If a woman shows any of the following 20 behaviors, leave her.
Failing to walk away will cost you your time, energy, and resources:
1. If she only contacts you when she needs a favor
If she only calls or texts you when she needs something, she does not see you as a man she respects or desires. She sees you as a tool to use whenever it benefits her.
This is pure manipulation. A woman who truly values you will reach out to share moments, to laugh with you, and to spend time together. But if her conversations are always about needing money, rides, help with problems, or last-minute rescues, she is not genuinely interested in you.
A man who accepts this treatment ends up becoming her personal ATM, handyman, or chauffeur.
That is not love, it is exploitation. Real attraction shows in her effort to be around you, not in her ability to drain things from you.
If she only appears when she needs something, cut her off immediately.
2. If she is giving you inconsistent vibes
One day she is warm, affectionate, and acting like she really wants you. The next day she is cold, distant, and uninterested. This hot and cold pattern is not mystery or feminine energy. It is either low interest or emotional instability.
Women who are genuinely into you are consistent. They do not leave you wondering if they like you today but not tomorrow. They make their interest clear without confusion.
When a woman truly wants you, you will not need to decode her signals or spend nights guessing what she feels. She will show it through her behavior every single time. Never waste energy on women who confuse you. A woman is either into you or she is not. Walk away from everything in-between.
3. If she ghosts you
When a woman disappears without giving you an explanation, she is sending two clear messages. First, she does not value you. Second, she does not respect you.
Ghosting is one of the most disrespectful things a woman can do because it shows she does not care about your time, your effort, or your feelings. If she suddenly reappears later, it is rarely because she truly missed you. It usually means her other options failed and now she is coming back to use you as a backup.
Do not reward that behavior by taking her back. Once a woman ghosts you, the connection is over. Respect yourself enough to close the door permanently.
4. If she gives late or no replies
When a woman values you, she responds to you quickly and keeps the conversation alive. But if her replies always come hours or days late, or if she often ignores your messages completely, that is a strong signal of low interest.
She is showing you that you are not a priority. A man who keeps chasing after a woman who clearly does not value his attention only looks weaker with time.
High-value men never beg for replies. They never sit around waiting for a woman who does not prioritize them. If she is lukewarm in her communication, stop chasing her. Your goals and your self-respect deserve more than that.
5. If you feel like you are the only one putting in effort
Relationships are meant to be mutual. If you are always the one initiating conversations, planning dates, keeping the connection alive, and putting in energy while she barely does anything, then you are carrying dead weight.
A woman who is truly interested in you will not let you do everything alone. She will text you first sometimes, she will suggest plans, and she will make an effort to build something with you.
If you feel like the entire relationship is being held up by your effort alone, it means she is not invested. Stop carrying what she does not care to carry. Let her go.
6. If she is “busy” all the time
Everyone has responsibilities, but people always make time for what matters. If she constantly tells you she is too busy to see you, it means one thing. You are not a priority in her life.
“Busy” is usually just an excuse to keep you at a distance while she invests her energy elsewhere. And often, that “elsewhere” involves other men.
A woman who is truly attracted to you will move her schedule around and make time to see you. She will not keep you waiting or making excuses. If she is always too busy for you, accept the truth. She does not want you. Respect yourself and move on.
7. If her actions do not match her words
Words are cheap, actions reveal truth. Pay close attention to what she does, not just what she says.
If she tells you she likes you but never makes the effort to see you, to call you, or to get closer, then her words are empty. Women sometimes say the right things just to keep you hooked while they give their real attention to someone else.
A high-value man does not fall for promises. He watches her behavior. Believe her actions, not her words.
8. If she asks for space or a break
When a woman asks for space or says she needs a break, it is almost never about truly needing time alone. It usually means she wants to explore other men while keeping you as a safety net.
She does not want to fully let you go, but she also does not want to commit to you. That is selfishness, not love.
A woman who is truly attracted to you will never ask for space. She will want to be closer to you, not further. If she asks for a break, treat it as a breakup. She is done. You should be done too.
9. If you catch her lying multiple times
Trust is the foundation of any relationship. A small lie may be forgivable once, but repeated lies reveal her true nature.
If you catch her lying about where she was, who she was with, or details you can verify, it usually means there is much more she is hiding. A woman who lies consistently will destroy any relationship over time.
Once a liar, always a liar. Do not ignore dishonesty. It only grows with time and will cost you more pain later. Walk away before you get burned.
10. If she is disrespectful
Respect is non-negotiable. If a woman insults you, mocks you, talks down to you, or belittles you in public, she does not see you as her equal.
A woman who respects you will lift you up, not tear you down. The moment you allow disrespect, you teach her that it is acceptable. And once she loses respect, attraction dies immediately.
No respect means no relationship. The only solution is to end it right away.
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Attraction shows itself through effort. If a woman never initiates a conversation, never asks to see you, and only replies when you text her, she is not invested.
A woman who truly likes you will want to hear from you and will reach out herself. If you stop reaching out and she disappears, that is your answer. She never really wanted you.
12. If she is keeping your relationship a secret
If she hides you from her friends and family, she does not see you as a serious option. You are just filling a temporary space in her life.
A woman who values you is proud to show you off. She will want people to know she is with you. If she avoids introducing you, it is because she does not plan for you to stay long-term.
Do not waste your time being a secret option. Walk away.
13. If she flirts with other men in front of you
If a woman openly flirts with other men while being with you, that is blatant disrespect. It means either she is testing how much humiliation you will tolerate, or she does not care about you at all.
Both are unacceptable. A high-value man never competes for his own woman’s attention. If she chooses to disrespect you like that, she does not deserve you.
Leave her immediately.
14. If she constantly talks about her ex
If her ex keeps coming up in conversation, it is because she still has feelings for him. It does not matter if she talks about him in a positive or negative way. If he is still on her mind, she is emotionally unavailable.
You are simply being used as a rebound. A woman who is truly ready for you will not keep dwelling on her past.
Respect yourself enough not to compete with her ex.
15. If she refuses to meet you in person
Texting and calling are easy. Meeting in person requires real effort and real interest.
If she constantly avoids meeting you, cancels plans last minute, or always makes excuses, then she does not want to see you. A woman who truly likes you will be eager to meet.
Do not waste time being her digital pen pal. If she will not meet, walk away.
16. If she pressures you for gifts or money
A woman who truly values you will not demand financial favors. If she is constantly asking for gifts, money, or material things, it is not love. It is pure exploitation.
This is gold-digger behavior, not the behavior of a genuine partner. A healthy woman wants your presence and your attention, not your wallet.
Never allow yourself to be used as a provider for a woman who gives nothing back. Cut her off.
17. If she has a “guy best friend”
Most so-called “guy best friends” are just men waiting for their chance to be with her. If she prioritizes another man’s company, opinions, or emotional support over yours, you are being disrespected.
A woman who truly loves you will not need another man in that role. You should be her first choice.
If she insists on keeping him close, then you should remove yourself.
18. If she is addicted to male attention
If she constantly posts selfies, lives for likes, and thrives on the attention of random men online, then she is more invested in external validation than in you.
A woman who constantly needs attention will never give you peace. She will always crave her next hit of dopamine from strangers.
Do not waste your time competing with her ego. Leave her to her audience.
19. If she avoids intimacy
When a woman is genuinely into you, she craves closeness, both emotional and physical. If she avoids intimacy or constantly makes excuses, it usually means she is not attracted to you or she has deep issues she is hiding.
You deserve a woman who desires you fully, not one who keeps you begging for affection. If she does not want intimacy, accept the truth and move on.
20. If she constantly tests your patience
Flaky plans, mood swings, unnecessary drama, and endless games are not normal. Women test to see how much you will tolerate. The more you accept, the less respect she has for you.
A man with standards sets boundaries and enforces them. If she keeps crossing them and draining your energy with chaos, it means she does not value you.
Walk away and protect your peace.
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1. Hobbies & Interests: Ditch the Facts, Create the Emotion
Most men talk about their hobbies like they’re filling out a form at a boring interview.
❌ “I’ve been playing guitar for 10 years.”
❌ “I love hiking.”
❌ “I go to the gym every day.”
This kind of talk is flat. It gives her information, but it doesn’t create any spark.
Women aren’t moved by cold facts. They’re emotional creatures. They respond to energy, passion, and the way you make them feel when you describe something.
Instead of listing hobbies, paint the picture and let her feel it with you:
✅ “Playing guitar is therapy. When I hit that perfect note, it feels like electricity running through my veins.”
✅ “Hiking up that mountain nearly broke me. But when I reached the top, I felt unstoppable, like I conquered the world.”
✅ “I love when my muscles burn after a gym session. That rush is addictive.”
See the difference? You’re not explaining. You’re reliving. She feels what you feel.
When she feels something, she gets pulled into your world. And once she’s emotionally pulled in, she starts associating you with those powerful feelings. That’s what builds attraction.
2. Past Relationships: High-Risk, High-Reward
Talking about exes is dangerous territory. Handle it wrong and you kill the vibe.
Most men mess it up in one of three ways:
Complaining about their ex (you look bitter)
Over-praising their ex (you look weak and still attached)
Saying they’ve never had a girlfriend (you look inexperienced)
None of these help you. Women want a man who has history and options, but who also lives in the present and has standards.
The smart way to talk about exes? Keep it brief, positive, and focused on your growth.
✅ “My last relationship taught me a lot about what I want. I don’t waste time with women who don’t bring peace into my life.”
This line does two powerful things:
1. It shows maturity. You’re a man who learns and improves.
2. It sets a standard. She’ll unconsciously try to fit that standard.
If she brings up her ex, don’t play therapist. Keep it playful and confident.
Say something like: “Damn, I bet he’s punching the air right now.” Then switch topics.
This keeps the energy light while reminding her that she’s lucky to be talking to you.
1. Women Don’t Choose With Logic. They Choose With Emotions.
1. Women Don’t Choose With Logic. They Choose With Emotions.
A woman isn’t sitting down with a checklist, comparing pros and cons before deciding to sleep with a man. Attraction does not work like a job interview. Her decision happens in her body before it happens in her mind.
She feels who she wants. The feelings are sparked by qualities such as confidence, dominance, and power. These traits bypass logic and go straight to her instincts.
Think about it: she can know very well that you are a player, that you have options, that you are not the “safe choice” — but she still chases you. Why? Because you make her feel alive. You stir emotions she cannot control.
The truth is, attraction cannot be negotiated or reasoned into existence. You can’t talk her into liking you by being nice or listing your qualities. You must trigger emotions so strongly that her logical brain shuts down and desire takes over.
2. Hypergamy Controls Female Desire.
Hypergamy is the female instinct to want the best man she can get. It is not something women sit around plotting. It is hardwired into their psychology. Women naturally look for the strongest, the richest, the most dominant, and the man with the highest status.
This is why even if she says she “loves” her boyfriend, her loyalty can get tested the moment a man of higher value shows her interest. The comparison is automatic. She may not act on it, but her emotions react.
Example: a woman with a decent, loyal boyfriend might still find herself blushing or flirting when a celebrity, professional athlete, or millionaire gives her attention. She may rationalize it later, but the spark was real in the moment.
Hypergamy is not about women being “evil.” It is evolutionary. Women had to secure the best protector and provider for survival. Today, that survival instinct shows up as desire for the man with the most value. Your job as a man is to keep climbing. If you stop leveling up, you risk being replaced.
Psychology shows that hearing your own name activates the brain’s pleasure centers.
It is linked to self-image, identity, and belonging.
That’s why a text like “Hey” or “What’s up” is instantly forgettable. But when you say:
“Listen, Jessica…” or “You’re hilarious, Emily…” it immediately feels personal.
Her name is not just a label, it’s part of her ego. When you use it, you’re not just speaking to her. You’re speaking into how she sees herself. That’s powerful.
Use her name especially when teasing, flirting, or joking:
“Sophia, stop trying to seduce me through texts.”
“Amy, you’re such a menace. I’m calling the authorities.”
It makes her feel like the text was made for her and her alone. And when you do it playfully, it lingers in her head like a song lyric. Done right, it’s addictive.
Women are extremely careful about their privacy. They rarely tell a man where they live unless they feel safe and comfortable with him.
So, if she casually mentions that she lives alone, this is not random small talk. It is a signal. She is letting you know that there is no roommate, no protective father, no barrier. Just her.
For example, she might say:
“Yeah, I stay by myself. It’s nice having the place to myself.”
This is not just information. It is her way of planting the idea in your mind that being alone with her is possible. It is an indirect green light.
She is testing to see if you pick up on the hint. If you respond with confidence and calmness instead of nervousness, she will feel more secure to escalate further.
2. She Invites You to Her Place
When a woman invites you over, that is one of the clearest signals of sexual interest. But women rarely say it directly like “come over so we can hook up.”
Instead, they disguise it with innocent excuses.
“Want to come over and watch a movie?”
“I’m cooking tonight, you should join me.”
“It’s late, do you want to come in for a drink?”
This is called plausible deniability. She wants to create a situation where intimacy can happen naturally, without her being judged for making it happen.
She doesn’t want to look easy. She wants it to feel like it just happened.
If you play it cool and don’t act desperate, she will naturally let things progress. By the time you step into her space, she has already thought about intimacy with you.