THE SKINNY-HOT LOOK: HOW TO GET IT RIGHT (AND WRONG)

The skinny-hot look is a rare combination of slimness and curves. Lots of women consider it THE beauty ideal they aspire to. But, chasing the skinny-hot look can VERY easily go wrong. I'll explain in this thread... First of all, I classify this as a "body type only possible with augmentation." If models are claiming they have this look naturally, they are LYING.

DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL

Supposedly women are mysterious and confusing. They don't tell men what they want, leaving men to figure it out (they usually don't). But what if this is backwards? What if MEN are the ones who don't tell WOMEN what they want? I'll explain in this thread. We can all agree that it's easier for men to physically compel women to do what they want than the other way around.

Laws and policing mean that today this isn't really as true as it seems. But, it WAS quite true in the past. And, obviously, our instincts were built in the past.

Looks like a second replication of my work. I hope this one had the good grace to cite me...

https://twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/1939966973409989009

You can find my original doll research from 2020-2021 here:

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Stop the madness. Just say "no" to buccal fat removal. Cheek fat is an important sign of youth. Removing it is an aging-acceleration procedure. Which makes a lot of sense if you want to look older as fast as possible. And who doesn't?

WHY AUTHENTICITY OFTEN DOESN'T MATTER FOR SEDUCTION

Girls can't figure out why men love bouncy viral blondes even though they're obviously putting on an act. The answer is that it doesn't matter that they're putting on an act. I'll explain in this thread.
Inauthentic behavior that's motivated by authentic emotions affects men positively, not negatively.

Portion of men and women who rate fellatio "extremely, very, or moderately" erotic. Much closer than most people assume. This chart is based on Aella's most recent survey but I've decided not to include it in DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES because I think I already have plenty of better data on that topic.

A "RANGE" OF TASTES

How focused and specific are our tastes? Often much more so than we're aware. But we sometimes have quirks and contradictions that surprise us as well. In this thread I'll tell you what I learned compiling my 30 favorite images from DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES. To start, let me review something I discovered when studying facial preferences.

Most people have more specific facial preferences than they're aware. When you ask them to choose their four favorite faces, they all tend to look like sisters.

Boys, which vibe do you find more attractive? Which vibe do you find more attractive?

The reason entertainers use sex to sell is, effectively, because the public makes them. Then the public always blames the entertainers for their own vice. But the entertainers can't point out that the public made them, because that's being rude to a customer. It's all very funny. Entertainers in most cases would rather write "I Wanna Hold Your Hand." But the public doesn't want to hear "I Wanna Hold Your Hand," they want to watch a performance of "I wanna **** ****" including a striptease and blame entertainers for stripping and writing about **** ****.

Supposedly rhythmic music is "sexual." But in the next post you can hear the audiotrack of a popular hentai video. (Don't open at work.)

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YIN AND YANG ARE BACKWARDS

Sorry, folks. The true essence of femininity is vivacious light, NOT mysterious darkness.

One reason women get seduction so wrong is that they chase the vibe on the left, when the vibe on the right is FAR more seductive.

I'll explain in this thread.
I know people are attached to traditions. But lots of them are just wrong. And provably so. Bloodletting, for instance.

It doesn't matter how traditional the "women are darkness" thing is. It's basically the opposite of the truth.

I've made some minor updates to DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES recently. I'm going to collect them in this short thread.

First, a concise explanation of how to choose lettered bottoms. One point I forgot in the earlier thread: you want several words, not just one or two.

I clarified and improved an existing passage on "Manual and Mammary Stimulation," which I feel is a bit risque to post on this account. But, if you're interested in reading it, it's in the middle of the section on oral technique, link here.

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A big problem with aluminum windows is that they have black lining between frame and glass--whereas wood windows grip the glass directly. Black lining forces you to choose a black frame. Especially if you want colonial bars. I don't understand why they can't make white lining. Honestly horrid.

ATTRACTIVE SINGING VOICES

I've been thinking about attractive singing voices lately. Since the weekend is here, I figure it's a good time for a (completely subjective) thread on this topic.

First of all, is there a "best" female singing voice? Yes there is. And if you haven't heard this song a three-digit number of times I question whether you even like music at all.

WHO YOU ARE DECIDES WHO YOU ATTRACT

Nothing's easier than avoiding high-maintenance women. Just don't make too much money. But if you're wealthy, it's likely the best woman you can find will be high maintenance. We ALL attract the partners who most desire our standout traits... We don't all weight every trait equally. For instance, some men care about hair color and some men don't.

A woman whose standout trait is blonde hair is going to disproportionately attract men who find blonde hair more appealing than the average man does.

The large majority of people want to live in low-density neighborhoods. But nearly ALL public advocates are promoting high-density "urbanism." Even immigration doesn't have such a massive disconnect between what people want and what advocates have decided to force-feed them. I don't think I've come across a SINGLE anti-urbanist advocate on Twitter. Apart from myself. But the stubborn fact remains that people want to live in houses with yards. It's difficult to understand why so few are willing to advocate for this as a policy goal.

WHY THE "ALPHA" AND "BETA" MALES THEORY IS WRONG

Supposedly "betas" offer resources in exchange for wives because women don't really like them. Is this an accurate characterization of reality? No. I explain in this thread. The "beta" theory is inherently contradictory and just doesn't work.

It looks like social media is in steep decline - around -35% in the past four years. Shouldn't this be a big story? IMO peak Twitter was around 2019. From 2020 there was too much censorship but people were forced on because of Covid. Since Elon's taken over I think there's been a noticeable decline in quality and interest of content here. Many creators remark a decrease in discovery potential.

Doomsday global-warming scenarios are currently considered unlikely, but they do provide grist for a more amusing dystopia than environmentalists have been projecting. Since cognitive impairment begins at 1000ppm and indoor concentrations are typically ~400ppm higher than... ...outdoor concentrations, a high-emissions scenario would be enough to make everyone effectively dumber.

How university faculties become politically polarized. Thread.

TOP TWENTY-FIVE SINS OF MODERN HOUSES

Have I left anything off the list?

1. Attached garages
2. Millennial gray
3. Asphalt shingles
4. Unnecessary asymmetry
5. Big, unbroken open plans
6. Large rooms with low ceilings
7. Granite or other fad countertops that don't match 8. Missing or fake colonial bars
9. Underspending on windows
10. Too many kitchen cabinets
11. Overspending on kitchens
12. Not enough trees
13. Excessive pavement
14. Underspending on pavers
15. Eaves too small
16. Tinted windows