If she hits you with, “Do you like light or dark skin girls?”
It’s another “am I your type” trap—a shit test to see if you’ll squirm. Use these techniques to keep her chasing.
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Solid response: “It’s all about the vibe. If we’re clicking, your skin tone’s my new obsession.” Why it works: You dodge her either-or game, raise the bar to chemistry, and keep it smooth without sounding desperate or generic.
Or just say, “I go for something deeper than that.”
Great response: “Honestly, I’m into green-skinned girls. You up for a dye job?” Why it works: Her question’s silly, and she knows it. Women throw these dumb tests to trip you up.
1. Scared to get rough, dominant, or selfish in bed. 2. Chasing her approval, often without even knowing. 3. Trying to please from a weak, desperate place.
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This makes for DULL, YAWN-WORTHY SEX.
Most guys have NO CLUE how raw, primal, and electric sex can be.
They’re trapped by limiting beliefs about what they can pull off and what she really craves in bed.
They think eating her out makes them a stud 🤦♂️.
The SAD TRUTH? These weak beliefs don’t just tank her pleasure or your sex life—they come back to bite you hard.
Women get bored FAST and have endless options for dick.
You roll up to a hot chick at the bar, say hi, and she’s vibing—smiling, chatting, all good. Then she hits you with, “Buy me a drink.”
You could shit her down to flex your frame and not look like a simp (“Nah, you buy me one.”)
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but that might torch the vibe you’ve built.
We know chicks dig strong dudes—guys who set boundaries, prioritize themselves, act alpha, and break rapport instead of chasing it (Calling her out with a smirk, not kissing her ass.).
So why isn’t blowing off her request always the play?
‘Cause pretty girls get swarmed by thirsty losers daily (Creeps with no game, begging for her time.).
If you don’t touch her, things get awkward. Touch itself is attractive.
This post explains why touching matters for seduction, covering why physical escalation is key and why you should focus on it.
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First, why is touching needed?
You need to get her comfortable with your touch.
Here’s a quick example:
You meet a stunning girl, charm her smoothly, and she’s into it. Everything flows perfectly—she’s easy to talk to, you vibe, and you feel like a team.
She shows interest: long eye contact, blushing, smiling, wide pupils, pouty lips. It’s on!
You suggest leaving together, maybe grab food, and now she’s at your place, sitting on your couch with a drink. You’re feeling great about the smooth pickup.
You meet a girl, and she’s sizing you up, expecting you to jump through hoops to impress her. After a date or two, you deliver—charming her with your confidence and game. She’s hooked, calls you “interesting,” and you’re in bed soon after…
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But then it gets messy. She catches feelings, expecting you to follow suit. When you don’t, she’s pissed, thinking she’s entitled to your heart just for existing. She’s used to guys falling at her feet, so your indifference throws her off.
She assumes you’re playing her, when really, she didn’t do shit to impress you.
Clueless about what men actually want, she falls back on her only move: sex. She ramps it up, thinking it’ll spark your emotions. Big mistake.
Early in a relationship, after a man sleeps w/ a woman, the power dynamic shifts. He’s got what he chased—regular sex, a steady partner. Now, she flips the script, chasing him for commitment, aiming for a deeper relationship
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She’s at her peak charm—sweet, feminine, on her best behavior—to lock him in long-term.
If he resists committing beyond her threshold, she’ll start to pull back, auto-rejecting the relationship.
Her good behavior fades. The man, wanting the old dynamic back, starts chasing her. Slowly, the frame shifts to her control.
Once she secures commitment—moving in, marriage, kids—she often becomes the one holding the frame.