I asked a former "player" who now has a 20-year happy marriage what his biggest regret was.

He said: "The one type of woman I should have never pursued."

This is what he told me…. 🧵 The Type: The Healing Project.

He said, “I confused a woman’s brokenness for depth, and her trauma for passion.

I thought fixing her would be my greatest conquest. It was my greatest waste.”

I asked a sex therapist,

“Why do so many men struggle to perform in bed?”

He smiled, and said: -Your body, mind, and habits determine everything. -How you live determines how you perform.

I asked, “So what’s really killing men's sexual game?”

Here is how he replied... 🧵 1. The Spectator Mindset

You have left your body and are watching yourself from the cheap seats.

You are mentally narrating: "Am I doing this right? Does she like this? How do I look?"

This is performance anxiety born of ego and over-analysis. True sexual power is presence.

It is the animalistic, unselfconscious immersion in sensation. The mind that critiques cannot connect.

If you agree on these 7 things at the beginning of a relationship, You’ll almost never break up:

1. The hierarchy of loyalty. You must explicitly agree that the union itself is the primary commitment, above individual desires, outside friendships, or familial interference.

This is the ancient "cleaving" principle. You leave to form a new, sovereign unit.

If this hierarchy is not established, competing loyalties will tear you apart.

Truths about female nature every man must know that will save his relationship from collapsing:;:;

1. Your woman Is Your Most Accurate Mirror. A woman’s disposition is a direct reflection of your own state.

Her nagging, disrespect, or coldness is often less about her and more about her reacting to a version of you that has lost his way, become weak, or grown complacent.

8 Rules of Masculinity.

If you want to transform from a boy to a man you should absolutely master these rules:;:;

1. Sovereignty Over Your Inner State. No external event

• A woman's mood,

• A professional setback,

• A criticism

Is permitted to dictate your internal peace and focus.

You alone are responsible for your emotions, your reactions, and your mindset.

This is the foundational stone of masculinity.

A wise woman once told me what she learnt from her 50 years old relationship.

Every young couple should know these:;:;

1. You marry a sinner. And so did they. The fantasy dies when you see the flaws.

The real love begins when you choose to love the flawed person in front of you, as they do the same for you.

15 Ways To Escalate Intimacy Through Text

(From Flirty to Romance)

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1. Plant the idea of intimacy early. Women respond strongly to suggestion and emotional imagery. Their attraction grows through anticipation, not logic.

When you introduce a subtle idea of intimacy early, such as a kiss or a shared moment, you are guiding her imagination. You are not pushing her. You are simply opening a mental door.

Once an image is planted in her mind, it begins to replay on its own. Her emotions attach to it. Over time, that image becomes more vivid, more emotional, and more personal.

This works especially well when attraction already exists, because the idea feels natural rather than forced. She begins associating you with warmth, closeness, and desire.

Every future interaction then carries an undercurrent of intimacy, even when the conversation is casual. That is how escalation becomes smooth and effortless.

Example:
“Our first kiss is gonna be amazing.”

10 Ways To Break A Woman’s Ego

1. Show Interest In Other Women A woman should never feel like she is the only option in your life too early.

When she believes she is already chosen, already secured, and already the prize, her effort drops.

Showing light interest in other women creates competition.

Competition activates her instincts.

It reminds her that she has to earn your attention, not just receive it.

This does not mean disrespecting her or acting immature.

It means you do not behave like your world revolves around her presence.

She must feel that you have options and that she is one of them, not the only one.

When a woman feels replaceable, she becomes more attentive, more feminine, and more invested.

The First 10 Things a Woman Notices About a Man

1. His Height A man’s height is one of the very first physical traits a woman subconsciously registers.

This happens before logic, before conversation, and even before attraction is fully formed. Height activates deep instincts related to safety, leadership, and masculine presence. Women do not consciously sit and analyze it, but their nervous system notices it instantly.

Most women do not need a man to be extremely tall. What they notice is whether you are clearly taller than them, especially when they wear heels. That physical contrast creates polarity. It reinforces the feeling that you are the masculine presence and she is the feminine one.

But height alone never carries a man.

Presence matters just as much, sometimes even more. A shorter man who stands upright, keeps his shoulders back, walks with calm certainty, and owns his space will always command more respect than a tall man who slouches, rushes, or looks uncomfortable in his own body.

Women are drawn to how a man occupies space. His posture, his walk, and his stillness communicate strength without words.

Men who improve their posture, move with intention, and carry themselves with calm authority naturally increase their attractiveness regardless of genetics.

Height is noticed instantly. Presence determines whether it works in your favor.

11 Signs She Likes You But She Is Just Shy

Female Psychology Thread

1. She uses the “light pull” method This behavior is subtle, but it carries strong meaning when you understand shy female psychology.

A shy girl often feels attraction deeply, but she is uncomfortable exposing herself emotionally. Because of this, she uses indirect communication to feel safe while still expressing interest.

She will say something that lightly pulls your attention, then quickly retreat. This can sound playful, casual, or even slightly self-protective.

Examples include statements like:

“You probably have a lot of girls chasing you.”
“I bet you are used to attention.”
“I was going to say something… never mind.”

These comments are not random. They are emotional probes.

She is testing how you respond without fully revealing her feelings. If you react warmly, confidently, or with calm amusement, she feels safer. If you ignore it or shut it down, she retreats emotionally.

Shy girls flirt in fragments. They drop small hooks instead of making bold moves.

They want connection, but they fear embarrassment. This is how they balance desire with safety.

When you notice these small verbal pulls, understand that they are intentional signals of attraction, not meaningless chatter.

8 Texting Cheat Codes That Will Get You The Hotties

(Learn how to make her have a lot of fun while texting you)

1. Play with her like a kid Yes, she’s a grown woman.
But emotionally?

She’s still a child craving play and chaos.

Tease her. Mock her. Challenge her. Call her out.

Example:

Her: “I love strawberries.”
You: “You look like the kind of girl who eats strawberries with a fork and knife.”

Or.

She says “I’m hungry.”

You: “Sounds like a you problem.”
Then send her a pizza emoji.

You’re not being rude. You’re training her to see you as a fun authority.

Women crave a man who can lead with humor and confidence.

That’s what real flirting is:

Playful, powerful, masculine energy.

16 CLEAR SIGNS A Girl Likes You And Sees You As Boyfriend Material

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1. She Gets Jealous A woman who genuinely likes you will feel jealousy when she senses that another woman could take your attention, time, affection, or commitment away from her.

This jealousy does not come from insecurity alone. It comes from emotional investment. She sees value in you and fears losing access to that value.

When a woman does not care about a man, she does not compete for him. Indifference creates emotional distance, not jealousy.

Jealousy shows that you matter in her emotional world. It shows that she sees you as someone worth holding onto, not someone easily replaceable.

Conversation Topics That Lead to S£x

(How to escalate a casual conversation into s£xual one)

1. The Innocent S£xual Framing Women rarely want to feel like they made a rational decision to sleep with a man. They do want intimacy, but they prefer it to feel emotional, spontaneous, and impossible to resist. The moment it becomes logical or transactional, the desire fades. They want experiences that feel natural, like the chemistry simply took over and the moment carried them away.

This is why framing intimacy as something that happens when the connection becomes too strong is powerful. It gives her emotional safety. It removes the idea of being judged. It allows her to feel like she is simply responding to powerful attraction, not “choosing” to be easy or intentional.

When you speak about passion, chemistry, or those uncontrollable moments between two people, you activate her imagination. Her mind starts remembering times she felt that pull toward someone. Or, if she has never felt it, she becomes curious and starts wondering what it would be like. You are creating an internal emotional movie where you are the lead character.

Use language that paints a picture of being swept away. Mention how two people can get lost in each other, how energy can build without warning, how moments can become intense without planning. It feels safe for her because she can believe it was the moment that created the intimacy.

A simple question like:

> “Ever had a moment where you just felt drawn to someone, and things just… happened?”

will instantly trigger emotional memory. If she says yes, she reconnects with the feeling. If she says no, you have created a new curiosity in her mind. Either way, you have opened a door to intimacy through emotional framing instead of logic.

11 Signs She Likes You But She Is Just Shy

Female Psychology Thread

1. She uses the “light pull” method The Dating Algorithm teaches you:

• How to understand women psychology and sexuality
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15 Ways To Escalate S-xually Through Text

(From flirty to romance)

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1. Plant the idea of intimacy early Women hate boring texts.

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8 Forbidden Desires Every Woman Secretly Craves But Will Never Admit

Female Psychology Thread 1. She Craves Risky S3x

Women crave excitement in intimacy because it activates both the emotional and physical parts of their desire at the same time.

Many women secretly want s3x that feels thrilling, bold and slightly forbidden. The element of risk increases adrenaline, which makes her more turned on and emotionally connected to the moment.

This could involve a public location where someone could walk in, that tiny fear of being caught, a new environment, or trying something taboo that breaks routine.

She might never openly express this fantasy, but it’s in her mind. When you create moments that feel spontaneous, unpredictable and full of tension, you unlock a side of her that she keeps hidden from most men.

12 Texting Cheat Codes That Will Get You The Hotties

(Learn how to make her have a lot of fun while texting you)

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1. Play with her like a kid Yes, she’s an adult. But emotionally, she’s still that playful child inside who craves excitement, laughter, and connection.

When you tease her, mock her lightly, or challenge her playfully, you’re not being rude.

You’re showing her that you understand the language of fun and that you can lead the interaction with confidence.

Example:

Her: “I love strawberries.”
You: “You look like the kind of girl who eats strawberries with a fork and knife.”

Or if she says, “I’m hungry,” reply with:
“You sound like a you problem.” Then send her a pizza emoji.

Or say, “I bet I can guess your favorite childhood snack. Want to bet?”

These kinds of responses make her laugh, disarm her ego, and get her emotionally engaged. Women are drawn to men who bring out their playful, feminine side.

When you combine humor with confidence, she feels like she’s around a man who’s in control but fun to be around.

That’s real flirting, relaxed, masculine, and emotionally leading.

Women cheat as much as men do.
They’re just better at doing it… and far better at hiding it.

Here are seven powerful psychological reasons that drive women to cheat.

1. Lack of Sexual Fulfillment

- THREAD - Many women cheat simply because they’re not satisfied in bed.

Her body still craves intimacy, passion, and intensity, but her partner no longer provides that spark.

When a woman’s s€xual needs go unmet for too long, it slowly creates emotional distance and resentment.

She begins to feel unseen, undesired, and disconnected from her feminine energy.

Over time, that emptiness makes her vulnerable to any man who can make her feel alive again, a man who touches her differently, looks at her differently, or makes her feel desired again.

Most men underestimate how deeply women crave emotional and physical connection through s€x.

When a woman is truly fulfilled in bed, she rarely looks elsewhere. But when she’s not, she starts imagining what it would feel like to be satisfied again.

Dear men,

I’m asking again… did you see your morning erection today or should I mind my business?

If not, it’s time to fix it.

Here’s how to get harder, feel bigger, perform better in bed, and boost your stamina naturally.

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1. Diet, Supplements & Food

Your erection starts in your blood, not your bedroom.

If your diet is full of processed foods, sugar, or alcohol, your blood flow and testosterone will crash — and so will your performance.

Start eating foods that naturally boost nitric oxide and testosterone:
✅ Arugula – boosts nitric oxide and enhances circulation
✅ Vitamin D – supports testosterone production
✅ L-Arginine & L-Citrulline – increase blood flow and erection quality
✅ Watermelon & Beetroot juice – expand blood vessels for stronger erections
✅ Dark chocolate & Pomegranate juice – rich in antioxidants that protect your blood vessels

A clean diet = clean blood flow = stronger, fuller erections.

5 Natural Ways to CURE Erectile Dysfunction (ED) Permanently

(Most men realize this too late…)

1. Improve Blood Circulation (Your D!ck Needs Flow)
Weak erections are a direct result of poor blood circulation.

If your blood vessels are clogged or your heart isn’t pumping efficiently, your penis simply won’t receive the amount of blood it needs to stay hard. Erections are a vascular process, and when your circulation is compromised, your erection strength suffers too.

What kills circulation:
❌ Being overweight (fat blocks arteries and slows blood flow)
❌ Sitting too much, which weakens pelvic muscles and restricts oxygen flow to the groin
❌ Processed foods, sugar, and alcohol, which damage blood vessels over time
❌ Smoking, which constricts arteries and reduces nitric oxide production
❌ Excessive drinking, which lowers testosterone and damages blood flow