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MONICA BELLUCCI IS A BAD SEDUCTION ROLE MODEL

...and girls can't handle it.

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Haven't I smashed enough idols yet?
Ok, if you insist...
There's no doubt that Monica is attractive. The question is whether she's a good ROLE MODEL for women who want to seduce. And the answer is usually NO. Image
Monica is the mistress of sophisticated elegance with a noir touch. And that's the HARDEST seduction style to pull off. Men don't actually like it that much. It's just that Monica does it so exceptionally well that they like it IN HER CASE.
Even Monica struggles against a serious attack of the cute. Image
So when women take Monica as a role model they're implicitly saying:

1. I want to seduce in the hardest possible way
2. With a style men don't actually care for that much
3. Even though it's very unlikely that I have what it takes
4. Even though there are other, easier ways Image
When you stop being distracted by how well Monica pulls this off, you'll notice that each of the points 1-4 above are individually dubious choices, and all four points taken together are pretty much insane.
So as you can see, it's entirely possible for Monica to be very attractive and an excellent seductress, but STILL a bad role model for women. Image
Meanwhile, the easy money is being left on the table. Image
In fact, basically every seduction style is easier. Not just bubbly. For instance, what about a little sass and spunk?

Sure, women might be impressed that Monica aged so well. But here's Salma doing sass and spunk at 58.
In short, Monica is so good at her particular high-wire act that it makes other women think they can walk the same tightrope. But very few can - and it's not even the most popular act at the circus.
Stop making your life harder than it needs to be, girls. Learn MUCH EASIER and more effective ways to seduce - right here.

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Chokers are a free boost to your sex appeal. So at first they sound like an easy magic trick. But be cautious. Using them indiscriminately can end badly. Please read the notes below, and think before you choke. Image
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