The average woman on an average day operates in a kind of ‘autopilot’ ✈️

She scrolls her phone on autopilot.

She checks social media on autopilot.

She goes to class or work on autopilot.

And before you get girls to CHASE you, you must first wake up them OUT of autopilot! ❌✈️ We do this with something called a ‘pattern interrupt’.

A pattern interrupt is anything so unexpected it disrupts a girl’s mental roadmap for day-to-day life 🤯

It can’t be handled by her autopilot.

As such, it forces her OUT of autopilot – making her inner pilot take control.

You know what the secret to SEDUCTIVE humor is?

✅ It must be light
✅ It must be unexpected
✅ It must be sensual
✅ It must create high points

Learn to effortlessly craft girl-attracting humor — watch the video on my Lush Teases™ Method now 👇🏻

courses.girlschase.com/page/lush-teas… Lush Teases™ helped Michael calibrate his teasing so girls don’t have to tell him to “stop and be serious” anymore.

Now his teasing is much more fun and helps him get more dates.

Sometimes you’ll have a girl who’s not into you at all.

Then she sees you on a date or with a new girlfriend, and suddenly she won’t leave you alone.

This behavior seems bizarre and confusing from a male perspective,

Yet for women it makes TOTAL SENSE. As men, our attraction works pretty simple.

We see a pretty girl and we like her.

There’s more to it than that, of course.

But let’s be honest: that’s about 85% of it, right?

Not so for womankind!

There’s a romantic leadership crisis among men and women.

Women are doing what they have always done and waiting for men to lead.

But now men are also adopting the feminine role & waiting for women to lead.

When this happens, dating, sex, love, & happiness dry up. Women aren’t men. They can never lead.

They can’t:

🆇 Make overt moves on men they like
🆇 Invest on their own and direct their effort smartly
🆇 Lead things to the bedroom or the wedding chapel

… unless they come PRE-TRAINED by other men, or else are very MASCULINE.

When men don’t approach women, that doesn’t mean “it’s time for women to approach!”

The feminine role is not to approach. It is to signal receptive, confident, dominant men to approach.

When men don’t, it means there are no receptive, confident, dominant men in the vicinity. Men who never approach have a litany of reasons why.

Women are too entitled, too rude, too quick to reject, too unfeminine, and so on.

And this is true for some women – maybe even many women.

But it isn’t true for all women; yet these men don’t approach those women either.

If you want to meet girls & actually attract them to you, you have to COMMUNICATE that you’re “on the market and looking”, because a lot of men aren’t.

Here’s the caveat: you must do this WITHOUT chasing or looking needy.

Let me show you why that is & how to (simply) do it 👇🏻 Everybody, men and women alike, goes through different “phases.”

• Sometimes we’re preoccupied with work.
• Sometimes we’re in a relationship & “off the market.”
• Sometimes we’re sad or depressed & not really “looking.”

Only a bit of the time do we ACTIVELY search out dates

If (as a man, which I am) I had to learn dating from scratch in 2025, here’s what my step-by-step process would be: 1. Find a fashion hair stylist in my area. Book an appointment. Go, and tell the stylist I want a new haircut that is going to fit my face and make me look sexy.

The right sexy/trendy haircut makes your face look completely different (and better).

Why do good guys always seem to finish last with girls?

Because attraction isn’t about goodness—it’s about electrifying the girl.

The female brain craves arousal: excitement, unpredictability, TENSION.

The men who give her that, she chases after FOR MORE.

Let me show you… 👇 When people are stimulated by something, it causes more activity in their brains (second image below).

We call this ‘more stimulated’ brain an AROUSED brain.

When brains are aroused, they feel excited.

They zip to attention, get present, and FOCUS.

All right boys, let’s talk SIGNS SHE’S A NYMPHOMANIAC

(either to SPOT her if you’re looking for a great shag… or AVOID when wife hunting!)

NYMPHOMANIAC SIGN #1: She Is VERY Confident

We’re talking laser eye contact, full self-assurance, nothing you say shakes her. NYMPHOMANIAC SIGN #2: She’s Very Direct

Ordinary girls are anything but direct.

Nymphos, though? They will TELL YOU what they like!

NYMPHOMANIAC SIGN #3: She’s Very Comfortable with Sexual Subjects

She likes sex. She’s cool talking about it. No reservations.

Women do not fully understand why certain guys make them OBSESSED.

This chick gets SOME parts of the picture. All these are accurate (when mixed together):

➡️ He pays her attention
➡️ She’s lonely
➡️ She’s idealizing him
➡️ She’s not over her ex
➡️ He doesn’t want her so she wants to conquer him
➡️ He’s a distraction from her other life issues

As a guy, mixing those two elements (paying her attention while seeming not to want her) WILL drive a lot of girls crazy.

Also, nearly all unattached (normal, neurotypical) women are lonely and seeking distraction from their lives. Most single women are not fully over their ex until they have a new guy either.

But there is MORE to it than this. Riddle me this:

Why do some guys who pay attention to her yet not seem to want her, get her OBSESSED…

While others fail to?

Little tip that will 4x the % of women you ask out who go on dates

(it both RAISES 📈 the yeses you get while PLUNGING 📉 ghosts & flakes):

Before you properly ask a woman out,

First take 2 seconds & deliver a ‘soft close’,

A low pressure move that ‘eases her into’ going out. The soft close (I also call it The Small Ask™) works thus:

Rather than make an all-in-one BIG request, that is higher pressure, and HARDER for her to say “yes” to,

You break your date request up into a few smaller steps,

Easing her along the agreement pathway to a “yes.”

“I didn’t feel a spark.” ✨❌

“We just lacked chemistry.” ⚗️❌

Guys work really hard to avoid girls saying this about them.

But it has nothing to do with how cool, valuable, or impressive you are.

It has EVERYTHING to do with how much you make her SHARE! As a novice dater, I used to meet girls all the time who I thought “got” me.

We’d vibe, have a wonderful chat, & I’d take their numbers.

Yet no matter what I messaged, many would never text me back.

Ghosted… 😔

I just could not understand it. Why throw that connection away?

Women constantly signal for the men they want to meet.

Glances, hair flicks, preening, arching their backs…

Female behavior is a billboard that says “Come meet me!”

Yet a lot of guys are totally oblivious to these signs…

Or, if they see them, they think it’s not for them! The way it works in normal male-female courtship is this:

The woman signals, the man responds.

The way the man responds is to approach.

The funny thing is both woman and man will say the man made the first move.

It isn’t true though; SHE did!

Every day, guys have deep and meaningful conversations with girls.

They bond, connect, and form thick emotional ties.

Yet no matter how deep the connection, if it’s missing a key element, it’ll never be more than “friends.”

That missing element?

A little item called AROUSAL. “Arousal” is the name we give the feeling of alertness and presence in the brain.

We can be aroused by a dangerous situation or a nice surprise.

A lover’s gaze, touch, or tease can arouse our interest too.

Yet until we’re aroused, we’re in “standby” mode.

DEAD BEDROOMS ☠️🛏️ COME FROM
𝙋𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙝𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 😠 + 𝙇𝙖𝙘𝙠 𝙤𝙛 𝙍𝙚𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 😩

Everyone on X has read the many dead bedroom horror stories people share.

5 years in, 10 years in, 20 years in… and ZERO intimacy.

No one realizes most people CAUSE dead bedrooms THEMSELVES. The brain is an amazing organ 🧠✨

It learns to run TOWARDS or AWAY from things purely based on experience.

🚨 ATTENTION INCELS! 🚨

ᴸᵒᵒᵏˢ ᵈᵒ ⁿᵒᵗ ᵍᵉᵗ ᵍⁱʳˡˢ

Looks do not get girls.

𝙇𝙊𝙊𝙆𝙎 𝘿𝙊 𝙉𝙊𝙏 𝙂𝙀𝙏 𝙂𝙄𝙍𝙇𝙎!


This is George.

He was People Magazine’s “Sexiest Man of the Year” twice.

These are George’s first and second wives.

Moving SLOW 🐢 with women doesn’t make you a gentleman.

It just makes you LOSE girls you SHOULD’VE had!

That’s because 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘦.

Fail to ‘close’ a girl before time is up, and she is lost… 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿.

🧵 1) If a girl likes you, she DOESN’T want you to “take it slow.”

She’s excited for you.

You making moves tells her 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘳.

She 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲𝘀 that.

A lot of guys think a ‘High Value Man’ is one who’s rich and muscular.

Those things are indeed kinds of value.

But they’re not the most attractive ‘value’ to women.

If you’re unaware of this, it can lead to lots of pain & suffering when you build it but the girls don’t come. First off: if you’re gay, asexual, aromantic, voluntarily long-term celibate, or something else not interested in women, this thread doesn’t apply to you.

Don’t worry about it.

This thread is just for the dudes who want CHICKS.

Have you ever had a girl you felt REALLY connected to completely and utterly ghost you?

It’s crazy, right? Why would she throw away a connection like that?

The mind-boggling reason is because, in reality, many initial connections are in point of fact (surprisingly) ONE-SIDED. Feeling connected is a weird phenomenon where we assume it’s mutual,

But in fact it’s often one-sided, especially when people first meet.

That’s because of how people actually form connections.

Men often do not understand this about women, but:

Women’s attraction to you, as a man, is EXTREMELY fluid.

A girl can be very into you, then not into you at all.

Then she can be re-interested in you all over again!

To men, this can seem very confusing – but it shouldn’t. Women, unlike men, are ‘behavioral screeners’.

This means that while you (a guy) evaluate her based on her looks,

She (a girl) evaluates you based on your BEHAVIOR.

Her looks don’t change day to day. But your behavior does.

When you give stuff to women and do stuff for them, it doesn’t make them like you more.

Instead, the opposite happens: YOU like THEM more.

This is called “sunk cost.”

If your goal is actually to get girls more into YOU, you need to be on the receiving end, not the giving one. The way investment works is simple:

The more someone invests in someone else, the more invested in that person he or she becomes.

If you do a lot for her, you like her more & commit to her more.

If she does a lot for you, she likes you more & commits to you more.