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Sep 4, 2025 16 tweets 5 min read Read on X
Stanford paid 35,000 people to quit social media.

This was the largest study on emotional health in history.

The results were so shocking, scientists called it "comparable to therapy."

Here's what happens when you break free from the algorithm:
🧵 Image
Over 35,000 people took part.

They were paid to deactivate either Instagram or Facebook for 6 weeks.

It was done right before the 2020 Presidential Election.

And the results were undeniable:
Participants didn’t just feel better.

They were measurably happier, less anxious, and less depressed.

• Facebook users saw a 6% improvement in emotional well-being
• Instagram users saw a 4% improvement

And not only that... Image
The researchers found that:

• Quitting Facebook was 15% as effective as therapy
• Quitting Instagram: 22% as effective
• Both eliminated over half of this election-related stress.

But here's the twist: Image
These people didn’t stop using their phones.

They just switched to other apps.

That means time on social media ≠ time on other apps.

Social media is measurably worse for us.
As Psychologist Angela Duckworth put it:

Our phones are “adult pacifiers.”

But her other point is deeper:

You can't break free with willpower. Change your environment instead.

She calls it situation modification.
The Stanford study proved something we already knew deep down:

You don’t need to give up your phone.

You just need to be more intentional with your time.

Here's where you can start:👇
It's important to set boundaries with social media.

Start with a screen time app like Roots.

There are several good ones out there.

Here's why this is key:

getroots.link/aNqv9fK
Apps like Roots keep you accountable.

When blocking is active, you can't uninstall or unblock.

This extra friction is key.

Here's how to use it effectively in 4 steps: Image
1. Block social media apps

Keep social media blocked by at all times.

Force yourself to unblock it intentionally.

Create just enough pause to break the loop.
2. Schedule downtime

Set fixed windows to go full "Monk Mode" with social media completely blocked.

• Mornings (5am-9am): no social media or news apps
• Evenings: (6pm-midnight): no social media or work apps

This downtime helps rewire your brain. Image
3. Instant app blocking

Sometimes I need to block everything:

• Stay focused when I'm doing deep work
• Reduce the temptation to “just check for a second”
• Block distracting apps when I get in the car

I use it daily. Image
4. Pick scroll replacements

Simple things you can use to redirect yourself away from scrolling.

Go for a walk, pick up a book, or play with your dog.

Roots will direct me to better things (like Lucy) when apps are blocked. Image
With small changes, my phone usage has dropped from 4 hours to around 1 daily.

Pickups from 150 to 50 daily.

My mind feels clearer, calmer, more focused. Image
Setting boundaries with social media is key.

Focus is your most valuable asset in today's distracted world.

Here's a link to the screen time app I mentioned:

getroots.link/aNqv9fK
Video Credits:
- Angela Duckworth at Bates: Push those cell phones away |
Bates College
- 30 Days Without Social Media | My Transformation | Niklas Christl

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It’s how the brain thinks out loud.

Many highly intelligent people keep this habit into adulthood.
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They can manage strong emotions without suppressing them.

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1. You fill every free moment scrolling. Image
Waiting in line. Short breaks. Even in the bathroom.

You reach for your phone automatically and lose track of time without noticing.

This isn’t boredom. It’s habitual, unintentional use.
2. You keep checking your phone even when you want to stop.

You unlock it “for one thing”.

Then open multiple apps without thinking.

Losing time awareness is a core marker of behavioral addiction.
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A shaky sense of self.

This can show up as relentless self-criticism or shame, or feeling “bad” about yourself even when nothing is actually wrong.
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A senior cardiologist uncovered a shocking pattern:

After analyzing 12,000 heart cases, he found the trigger behind 90% of heart attacks.

It's not cholesterol, diet, or age.

But this ONE morning habit most people repeat every day: Image
Heart attacks peak between 6:00–10:00 a.m.

ECG data shows heart rate variability drops shortly after waking.

The cause isn’t physical effort...

It’s abrupt mental stimulation.
And yes, most of us are guilty, we wake up and:

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• Flood our brain with urgency before the body stabilizes

The heart hasn’t even synced blood pressure yet.
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Some people never post photos online.

No selfies. No updates. No “look at me” moments.

In a world built for attention, their silence stands out.

Here’s what psychology says it really means: Image
1. Privacy over popularity

They’re not antisocial, they’re intentional.

Psychologists call it a high privacy orientation.

They value control over what others see and think about them.

They don’t overshare because they know peace needs protection.
2. Self-validation > social validation

Most people post for likes. They don’t need to.

Their self-worth isn’t crowdsourced.

They rely on inner alignment, not external approval.

That’s quiet confidence, not insecurity. Image
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