Since we’re talking 🏳️⚧️ trans cult and shooter, here’s my 2cents as an ex-trans conservative:
Trans is used in 2 ways.
1. Person with gender dysphoria (wants to be the other sex) 2. Person who is queer (wants to destroy social norms)
Violent trans people are always queer. Queer = antisocial
Those who suffer from gender dysphoria are mentally ill and deserve compassion to accept their bodies. I coach these youth with every day.
Activists target youth with gender issues to encourage them into political destruction. Transtifa, woke mobs, leftist feminist groups.
It can be hard to separate troubled youth from activist youth brainwashed through online extremism.
Adults: keep your kids away from activist circles. Away from the discord servers, lgbt clubs, and anything that encourages a victim-oppressor worldview.
Parents: Get your kids away from anyone who affirms their illusions, vet all friends, teachers, and doctors.
Yes, many therapists, pediatricians, and psychiatrists will tell your child they are trans and divide your relationship. Find counsel who are non-affirming.
Young people: Reflect on if your social group is based in trauma, fighting oppressors, and controlling language or freedoms. You may be in a cult.
A healthy belief system does not encourage censorship, policing of thought (including misgendering), or wishing harm to others.
Concerned citizens: if a young person in your life comes out as trans, consider that both a cry for help and a warning sign of potential political activation.
Befriend that person, listen, ask questions and learn their views. Watch for warning signs they are in a cult.
Most dysphoric people are not violent, just hurting. If their hurt persists, they become more likely to find affirmation through extremist groups online who may radicalize them into praxis.
Healing dysphoria is very possible. It is possible to leave the trans cult and thrive in loving community who don’t encourage self-harm.
If you would like to consult a trans cult survivor, my DMs are open.
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Shame is a deeply selfish state. Often, instead of taking action to right whatever wrong was committed, the person collapses into self loathing, leaving their error unresolved. 🧵
They then justify avoidance of repairing the issue through self loathing. A convenient way to never change. It is selfish because not changing hurts others.
Much easier to declare yourself “a piece of shit” to avoid accountability than to improve through better choices.
The person then justifies even more sabotage and the shame cycle repeats.
Want to break that? Get in integrity. You already know what you should fix. Stop self pity and allow compassion. Punishing yourself hurts others and your future self.
You deserve forgiveness and change.
I’ve been thinking of how I use the label “detransitioner.”
I don’t want to use it anymore. Here’s why: 🧵
On one hand, it’s a shorthand term that describes my past experiences of gender transition and stopping.
I did take hormones and have surgery. Then I came to my senses and stopped pretending to be a man.
It caused ptsd. The surgery is permanent. It’s a big part of my past.
On the other, it describes a transitory state, a healing period. Detransition is a return to self and reality, it requires deep work and social re-integration.
New thought about leaving the left: survivor’s guilt🧵
Those who leave the unconscious leftist media maze often experience:
1. Relief: stepping out of the matrix 2. Confusion: who was I? who am I now? 3. Guilt: knowing our fellow man, especially family, is still trapped inside
Survivor’s guilt happens when you escape something harmful
but instead of pure relief, you feel grief.
You wonder:
-Why did I make it out and others didn’t?
-Could I have helped them?
-Do I deserve the freedom I now have?
It’s a mourning of the people still trapped.
For many who leave the left, it’s the same.
You escape the psychological maze of coercion and illusion but you still love the people inside.
You want to bring them with you.
You ache watching them double down.
You grieve because you understand: You can’t save them.
Every year I do an end of year review of my accomplishments.
It’s easy to focus on the negative or things you still have to improve in the new year—I suggest everyone make a detailed list (gratitude.) ☺️
Here’s my 2024 accomplishments and reflections🧵
January:
-Did stand up for the first time! Killed.
-Road tripped with friends especially @ChoooCole which was awesome and stayed in the coolest Airbnb that had an elevator
February:
-Wrote the majority of my memoir beginning here and by end of year am 3/4ths done with it!
March:
-Filmed new documentary and traveled to Phoenix deciding to move there!
-Planned a whole move by myself and took the leap of faith that my life could be better out of my hometown
April: Said goodbye to my 4 pet rats who died RIP my sons 🐀❤️