Jung warned that we hide behind a “persona”—a mask built by society.
Heidegger saw this as inauthentic living.
• We chase borrowed goals.
• Money. Approval. Status.
But anxiety rips those away, demanding we choose our own path.
To break free:
• Write down your top 3 life goals
• Cross out the ones shaped by others’ expectations
• Circle the one(s) you’d still choose if no one ever knew
That’s the beginning of authentic living.
Step 3: Act from Authentic Choice
Every anxious moment is a crossroads.
Do you conform automatically?
Or do you act from what is authentically yours?
Psychology shows that avoidance fuels anxiety, while authentic action reduces it.
To practice:
• Before saying “yes,” pause
• Ask: If no one judged me, would I still do this?
• If the answer is no, decline politely and move on
Every “no” to the false self is a “yes” to freedom.
Step 4: Use Mortality as a Compass
Freud saw death as the hidden driver of behavior.
Heidegger reframed it: mortality is not terror—it is our greatest teacher. Every anxious thought reminds us that time is finite.
Instead of despair, use this awareness to act with urgency.
To apply:
• Each morning, remind yourself: life is finite
• Write one action you’d be proud of if today were your last
Mortality stops being fear—it becomes fuel for meaning.
Modern psychology echoes this.
Research on “existential therapy” shows that facing death anxiety directly increases resilience, meaning, and vitality.
Heidegger intuited what science now validates:
Mortality makes life matter.
Here are some practical takeaways:
When anxiety strikes—
• Pause and write down what triggered it
• Notice what false belief is collapsing
• Choose one authentic step forward
• Act as if time is short
Anxiety shifts from a prison → to a doorway --to YOUR freedom.
The beauty of Heidegger’s approach:
• No denial of suffering
• No shallow positive thinking
• No endless avoidance strategies
This journey is hard to do alone. That’s why guidance and accountability matter.
P.S. As a Ph.D. psychology grad from @UTAustin with a Postdoc from
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