2. But I will give you some benefit, not of doubt, but of hope.
Can we agree that Mental ill health refers to a range of conditions that affect a person's thinking, feeling, or behavior, causing distress & impairing their ability to function in daily life? …
3. Nb: ‘causing distress & impairing their ability to function in daily life’
I was extremely distressed throughout childhood & teen yrs because people expected me to be a girl.
I am not talking expectations of behaviour, or clothing. I am talking about being invisible. …’
4. When I saw the psychiatric services, a question asked was “would you take a pill if it would make you happy as a girl for the rest of your life?”
I answered “happy for the rest of my life, I wouldn’t care if it made me a poodle. But you don’t have that pill, do you ?” …
5. The ‘pill’ did in fact exist.
12 months after I commenced living so that other people could see a person that approximated me, which greatly improved my anxieties, depression & s**cidal ideation (& attempts) was oral testosterone.
4yrs later I had a hysterectomy & chest…
6. … reconstruction. My anxieties, depression & s**cidal ideation vanished completely. That was 1979. They have never returned
Since then I have faced down huge amounts of prejudice, discrimination, harassment & hate crime.
Yet despite all the 💩 life threw at me & mine…
7. … I have had no distress (beyond the normal temporary sort eg when sacked from the next job, twice being accused of being a paedophile, having a mob attack the house, people trying to stop our children going to the local school - the sort of normal 💩)
Sorry to bore you .,,
8. … but I’m going to have to give you some of my CV
I ran a successful property business, 1981 boughtmy 1st house for £2,400 - with an outside loo, & sold my last one for 7 figures. I am renovating my 11th - a large Victorian Villa.
During this time I got a BA Geography …
9. … then whilst working I studied p/time for 10yrs to get a Law degree, an MA in criminal social sciences, & a PhD in Law.
I obtained a tutoring post in 1991 with the Open University, took a full time Lecturing post in 1993. I ran a scout group (& the troop) for 10yrs,…
10. … only choosing to resign when I co-founded a trans rights lobby group & coming out big time - not want to cause embarrassment to
Scouting
Many of those now grown up young men, as many of my ex students, stay in touch, & are not just family friends but are trans allies.…
11. We also successfully fought to the doors of the Courts for my wife to have fertility treatment & we have raised 4 wonderful young public servants
We took the Govt to the European Court of Human Rights to be declared a family in 1997.
I write expert reports for courts in…
12. Not just trans issues but also in asylum
I led the community to the first legal protections in 1996 gaining employment protection, all the way through to gender recognition & inclusion in the protections in the Eq Act.
I was the first non-clinician & first trans person….
13. … to become President of WPATH, so tho not a clinician I have engaged in learning gender healthcare, & now chair the first UK NHS Gender clinic staffed by family drs not Psychiatrists.
I received an OBE in the Queens New Years Honours in 2005, the year I was l made a…
14. … Professor in Equalities Law - just 10 yrs after obtaining my PhD - almost unheard of in law. I am an elected Fellow of the Academy of Social Sciences
I could go on & on, the above is just a fragment of my post transition life. Much of life has not been easy, but a…
15. …great deal of hard work. Now back to no 2 of this thread,
Mental ill health causes distress & impaired functioning
I’ve not been distressed about myself or my weird (to others) body, and I clearly have not had any impaired functioning
Maybe it was impaired, & …
16. … I could have gone to Oxbridge & become prime minister, if I hadn’t been trans - there is always that possibility.
Nobody can possibly argue I have been in a ‘state of mental ill health’ for the 50 years since I started my transition…
17. … I acknowledge I was born articulate & able, & I clearly am lucky as regards resilience, & in meeting the right person for me 47yrs ago.
BTW I am not repressed lesbian, I identified myself as bisexual when I was 10. I fall for people - their smile not their genitals …
18. As for my body, it’s not but then who’s is?
Your premise that TP are mentally ill, despite being happy, fails because I am the person who disproves your hypothesis
And I kniw thousands of TP who post-transition also show no distress & no impaired functioning, but they …
19. … all had it prior to transition
So I concluded long ago, the problem is psychiatry sees us when we are mentally ill, they don’t see us when we are not.
I hope that helps
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The Trans / autism correlation has been known since the 1970s
Originally hypothesised that the autism form of neurodivergence gave TP the ability to single mindedly focus (eg obsess as in train spotting) on transition & getting treatment
Now the view is more complex.
2. Consideration should be given to the impact on young females of the fashion/social media/film & tv focus on hyper-feminisation as the aspiration for girls growing up
Despite the success of new role models such as the Lionesses, many autistic youngsters feel very ..
3. … uncomfortable with their peer group expectations
Unfortunately the closure here, the USA & Finland of the child & adolescent gender clinics (most of which were the world’s centres of excellence, where less than 8% of adolescent teens attending received PBs …
I expect they chose to use the words their friends used to refer to whoever had parental responsibility in their family unit.
As we had determined to always tell our children the truth (using age appropriate language) …
3. … no matter what it was about, as soon as they asked questions about their birth (around age 4) we told them the story of how our family came into being
Consequently they knew about the man who gave a gift (of sperm to a licensed clinic), and they were also told …
2. … a long time ago, in an effort to prevent any other kid or young adult having to go through what I went through.
I recognise I had a safe job, & a pension now I am retired. I am articulate & able. I have an educated wife of 47 yrs who has never doubted who she met. …
3. I have spent 60yrs thinking hard about the question of whether, as the French psychotherapist Colette Chilland put it, I am ill & this is a delusional state or whether I really do know I am a woman & am perpetuating a deception on the world.
1. @jenni65714 I think the EqAct has worked extremely well
The EqAct exemptions can be used by genuine single or separate sex services as a defence, if a TP who is not employed, or refused a service, then brings litigation over those matters
- & they have worked
2. No S/SS service has been threatened with litigation over an exclusion as no TP has sought to bring a case to court
The Court cases have been brought by women & relate to their right to hold a belief
This is a manufactured moral panic. How often do women come across …
3. … a TW in a loo or changing area??
My wife says that as a women who hangs out with TP, in 50yrs she’s probably only 4 or 5 times been in a loo at the same time as a TW, & she has never felt unsafe.
The so css as led ‘chill factor’ that was brought up repeatedly in the ….
Peggi would have to sue Dr Upton in the sessional courts & show Dr Upton directly caused detriment to Peggi by discriminating against her because she had a protected characteristic.
Dr Upton did nothing except report harassment by Peggi …
3. Reporting an alleged act if harassment or discrimination is a protected act under the Equality Act. - Provided it wasn’t done so falsely or vindictively, it is lawful
Further Dr Upton did not refuse access to Peggi to any space - changing room or toilet ..