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Beauty, thought, sound. To explore my work, visit my site directly. Essays: https://t.co/Tvx4SMPbzp Daily Journal: https://t.co/6M0tylVevs
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Nov 19 4 tweets 1 min read
If you want to de-bias an organization you have to be:

1. biased in the opposite direction of biased people in the organization
2. biased in favor of other people who are also counterbiased
3. biased in favor of low-bias job candidates even if their overall ability is lower In short, simply "being unbiased" is a strictly losing strategy unless it's already pursued by the vast majority at the org
Nov 17 4 tweets 1 min read
THE PRETTIEST CHART OF SEXUAL POSITIONS ON THE INTERNET

Download it in high resolution at the link below!

If you're brave, reply with your three favorite positions in order, and note your gender (YOUR favorites, not your partner's). If you're shy, you can send them by DM. Image Download link for the high resolution version of the DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES sexual positions chart. Looks much nicer than the Twitter image.

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Nov 17 4 tweets 1 min read
Which positions do you prefer?

Reply with your top three in order - and include your gender. I'm asking for YOUR personal favorites, so don't consult your significant other! Image I'd appreciate some reposts so I can reach enough people to get a meaningful sample.
Nov 16 9 tweets 2 min read
Why are most women incapable of making even simple improvements to their beauty and seductiveness? They're like heart-shaped balloons that are either puffed up with ego or completely deflated. Either way, they can't take balanced self-criticism, so self-improvement is impossible. Image If you point out that women's psychology is usually dominated by egotistical pride and vanity, the obvious counterpoint is that a huge fraction of women are depressed and have low self-esteem. My explanation of fragile vanity shows these are actually two sides of the same coin.
Nov 15 5 tweets 2 min read
Today's special episode of the DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES podcast is about masculine beauty and age gaps. It discusses bodyfat levels, the truth about size, and whether circumcision for aesthetic reasons is as retarded as it sounds. Link below! Image By the way, this is an extended four-hour episode we don't expect you to get through in one sitting. We packed in as much information as we could, so feel free to skip around to the parts that interest you.

And did I mention it's hosted by the amazing @musecontour?
Nov 14 14 tweets 5 min read
THE TOP TEN LOWEST-EFFORT THINGS GIRLS COULD DO TO BE HOTTER (BUT DON'T)

Some say being attractive is too much effort. So I've compiled this list of super-low effort changes girls could make to be hotter, but don't because they don't care enough to spend even two minutes!👇 Image 1. Throw out your beige lingerie.

It's ugly, it's not sexy, and even though you think you need it, you don't. Throwing out your beige lingerie only takes minutes and you'll look better forever. Image
Nov 13 17 tweets 3 min read
Your desire to soothe your ego with dishonest self-affirmations is holding you, and all of us, back. Women are worst about this as they seem to only have two settings, self-love and self-hate; but men do it too. To fix our problems we have to acknowledge their existence. To get at the truth and make ourselves and the world better with knowledge takes a kind of "intellectual buddhism." First you have to clear your mind completely and NOT WANT the truth to be other than it is. Only then can you see it. Because wanting obscures the truth.
Nov 11 14 tweets 4 min read
THE MOST IMPORTANT SEDUCTION MOVE TO KEEP YOUR BOYFRIEND (OR HUSBAND) SATISFIED

How do you keep your lover satisfied in your relationship, beyond the basics of staying fit and being pleasant company? One simple move beats all the others. And most women aren't doing it. Thread.👇 Image I'll tell you what this move is in just a few posts. But first I need to explain some important background.
Nov 10 13 tweets 6 min read
THE TRUTH ABOUT BREAST SIZE: QUICK SUMMARY

Folks, I hate that the public made this my signature issue because I have so much more to say. But this thread is going to explain the truth about breast size in seven easy posts. It's about the difference between CHOICES and CLAIMS. Image Whenever we look at what men PRIVATELY CHOOSE when they're free to have anything they want, 80% CHOOSE very large breasts. But whenever there's a risk of damaging their reputation or offending someone, they PUBLICLY CLAIM they want less to avoid these consequences. Image
Nov 9 14 tweets 5 min read
THE BREAST-POSTING ON TWITTER HAS GOTTEN COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS AND NEEDS TO STOP

Why we've all had enough. A thread. A plea. 👇 Image Over the last few years there's been an accelerating trend of busty models going viral in the timeline. Lately it's gotten totally ridiculous, with Sydney Sweeney trending basically every day, with basically no clothes on.
Nov 8 4 tweets 2 min read
Episode 7 of the DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES podcast covers “The Most Important Secret About Faces.” It's pretty much everyone's favorite chapter. Am I going to tell you what that secret is in this post? Of course not! Go listen to the podcast. Links below. Image Spotify:
open.spotify.com/episode/0s0JhW…
Nov 6 26 tweets 8 min read
MAGIC WORDS TO USE ON MEN

What phrases turn men on the most? This updated version of my definitely-not-PG13 thread will tell you the answer. Many thanks to my readers for their feedback and suggestions. Image Most lists of lewd phrases are either a random selection, or the author's personal favorites. The list of top phrases I'll give you here is going to be better and more trustworthy, because it's neither of those things.
Nov 4 11 tweets 3 min read
WHY WE NEED AN ODALISQUE ARMY TO SAVE THE WORLD

A big mistake I made in promoting the truth about feminine beauty was trying to do it all by myself. In this thread I'll explain why you need an army to change public opinion. In this case, an army of exceptionally charming women. Image So, now that my amazing co-host Carmen @musecontour is posting on feminine beauty I see why doing it all myself was never going to work. She posts in a different style from a different angle, and it's going to reach different people.
Nov 4 9 tweets 2 min read
THE MISSIONARY MYSTERY

Readers, I have a confession. I've really struggled with the question of just how bad missionary position is and I'd like to get it right in the article. But because the data quality is so low, I have to be very vague to avoid giving wrong answers... The problem is that the fairly large set of hentai videos I studied has basically NO missionary, but we know that can't be right. Logically, it's a position that just doesn't work well on video.
Nov 2 33 tweets 9 min read
WHICH PHRASE HAS THE BIGGEST IMPACT ON MEN?

In this thread I'm going to dig in and find out. Warning - not PG13. Image First point to keep in mind is that wordless vocalization has a stronger impact than words. This is clear in erotic media for men. In some genres noises are continuous through the entire video. Hentai is a great example because there are voice actresses specifically to do this.
Nov 1 6 tweets 2 min read
Episode 6 of the DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES podcast is called "Market Forces." It explains why the most popular look isn't always the best, and why weird looks can be attractive. It also answers your burning questions about butt size and... harem animes! Listen now at the link below. Image Spotify:
open.spotify.com/episode/7mLXZ4…
Nov 1 20 tweets 6 min read
AI EXPLAINS WHAT WOMEN REALLY THINK ABOUT SYDNEY SWEENEY

I asked Grok whether women really understand Sydney's popularity or not. Here's what he said.👇 Image "Women generally recognize that Sydney Sweeney's popularity is driven by her large breasts relative to her slim frame."

Ok, so far so good. But we're not done. Image
Oct 30 31 tweets 11 min read
WHY SYDNEY SWEENEY'S TRANSPARENT DRESS WILL CHANGE FASHION FOREVER

Catchy title, eh? Well, it's true. Breaking through the transparency barrier really will change the world. I'll explain in this thread, so keep reading!👇 Image Public decency standards have been steadily loosening for around 150 years, with brief steps back in the 1950s and 1980s. The changes have been slow and impacted different clothing elements, so you hardly notice them happening. But today a bright line has been crossed. Image
Oct 30 4 tweets 2 min read
My predictions for the future of fashion, posted a month ago. Image Yes, I'm tired of being the most underappreciated writer on feminine beauty in the entire universe.
Oct 25 7 tweets 2 min read
An attractive female pfp/name gets ten times as many profile clicks as a male one for the exact same posts. This leads to exponentially higher follower growth. I A/B tested it years ago. So yes, women have a simply massive social advantage online due to basic human dynamics. I will prove it to you here. Below are two different links to my novel. One of them gets 100x the clicks of the other one. Can you guess which?

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Oct 18 5 tweets 2 min read
What breast size is really most attractive? Is bigger actually better, or is more than a handful a waste? In Episode 4 of the DISPELLING BEAUTY LIES podcast we answer these questions in an exhaustive and definitive way, and finally remove all doubt about the answers. Link below. Image Spotify: open.spotify.com/episode/6IGSnT…
Apple:
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