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The U.S. Navy studied 2,000 SEAL candidates to find what predicted survival in Hell Week.

Not strength. Not agility. Not size.

The best predictor? A 4-mile run.

The faster you ran, the better your odds.

But the reason why goes deeper than endurance.
For decades, the military has tried to decode the “secret sauce” of those who survive.

Strength? Size? Mental grit?
Research has been mixed.

When I asked a former SEAL, he told me: “I thought the football types would thrive. But it was the endurance athletes—rowers, swimmers, runners—who made it more often. They knew how to suffer alone, in their own head.”
A large study of candidates showed he was on the right track.

The best predictor of Hell Week success wasn’t max strength, speed drills, or agility tests.

It was a 4-mile run.

Run slower than 28 minutes? Less than 8% survived.
Run under 24 minutes? Success rate climbed to 35%.
Why running? Sure, endurance helps with fitness.

But there’s a mental component, too.

Distance running forces you into that inner battle: one voice says “slow down,” the other says “keep going.”

You learn how to filter, endure, and keep making decisions when everything in your body screams stop.
A former athlete of mine turned special forces operator described his experiences in this way:

“It’s like that inner debate in a race—except it never stops. You’re cold, hungry, tired. Half your mind says quit, the other half says push. You have to get used to that dialogue. Running taught me how to find a path through the mess.”
Research outside the military points in the same direction.

A study of elite Australian football coaches asked what defined toughness.

#1 on the list: consistent, superior decision-making.
Last on the list: physical attributes.

Toughness isn’t about brute force, it’s about choices.
Yet in our culture, toughness is often misunderstood.

We glamorize gritted teeth, chest beating, and pushing blindly through pain.

That’s not toughness. It’s performance cosplay.

Real toughness is quiet.

It’s the ability to stay composed, regulate emotion, and make the right decision under pressure.
The concept of toughness has been stretched thin—30+ traits have been attached to it.

Confidence, motivation, discipline, resilience.

But at its core, toughness is about decision-making under stress.

Do you crumble or find clarity?

Do you react impulsively or respond deliberately?
True toughness isn’t about acting hard.

It’s about acting wisely when things get hard.

It’s emotional control, vulnerability, and skill.

On the battlefield, in the classroom, at work, or in life: it’s the ability to make the right choice when fatigue, fear, and stress are screaming at you.

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Aug 30
In a study of 5,500 Swedish adolescents, researchers found something striking:

School stress wasn’t just about workload or competition.

It was driven by fear of failure.

Nearly 40% of the link between ambition and stress was explained by this dread of falling short.

It’s the thought “What if I fail?” that magnifies the stress.
It's the tricky part about drive.

A kid dreams of getting into a top university.

That dream motivates hard work.

But alongside it grows a shadow: “If I don’t make it, I’ll disappoint everyone...and myself.”

That fear becomes a second load to carry, heavier than the workload itself.
The study shows what many of us feel: ambition can fuel growth, but it also plants seeds of anxiety.

When expectations are high, the stakes feel existential.
Failure doesn’t just mean missing a goal—it feels like a threat to identity.

And our nervous system treats that threat like danger.
Stress skyrockets, not from effort, but from meaning.
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Aug 25
Being 80% all the time beats being 100% half the time.

We love the idea of going all in: perfect effort, flawless execution, max intensity.

But perfection is fragile.

It burns hot, then flames out.

Consistency, not occasional perfection, is what compounds into greatness.
Think about training.

Anyone can smash one “perfect” workout.

But what matters is not what you do once. It’s what you repeat.

A solid run every day beats a heroic one followed by three days of exhaustion.

Progress is built on showing up.
The same holds true outside of sport.

Writing one perfect paragraph means little if you never write again for weeks.

A single all-nighter doesn’t outweigh weeks of consistent studying

Parenting, relationships, creativity—they’re all consistency sports.

Better to be present and steady than perfect and absent.
Read 8 tweets
Aug 24
Much of what you’ve been told online about fitness and training is wrong.

High intensity isn’t everything.
Zone 2 isn’t magic.
VO₂max isn’t destiny.

Let’s bust some fitness myths…
1. High Intensity Training gives you all you need.

False. It’s one path. But it isn’t pert plus...

There’s always overlap in adaptations. Every intensity of exercise works. But none give you everything, or close to it.

And intense training works best when it’s preceded by lots of easy and moderate. It’s the icing on the cake. Not the main dish.
2. The “Norwegian” 4x4 min is the best way to improve VO2max.

Nope. It’s one workout that does an okay job. There are a 100+ other workouts that would do the same or better job.

It’s best to stop looking for a magical workout.

Instead, learn how you modify the workout (speed, rep length, recovery, pacing, etc.) to provide a stimulus to adapt.
Read 10 tweets
Aug 16
When you get good at something, the world rushes to put you in a box.

“The runner.” “The musician.” “The whiz kid.”

Labels feel flattering, then quietly become cages.

You start optimizing life around protecting the label instead of growing as a person.

That’s the trap: achievement narrows identity, and a narrow identity is fragile.
It leads to what researchers call Identity foreclosure.

When we stop exploring who we are, and cement around a particular construct.

Early success accelerates this process. When the rest of your friends are dabbling and trying different things in school...you are already exploiting your talent.

At first, the cost is invisible. It's nice to be known as something. But over time, it leaves you stuck with the sense of self you developed as a 15 year old.

Before long, your worth rides on one scoreboard.
Fragility shows up when the inevitable wobble comes.

A bad race, a missed promotion, an injury, a flop.

If your entire self sits on one pillar, any crack feels existential.

Now the goal isn’t to grow; it’s to protect the image at all costs.

Performance suffers because fear replaces curiosity.
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Aug 15
We’ve turned childhood into a resume.

Leagues at age six, private lessons at seven, travel teams by eight.

Some kids thrive for a bit, but many lose the thread that made them fall in love in the first place.

Play becomes performance; curiosity becomes compliance.

If we want durable athletes and healthier humans, we have to flip the script back to play.

Play isn’t the opposite of excellence; it’s the foundation of it.
Our instinct to organize everything squeezes out the natural chaos where kids learn best.

Pick-up games become uniforms and clipboards.

Recess gets cut; free time becomes car time from one structured activity to another.

Parents hover because the world feels scary, so kids lose chances to roam and figure things out.

This isn’t about blame; it’s about systems and incentives.
The decline of free, self-directed play isn’t a minor inconvenience; it’s a mental health issue.

Research by Peter Gray and colleagues argues that less roaming and independent activity tracks with more anxiety and depression in youth.

When adults control every minute, kids don’t get the reps in agency and risk calibration.

No agency means every setback feels catastrophic and every decision feels foreign.

Play is where kids practice small risks and learn that they can handle them.

Confidence is earned experience.
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Aug 14
We love to say athletes are driven by one of two things:
Love winning.
Or hate losing.

Kobe Bryant saw it differently.

“I’m neither. I play to figure things out.”
Kobe explained:

If you play with a fear of failure, you’re primed to fold.
If you play with “I just want to win,” you live in fear of what happens if you don’t.

Both leave you at the mercy of outcomes, things you can’t fully control.

"But if you find common ground in the middle, in the center, then it doesn’t matter. You’re unfazed. You stay in the moment. Stay connected to it. And not feel anything other than what’s in front of you. I try to be dead center.”
Tom House—a legendary throwing coach who’s worked with Nolan Ryan, Randy Johnson, Tom Brady, Drew Brees—noticed something similar.

“They’re addicted to the process. Winning is a byproduct.”

They stay in the process better than anyone.

Even wins only pull them out for moments.
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