothing when there are no consequences to disrespecting you.
Jul 3 โ€ข 15 tweets โ€ข 4 min read
Your breakup didn't start when she left.

It started the first time you let a "small" disrespect slide and said nothing.

Here's the frame the attractive man with strong character uses to prevent this from ever happening: Image First, understand the "slow poison" effect.

Disrespect rarely begins with a huge betrayal. It starts with micro-aggressions you choose to ignore:

- The sarcastic "joke" at your expense.
- The eye-roll when you share an idea.
- Being consistently late with no apology.
Jun 26 โ€ข 10 tweets โ€ข 3 min read
"I just need closure."

This is one of the biggest lies men tell themselves after a breakup.

It's a trap that keeps you powerless, waiting for your ex to give you permission to move on.

Here's how to break free and create your own: Image Waiting for "closure" from her means you are putting the keys to your emotional recovery in someone else's pocket.

You are giving her the power to decide when, or if, you get to feel at peace.

A Man never gives away that power.
Jun 24 โ€ข 10 tweets โ€ข 3 min read
Your biggest urge after a breakup is to "win her back."

You want to prove she made a mistake. You want to show her what she's missing.

This is a natural feeling. But it's a trap that will destroy your self-respect.

Hereโ€™s why, and what to do instead ๐Ÿ‘‡ Trying to win her back is a low-value behavior.

It communicates that she is the prize and your life is empty without her.

You are subconsciously telling her, "You are more important than I am."

This is the opposite of attractive.
Jun 21 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
Men who get women always follow these 20 unpopular dating rules

๐˜ˆ๐˜ญ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ:

1. If another guy talks to your woman, the most beta thing you can do is... Addressing him instead of her.

Use this moment to gauge her actual commitment to you.

Does she leave room for flirty BS to take place or does she shut down the interaction immediately?
Jun 19 โ€ข 21 tweets โ€ข 4 min read
A woman is NEVER loyal to you unless she does these 30 things for you

(๐˜“๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ข ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜บ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ)

1. She understands that s*xual exclusivity isn't the only form of loyalty. Image 2. She makes your goal her goal.

3. She supports you even when she doesn't understand your path & dreams.
Jun 16 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 7 min read
20 Red Flags in a Man

What behaviors turn women off?

Discover these not-so-obvious mistakes that could be hurting your appeal: Image 1. Have a 50/50 relationship with her:

If you're not 100% leading or you believe you're "splitting" your authority..

She has you by the balls & you've been manipulated into following her.
Jun 15 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 6 min read
Women subconsciously seek these 20 masculine traits before considering a man attractive:

How many do you really have? ๐Ÿ‘‡ Image 1. Commanding presence:

Within the first 3 seconds, a woman will recognize whether or not she should follow your lead, reject you, or use you.

And it's all based on how you carry yourself:
Jun 11 โ€ข 22 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
No woman is ever worth committing to unless she's showing you these 20 green flags:

1. She follows your lead like your leadership is the law. Image 2. She trusts you blindly & never second guesses what you think.
Jun 8 โ€ข 22 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
Men who master s*xual tension and build it with ease understand these 20 rules of s*xual attraction

๐˜š๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ-๐˜ป๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด:

1. Your d*ck game cannot make up for bad foreplay & lack of s*xual tension. Image 2. When you obsess over her past, she realizes you're not fvcking other women.
Jun 7 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 6 min read
Dating switches to easy mode once you understand these 20 dark truths about women

๐˜š๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ:

1. If your woman talks about celebrity passes, this only means one thing: Image She's 100% going to cheat on you under the right circumstances.

Because you already let the thought slide.
Jun 5 โ€ข 18 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
10 Laws of Seduction that Level Up Your Game

Building s*xual tension and making women imagine what it's like sleeping with you becomes easier when you follow these rules:

1. Reframe your attention as her reward & your D as her gift: Image Women will only fvck you when they feel like s*x with you is valuable to ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ.

One of the easiest ways to present s*x as a reward for her is by actually presenting it as such, playfully.

Examples:
Jun 3 โ€ข 22 tweets โ€ข 7 min read
Every woman secretly wishes Men understood these 20 truths about s*xual attraction:

1. Her first playful test is an opportunity for you to flirt with her. Image 2. Qualifying her can frustrate her, but it adds s*xual tension.

Ex: You tease her during a convo about s*x & tell her she ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ด like an amateur.

She'll remember it & later try to prove you wrong.
May 25 โ€ข 17 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
Women will always ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ on guys who follow these behaviors:

1. Leading with love instead of s*xual attraction: Image Attraction is the foundation of any relationship, serious & casual.

2. Being romantic before s*x, not after:

You can't romanticize your way into pvssy.

3. Worrying about where you stand in ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ life.
May 23 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 7 min read
Men who conquer women and wealth live by these 20 brutal truths

๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด:

1. You cannot guarantee a woman's loyalty and neither can she: Image This is why you must detach your self-worth from relationships and women.

You must love the right woman without falling in love with her.
May 21 โ€ข 23 tweets โ€ข 5 min read
Most men play it safe, hoping itโ€™ll make her choose them.

But women arenโ€™t drawn to ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ฆ.

Theyโ€™re drawn to ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ.

Here are 20 โ€œtoxicโ€ traits women secretly crave, when channeled by a grounded Man: Image 1. Control.

The guy who takes charge of everything.

Where they both go.

Which place they go to.

Which direction they go together in life.

Sheโ€™ll complain about him to her friends. But she still craves his approval.

Because deep down, she wants a man she canโ€™t push around.