Men enjoy things that are predictable and make sense:
• Sports with clear regulations (+ penalties for breaking them)
• Rules to follow for life (“Do X and you’ll receive Y good thing”)
• Civilizations with straightforward, tradition-based legal codes
Women prefer surprise, unpredictability, and emotional roller-coasters:
• Games that can go any direction (“Never have I ever…”)
• Believing things ‘just happen’ (“Some day my prince will come”)
• Civilizations that update laws to serve the whims of the moment
• Sports with clear regulations (+ penalties for breaking them)
• Rules to follow for life (“Do X and you’ll receive Y good thing”)
• Civilizations with straightforward, tradition-based legal codes
Women prefer surprise, unpredictability, and emotional roller-coasters:
• Games that can go any direction (“Never have I ever…”)
• Believing things ‘just happen’ (“Some day my prince will come”)
• Civilizations that update laws to serve the whims of the moment
https://x.com/GirlsChase/status/1984992295582916805
This is yet another reason why, in the game of romance and relationships, being the serious, stable, ‘all business’ guy is so boring to women.
→ Yes, women will say they want stability — when they are coming off a breakup with yet another exciting guy who’s left them still reeling with roller-coaster emotions.
→ Yes, once you get into a settled relationship, you need some degree of stability past a certain point (especially if/when there are children involved).
But during the courtship, during seduction, you need MORE variability, spontaneity, and thrills for girls.
Even during the ongoing relationship, you should never be COMPLETELY predictable.
The men who keep women hooked into them are the men women cannot completely predict.
→ Yes, women will say they want stability — when they are coming off a breakup with yet another exciting guy who’s left them still reeling with roller-coaster emotions.
→ Yes, once you get into a settled relationship, you need some degree of stability past a certain point (especially if/when there are children involved).
But during the courtship, during seduction, you need MORE variability, spontaneity, and thrills for girls.
Even during the ongoing relationship, you should never be COMPLETELY predictable.
The men who keep women hooked into them are the men women cannot completely predict.
💡 Helpful hint: 💡
Once you start prioritizing yourself somewhat above a woman, while still considering her a priority (just not quite as MUCH of one as yourself) you tend to become very naturally surprising and roller-coaster-y:
• She tries to get you to do stuff, fails, pouts;
• Then your desires change and now you want to do stuff, she gets a pleasant surprise;
• Meanwhile other times she tries to get you to do stuff, you are down to do stuff, do it, she is excited
… and so on and so forth.
This natural variability from prioritizing your wants just a bit above hers keeps things stabler for you and MORE EXCITING for her.
Once you start prioritizing yourself somewhat above a woman, while still considering her a priority (just not quite as MUCH of one as yourself) you tend to become very naturally surprising and roller-coaster-y:
• She tries to get you to do stuff, fails, pouts;
• Then your desires change and now you want to do stuff, she gets a pleasant surprise;
• Meanwhile other times she tries to get you to do stuff, you are down to do stuff, do it, she is excited
… and so on and so forth.
This natural variability from prioritizing your wants just a bit above hers keeps things stabler for you and MORE EXCITING for her.
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